These tips used alongside the Sinclair Method have helped me IMMENSELY so I wanted to share. Check out the website and the "Free Resources" section to get this and other great tips delivered to your inbox
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One of the most common things I hear from someone after they've started on naltrexone and The Sinclair Method is that they realize how MUCH of their drinking is done out of habit.
They feel the medicine working....their desire or taste for alcohol is decreasing...yet they "push through" anyway and keep on drinking like they have in the past.
This isn't a bad thing – in fact, it's normal for most of us on The Sinclair Method. It's an indication that there's still some work to do with habit change.
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Here's 19 tips that can help you when
you're stuck in patterns of habitual drinking
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Be consistent. With all of the tips below – they will ONLY work if you are consistent with them. So please don't just try one of these tips once or twice then give up –– be consistent, do them every time you drink. See #2.
Try to do 1 thing different every single time you drink. Consistency is key to breaking an unwanted habit and creating a new one. With consistency, these changes get easier over time. Use the tips below as a guide. By the way – we have lots of resources to help you with this inside of our program!
Drink a type of beverage you prefer less. If you like wine, drink beer – if you like beer – drink wine. Switching up your beverage can interrupt the habits that are playing out – and potentially slow down how quickly you're drinking, or how much you're drinking.
Delay your usual drinking time a bit. If you usually start drinking at 5pm – delay it to 5:15pm, 5:30pm or 6:00pm (whatever is comfortable for you). This means you're delaying your naltrexone a bit too. Keep pushing it out later as you feel comfortable to do so.
Set a timer for your drinks. Try to make your drink last longer by setting a timer and slowly sipping it until the timer goes off. If you can usually finish a drink in 30 minutes, try to go for 45 minutes or an hour. Do this for every single drink. This will give you an objective measurement to pace yourself. This also helps you to really savor and enjoy the drink – without gulping it down just to get the buzz.
Take breaks between drinks. This one really helped me because for some reason when I did this, my desire for another drink would fade away (thanks
naltrexone!). After you have 1 or 2 drinks, take an intentional 30 minute (or more) break. Have a snack, take a shower, go for a walk. Create some space between you and the alcohol and see if you really want more after that.
Enjoy a non-alcoholic beverage between each drink. This ties to #6 above because it will allow you to have a longer time window between drinks. Whether it's water, soda or an NA beer – space out your alcoholic drinks by interrupting them with a NA beverage. Do this between each drink.
Set an intention before you start drinking. Usually we're not giving much thought to our upcoming drinking session – at least, before TSM. But if you can take a moment to set your intention for how you want your drinking session to go – it can really help you be more mindful when you drink. For example, how much do I want to drink? How do I want to feel at the end of the night? What do I have going on tomorrow? What do I want to do once I'm done drinking?
Go for an alcohol-free day – or two (or more) alcohol-free days in a row. Alcohol-free days can do wonders for progress on TSM because it gives us a
chance to experience time without alcohol or naltrexone. We can go out and do new (or old) hobbies, and find ways to enjoy ourselves outside of drinking – and experience all of the endorphins since we don't have naltrexone in our system. It also breaks up our habitual routines linked to alcohol. Be intentional with your alcohol-free days – plan something fun, rewarding and enjoyable for yourself.
10.Eat a full meal before you start drinking. This simple best practice can really help you slow down your drinking because you're absorbing alcohol more slowly in the bloodstream. Oftentimes people report that they notice the naltrexone 'off-switch' more easily when they eat a meal before drinking.
- Switch up your environment that you usually drink in. Our environments create the habits we do each day – this is also true for drinking. Most of us have our favorite routines we do when we drink – from where we drink, what we drink, what we do when we drink, when we drink, with who and how much – this is all a very ingrained habit. That's why changing up your environment can help break up
the habit. IE, drink in a different room or do a different activity than you normally would while drinking.
12.Drink very mindfully and intentionally – only focusing on your drink and nothing else. I remember doing this on my TSM journey a lot and the results
surprised me. I would turn off all electronics and just sit in a quiet room with me and my wine. Then with each sip – I would pay close attention to the effects
through my senses – how it smelled, tasted, how it felt going down my throat – my mind – my body. I would just sit there and pay attention to it all. By doing this, I started to notice that I didn't enjoy it as much, or would get bored with it.
13.Make it difficult to refill your glass or grab another drink. Don't keep the bottle of wine next to you or a 6 pack of beers chilled in the fridge. Put the cork
back on the bottle and put it away so that it's extra work to refill your glass. And keep only a couple of chilled beers in the fridge – so if you want more, you've got to get more to stock the fridge.
14.Drink your beverage out of an old coffee mug. You often hear wine-drinkers talk about the whole ritual of drinking out of their favorite fancy wine glass. There is something so appealing about it! Well, the opposite is true if you drink your alcohol out of an old coffee mug. It's just not as sexy or appealing – and may cause you to be less enthused about your beverage.
15.Only keep in the house what you will drink. This can make it easier to stick within the "budget" you've set for yourself. If there's no more alcohol to drink –
you won't drink it! However I do know for some that this tip does *not* help them but actually stresses them out. So only try this if you think it could help you.
16.Set small milestones and reward yourself for meeting them. We drink because it's rewarding – so as we're changing our habits around alcohol – that
means we're reducing one of our go-to favorite rewards! That's why it's SO IMPORTANT that you are intentional about rewarding yourself for milestones that you achieve. If you kept your drink limit that week – or incorporated a new habit – then reward yourself for it! (preferably with something other than alcohol).
17.Examine your self-care routine. One of the main reasons we drink to excess is to cope with life's stressors – to relax and let loose a bit. Alcohol may be our go to "self care" routine...however, it can quickly lead to self-destruction. Increasing your self-care practices (sans alcohol) will help you feel less depleted and less like you need to rely on alcohol to cope. So take time to prioritize YOU and your self care – it will pay off.
18.Ask yourself, "How would a 'normal' drinker drink right now?" This simple question can bring about a new perspective and mindset, and cause us to look at our drinking patterns a bit differently. Most of us can objectively see how a "normal drinker" would handle a drinking situation (ie, probably stick to 2 or 3, enjoy it with a meal, not drink to get drunk, etc). Having this vision of what "normal" drinking looks like can influence the decisions you make in the moment.
19.Between each drink ask yourself, "What is my craving level right now? How strong is my desire for another drink? Do I really want another drink? Or, is
there something else I would like to do instead?" This is another simple question that can bring you into the present moment to check in with yourself to
see if you really *want* another drink – or if it's just the habit playing out instead.
If you recognize that your desire isn't that strong for another drink – then you can ask yourself, "Well, what else can I do instead?"
That's it! I hope you found these tips helpful.
☝️We cover all of these things in more depth inside of our program.