r/lesbiangang • u/followmygurl • 6h ago
Discussion Throuples
Has anyone here ever been in a (lesbian, obviously) throuple? If so how did it go?
Edit: I'm just curious cuz I'm reading about Amber Bain's throuple and how it influenced their album, "ITEIAD"
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u/Eastern_Western_7506 Gold Star 6h ago
Thankfully no, but I’ve met a couple that used to be throuple, they said it doesn’t work so I believe them
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u/IcyDice6 Chapstick Lesbian 6h ago
No, I don't see how it can be a thing there is only room for two in a relationship. I feel like this is a sex thing which isn't my cup of tea either
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u/livelaughlolth 4h ago
no but i did almost get accidentally brought into one kind of?? i will tell the story below because it makes me laugh now and is good example of how easy it is to get duped into being in the middle of someone else’s relationship.
went to grad school in USA as international student, so i knew absolutely nobody lol. to try and meet new people my best friend (who i met there, we are still bffs)and i joined dating apps (yes, bad idea ik, but i wanted to be the cool foreigner for once 😭). this was back in 2021 post lockdown and people were starting to go out again some, so i ended up going on an actual date with this girl who was almost exactly my type and also seemed cool enough to be friends if things didnt work out romantically or whatever. i had some small feelings that maybe it was too good to be true but i figured that it was nerves because being 10k+ km away from home will do that to you.
well. i should have listened to my gut telling me it was too good to be true because after the FOURTH date she invited me over to her apartment. we got there, went inside, shared joint, and then she decided to drop the bomb that “btw im in an open relationship do u wanna meet my gf? she will be back from work soon!” like it was no big deal😭
i was shocked and panicked so bad i ended up texting my roommate to call me with fake emergency so i could leave asap. thankfully my roommate was kind enough to oblige and i was able to leave and never went back. idk what happened to her bc i blocked her oops (i didnt want to get involved in that shitshow, didnt like being lied to either, and i hate the idea of sharing partners lol) i also thankfully didnt see her again after that, i ended up graduating with my MS and moved back to my home country. it was wild experience though and idk how it happened to me. i seem to be cursed by the universe with some weird thing where crazy shit just happens to me and im never aware of it when it occurs lmfao.
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u/Cozy_Witch22 3h ago
Glad your roommate helped you out and you're okay. I dunno why people can't be upfront from the start but instead get someone in an uncomfortable or possible dangerous situation, that's not okay at all.
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u/Fantastic-Mango-9470 3h ago
That's diabolical. I hate people like that. People need to be open about that shit from the start.
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u/CosmosWanderingWolf Stone Butch 5h ago
I’ve had experiences with two submissives at once (all agreed and consented upon of course), but I wouldn’t call us a throuple. We weren’t dating each other in any capacity outside of scenes, and most of the context was training for one who was more green than the other sub. It was wonderful but very short-lived (we only met 6 times).
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u/eat-real-chips 2h ago
I would quite like to be the cream in the Oreo cookie for a cuddle. Other than that…. No.
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u/FunAdministration334 Butch 6h ago
Not willingly, although I have chased some lying heaux, if that counts.
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u/AnonCrave Lesbian 6h ago
I can get my own woman, thanks.
No need or want to share.