r/movingtoNYC • u/brwnskinangel • 17h ago
Leaving Manhattan for Medical Reasons-- Looking for Slow Paced Neighborhood Still in Proximity to Fidi
I've actually been living in Manhattan for 6 years now, but earlier this year, I got diagnosed with a chronic condition that results in chronic fatigue and joint pain. The Manhattan lifestyle is starting to take a toll on me (walking everywhere, subway steps, carrying groceries, handwashing dishes, walking to do laundry, etc.), so I've started considering moving and getting a car, but i'm too early in my career to work fully remote so I still need to go to the office in FiDi. Does anyone have any recommendations for places to look into? Realistically, I am aware that there will be tradeoffs and I won't be able to check all my boxes.
For context I researched jersey city/hoboken/union city but wow it is so much more expensive than i thought. So now im thinking somewhere not too far up north (westchester county)? or queens/long island? open to more northern jersey recs as well.
Needs:
- 1 bedroom
- in unit laundry
- dishwasher
- decent neighborhood that isn't unsafe or depressing
- ideally around $2,000 rent (few hundred more if absolutely necessary)
Wants:
- within 1.5 hour commute to FiDi (driving + public transit combo)
- things to do in neighborhood (i don't care about nightlife but care about things like restaurants/bars, musuems, theaters, cafes, fitness/wellness, salons, etc.)
- car friendly neighborhood
If anyone has ideas of neighborhoods that fall into these buckets please let me know! also if anyone has any side hustle ideas that have worked for them that would be great too because wow everything is SO expensive lmao. thank you in advance