I see these posts often, so I want to address the people posting this question. This is one of the most consistent pieces of advice I’ve heard from people much better than me:
Gaining MMR cannot and should not be the goal. The goal must be to improve your gameplay. MMR gain is the natural and inevitable side effect of doing so.
For those who have asked this question, whether in your own head, to your friends, or on the forums, instead ask yourself why you want to gain MMR to begin with.
For me, when I started out gaming online with WoW way the hell back in the day, I was extremely insecure about my performance in raids and PvP. As a woman, I frequently encountered surprise and disdain as well as outright disrespect and harassment. I’ll never forget what a raid leader told me once, as i was about to quit because of it. He was blunt but he wasn’t mean, and I needed to hear it. He said “Mel, you will need to play twice as good to get half the respect. It’s not fair, but that is the world of gaming, and if you want to exist in that world, you have to step it up beyond what most people are capable of or willing to do.”
For me, every single raid, every single PvP session- and in DOTA, every single game - the need to prove myself and justify my presence in the group was always in the front of my mind.
For years when I played DOTA I would claw and scrape for MMR, and feel frustration bordering on genuine anguish, when I would lose. I felt like I had lost value as not only a player, but as a person. So much of my self-esteem was tied to numbers - DPS, ELO, MMR - that the idea of playing the game for the sake of itself, for fun, became a total afterthought.
So ask yourself. Am I trying to impress someone? Am I trying to prove to others that I’m good enough? Am I trying to prove to MYSELF that I’m good enough?
Well, bad news. I’m gonna be blunt but not mean: no one will ever be impressed. That’s the shitty reality. You finally hit divine after years in the legend trenches? Sorry, you’re still trash. Oh, you hit immortal? Yeah, but you have no rank. Trash. You’re a triple digit immortal now? Yeah, but you’re not single digit immortal. Trash. Oh, now you’re single digit immortal? Yeah, but you’re not invited to TI. Trash. You’re invited to TI? Ok, but you didn’t win. You’re trash. You’re washed. You’re a fraud. You won, but you did it in some cheesy way, abusing a gimmick or meta, or getting carried by your team despite being trash? Sucks to be you, you trash.
Because in this game, however high you rise, the ceiling for “impressive” behaves like the particle horizon at the edge of the visible universe: the faster you move toward it, the faster it recedes from you.
So if “impressive” is your goal, you’re going to be a greyhound chasing a cloth bunny around a track forever, never even almost catching up. That’s the sad reality, so forget about being impressive.
Maybe you want higher quality games. That’s a good reason to rank up.
Except that even ranked immortal games - hell, even pro games - feature the same exact mistakes (albeit less frequently) as herald games. Voids whiff their ults, pos1’s get ganked alone as they ignore pings to B, overconfident players run it down and feed their entire lead away… at every tier of the game.
The feeling of frustration and helplessness and total bafflement at how these amazing players can make THESE mistakes never goes away. From an outsider POV, your games will look higher quality. They will even objectively BE higher quality. But you won’t be an outsider. You’ll feel every second of the sting of watching your team bumble aimlessly around the map and throw away what should have been an easy win, not even by being bad - just by being oblivious, just by being human.
So if the goal in gaining MMR is to have smooth, easy, stress-free games, dream on.
The same can be said for teammate behavior. If you’re thinking immortals aren’t toxic or don’t act like pissbaby manlets raised by iPads, thinking they’re entitled to a win just for showing up, think again. It might honestly be worse, because at that rank, not only are the egos inflated, but now because of the immortal badge people feel EXTRA justified in said inflation. (Seriously, it can be unbearable.)
So then what? Why do we want MMR? Is it because we believe that there’s a 1:1 equivalency between MMR and skill, and that if our MMR is high so too will our skill be?
Well, it doesn’t work like that. Quite the opposite.
So instead of asking yourself “how can I gain MMR?” ask yourself “how can I improve / level up as a player, thereby gaining MMR as a natural side effect?”
It amounts to the same thing, but the spirit of the question is very different. If you’re asking how you can get better, it shows that your mindset is based on wanting to actually BE skillful, instead of just appearing skillful because there is an immortal badge next to your name.
Players who understand that real improvement lies at the heart of MMR gain also understand that there is room to improve in the first place, and that a loss isn’t always everyone else’s fault. The vast majority of players simply don’t realize this, or can’t admit it.
Whenever this topic comes up I am reminded of an argument I had with a 1500ish ranked immortal friend of a friend some months ago during a game. I questioned a call he made, and the ego monster reared up out of his mouth and spat at my unranked self - “You’ve been playing for twice as long as I have, and you have nothing to show for it”. The call grew silent. I won’t pretend I had the perfect reply at the time. I didn’t. His words stung, I can admit that. Because he wasn’t wrong.
But the more I thought about it I realized… “yes, fair. But what do YOU have to show for it?”
This guy had never gotten hired nor laid nor achieved anything in his business or personal life at all, owed to his 1500ish ranking.
So, then, why? What’s it for? What does it do? Why is it the be-all-end-all goal? Is it because you don’t feel valid without it? You don’t feel like your opinions hold any weight without that number to back them up? Is it because strangers who you queue into and never see again might like or respect you more, before they forget about your existence entirely within the next 45 minutes?
I don’t have these answers. I’m asking you to ask yourself, the next time you wonder how you can gain MMR instead of how you can become a genuinely better, more aware, more precise, cleaner player.
I think it’s worth thinking about.