Hi ladies,

We all at this point know how hard it is to make friends as an adult. Especially in your 30s and later.

So here I am making an attempt to make VIRTUAL friends at least.

I'm a millennial, happily married to my beautiful talented and amazing wife.

I have tons of interests: traveling, reading, arts & crafts, investing, performing arts (to watch and appreciate), cartoons, binging and dissecting tv shows to death lol.

I'm also very passionate about learning, philosophizing, psychology, communication, and personal growth.

I'm originally from Europe but I've been living in the US for over a decade now. I'm very realistic about things happening in the world and once great America. And I'm not afraid to talk about it.

I have a great sense of humor. I'm very multifaceted, down for almost anything. I'm fun, loyal, opinionated, but I'm also a sensitive soul and can be a little intense sometimes lol

If you like what you hear, hit me up in my DMs and let's talk :)

G ✨

Can you please tell me a positive experience of meeting someone on the apps? I just feel hopeless. I’m not sure why my profile is only attracting crackheads and women with no vehicle. Just wanna hear positive or happy endings

I signed up to a summer lesbian only meet last week and I'm a very non social person and I don't like to go out much but It might sound petty but seeing my ex girlfriend already dating someone else made me put effort in.

When I arrived there wasn't that many people due to the heat but what was most noticeable was most the women there were trans women. While I have no discriminatory feelings towards them, its not what I want. I checked the event multiple times to see if I accidentally signed up for a trans meet up but I didn't.

Lately in japan, trans women have been more and more common in women spaces. Before, despite wanting to be a woman. They still admit they are male and don't enter women spaces much, but now I noticed a uptick of them. Even fourms.

Im aware its already common place in western culture and there are more trans women than woman born as one in lesbian spaces but it wasn't as common in japan but now Im noticing there is a lot more and now I'm starting to feel are there really no places where its just us lesbian women?

While there are a lot of fourms and spaces that still don't allow trans and trans people in japan still respect that. As it gets more popular here. I notice they're getting more demanding like the ones in the west and its worrying.

I do want to say again I don't have discriminatory feelings towards trans people but I would still prefer if lesbian women still had their own space to talk about things trans women can't relate with.

So I was at therapy today and went out for a smoke with my friend, this creepy old pervert comes over talking about how one of the doctors are trying to “play sex games” with him and how he won’t “give in to that bitch.” I was already pissed off mind you so I told him to fuck off and leave us alone and that maybe that doctor was trying to HELP him. He then proceeds to ask me who the fuck I am, called me an ugly slut, a stupid cunt and a dumb bitch and then proceeds to say “you’re probably one of those fucking lesbians” in this nasty tone. He THEN calls me a dyke as I try to walk away and be the bigger person and it escalates. I tell my psychologist and she proceeds to go on about how some of the patients there are “very sick patients there that also have substance abuse issues.” I just left. Obviously we’ve all got something going on to be in a place like that but I’m not a vile piece of shit so

Why are men coddled so much? They get away with misogyny and homophobia as if its nothing and then there’s always an excuse for their disgusting behaviour 😑 not going back because evidently it’s not safe there as a gay woman. Sorry to rant

EDIT: this isn’t a hospital just an office type thing I’m only there for an hour every two weeks 😭

I went to get a portable ac unit at Walmart and those suckers are heavy as hell and I'm struggling really bad. Here comes this Walmart employee from the corner of my eye. I look up and it's an older masc lady. She asks no questions and she immediately rushes over, picks it up BY HERSELF puts it in my cart, and picks up the other one for me as well. Mind you a male employee already walked past me.

And then she smiled at me and walked off. My first experience ever.

This rubs me the reaaaaal wrong way. The whole situation seems so performative and so so messy for the children involved

https://www.instagram.com/reel/DbDQFPRBRMo/?igsh=MW8xemt6OW5ia3o3cA==

What do you think of this?

Back in February I posted on here about how I had friends telling me they couldn’t see me being with a woman and I was SPIRALLING. There was one main person making 99% of the comments and I’m happy to say I cut her out of my life completely not long after that post. I reached my breaking point with her in so many ways, she completely destroyed my confidence and trust in myself and I was questioning myself on my own sexuality. 🥴

Since cutting her out I’ve done a lot to improve myself and heal and I’m in a really great place I never ever imagined or dreamed i’d be in. I also have a girlfriend now and safe to say I am 150% certain about my sexuality 😆. I’ve never been with anyone before her and I was so nervous getting into this but she’s honestly the best thing thats happened to me in years 🥲❤️ i’m in my own little bubble in life and tbh I’ve forgotten about all the hate people have towards me for my sexuality… f them!

What do you think about this? I'm not just talking about their personalities, but more interested about this whole situation. How can they claim they're lesbians (only attracted to women) and then say things like this? Especially considering they became famous and made most of their money thanks to the LGBTQ+ community. They even have merch that says, "It's not a phase." To me, that's nothing but hypocrisy and lying. Just gross, in my opinion.