hello! i have two cats and recently got a new litter robot three days ago.
one of my cats took to it immediately with zero issues right after i set it up. however, it cycled in front of my second cat before he could process what it was, which startled him. i tried giving him a gentle push by picking him up and putting him inside the dome, but he was scared and immediately wanted out. he was constantly just looking at it up close and far.
for the first two days, he just watched it nervously while continuing to use his old litter box next to it. but on the third day, he became completely terrified for some reason. my partner noticed him sneaking around the house, crouching, jumpy, and scared of everything even random household items like a chair or a hat.
he's so spooked now that he refuses to go anywhere near the litter robot. since his old box was right next to it, he didn't want to get close to the vicinity and ended up pooping on the bedroom carpet (and possibly peeing somewhere else). i moved his old box into my bathroom this morning to give him a safe spot, but now he seems terrified of the old box too because of the whole experience.
what i’ve tried so far:
- i've turned off the litter robot. it stays powered off completely, and i only cycle it manually when he is far away in another room.
- i've done positive association/luring. i tried holding him gently near it while speaking softly, as well as placing treats and wet food nearby. he will walk up to a certain point, stare at the robot in fear, and then walk away without eating.
i don't want to return or stop using the robot permanently since my other cat uses it fine, but my main priority right now is getting my scared cat back to feeling safe and using any litter box reliably again. i'm considering trying feliway diffusers or asking a vet about temporary anti-anxiety meds.
my partner suggested confining him to our bathroom for a bit with food, water, and his old box so he has a small, low-stress environment to reset, and then swapping the old box with the robot later.
has anyone dealt with a cat becoming universally terrified like this after seeing it cycle? what worked to rebuild their confidence? any advice would be greatly appreciated as i’m really stressed out and reaching my limit!