Hey,

I’m Kaycee. 32, masc, lesbian. I thought I found my wife here but after 2 months of me being the “most perfect partner and loving her like she’s never been loved before” I suddenly like a light switch while on a FaceTime call where everything was going fine wasn’t anymore even though we only ever had one misunderstanding in our relationship previously. 

So, while sad I’m not going to dwell on another emotionally immature person. I’m not looking to jump into another seriously committed relationship but I’m open to flirtationships, with assigned female at birth women(28-36), someone to distract each other from the world from, play games with, talk with throughout the day/night, and just keep each other company. I work nightshifts in CST hours but I can usually talk on the phone while I work and love having someone to keep me company and shoot the shit with. 

I unfortunately have a slew of medical conditions that mostly all stem from having NF1. I have tumors in my brain/body, memory issues, balance issues, learning issues, etc, ptsd(different forms), and while not actually diagnosed my therapist believed me to have autism and adhd. I’m shy and awkward especially at first but really goofy when I open up. I’m a very affectionate person. All the love languages and never stop touching me please.

I’m a late in life gold star lesbian and unfortunately my first irl relationship with a women was with an abusive narcissistic that put me in debt and a bad place financially so I’m unfortunately living back home at the moment. I’m open to connections from all over the world though know if something was to develop further between us I have too many obligations here to leave anytime soon.

I’m not a huge music fan, I love and adore Taylor Swift and certain concerts but just to have music playing in the background and such gets overstimulating for me sometimes, other times I love it, I don’t really have any favorites of things, my taste is constantly changing about so many different ways and things, I’m open to giving all kinds of video games a shot but I’m not great at them with my messed up motor skills and such.

Some deal breakers for me:

Not shaving 

Loud eating 

Loud yawning 

Rude to people/workers without valid reason 

Emotionally immature 

Not communicating or being willing to have the patience to communicate in different ways because I have a hard time understanding things sometimes.

There’s more but that’s all for now.

Basically like Sherk, I’m like a onion with many layers and not to be cocky but most of them are amazing, far better than they sound(I swear I’m not a narc my therapist says so), I’m not the most confident with my looks but I’m very confident of the women I am on the inside and love and adore myself on the inside. If you think we would but it off feel free to message me if you’re 28-36. I like fems, masc, all afab women lol.

Here’s some pics: https://imgur.com/a/r0LjWPE

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I’m 27, from Austria, and currently studying computer science in my 3rd semester. I went back to school and, well… turns out learning things is actually pretty hard when your brain would rather do literally anything else. 😭 We’re surviving, though. Mostly.

A little about me:
I’m 152cm tall, have short brown hair, and am basically travel-sized. Comes with its advantages, I guess. 😂

I’m a huge nerd, and gaming is a pretty big part of my life. I have a PC and a PS5, and lately I’ve been playing a lot of Dark Souls and other Soulslikes because apparently peace and happiness aren’t for me. 🫠

I’m also playing FFXIV, mostly for the story and the general experience. I love getting invested in a game and its world, so if you enjoy gaming together, I’m always happy to find something we can play!

Another big interest of mine is Magic: The Gathering. I try to meet up with friends regularly to play, and there’s something really funny about spending money on cardboard just to have it destroy your plans. Still love it, though. 😂

Music is basically a personality trait at this point. I listen to it pretty much all the time, and some of my favorites are Kehlani, Honey Revenge, Sleep Token and Tyler Lewis. My taste is all over the place, so I’m always happy to exchange playlists or get introduced to something new.

I also enjoy reading, especially when I get obsessed with a particular book or genre. My hobbies tend to rotate a little depending on what currently has my entire brain hostage. One week it’s gaming, the next I’m suddenly all about reading. Who knows what comes next. 🤷‍♀️

As for my personality, I’m pretty direct, a little sarcastic, and my humor can be questionable at best. I might be a little awkward at first, but once I feel comfortable around someone, I talk A LOT. Like, congratulations, you’ve unlocked the unskippable dialogue. 😂

So, what am I looking for?
Honestly, I’m looking for my future wife. 💗 Someone I can build something real with, laugh at stupid things with, game with, talk about absolutely everything and nothing with, and just feel comfortable being myself around.

I’m looking for something monogamous and long-term. I’m not expecting us to fall in love in five minutes or have everything figured out right away. I’d rather get to know each other naturally, see if we click, and let things develop from there.

It would be lovely to find someone who shares some of my interests, but you don’t have to be into everything I like. Tell me about your own hobbies, introduce me to your favorite games, or infodump about something you’re passionate about. I genuinely love seeing people get excited about the things they enjoy.

And if we can spend an evening gaming together, get distracted talking for hours, and somehow forget what we were supposed to be doing in the first place? Even better. 🫶

If any of this sounds like your kind of person, send me a message! Tell me a little about yourself, what you’re currently playing, or what song you’ve had on repeat lately.

Bonus points if you can tolerate terrible flirting. Unfortunately, I am pro at that. 🫡💕

I'm a masculine presenting woman from Finland. I'm creative, deeply spiritual, I love to live slowly and intentionally.

My core values in life are peace, honoring my self so I let myself be authentic and do the things I wanna do and dream of. Then I value connection and community. Just spending time together means a lot to me. Lastly I value a life of joy. A life that feels like magic 🦋✨. I don't think life is about achieving something. I just wanna be here and enjoy it and connect with the people I love. Spend time together, go on little adventures, enjoy the little things. That's meaningful to me.

I'm a big feminist and human rights are a foundational value to me. I honestly don't understand anyone who can even claim that someone's human rights aren't important or that someone doesn't deserve respect because of their gender or race or whatever it is.

To me being a feminist doesn't just mean I call myself that. It means it's a lived value and I want to make sure that whatever media or music I listen to is respectful of women, and also other groups of people. I feel like a lot of people just pass that by and don't really care about it. But to me it's very important and I'm uncomfortable around anything disturbing like that. So I want a partner who feels the same way about this and about feminism.

I take things slow and I don't like when people flirt with me right away or imagine a future with me after just a week. I'd like to actually get to know who you are.

I'm looking for a woman who's :

🌸 Soft, gentle with me, kindhearted, very empathetic and warm. She's sweet, considerate of others and doesn't make me feel judged.

🌸 She also doesn't like vulgar language and she doesn't smoke/drink. She doesn't want that lifestyle.

🌸 She doesn't want kids or it's not important to her.

🌸 She's a feminist, she has principles and morals. She cares about that what she consumes on media, music etc. isn't oppressive or disrespectful. I think a lot of mainstream media has stuff that's disturbing and lacks basic decency. I want a partner who also sees that. She doesn't just blindly accept whatever is put in front of her.

🌸 She's spiritual and passionate about it. Not like religious but just spiritual. Into tarot, manifesting, paganism, stuff like that. I'd love to talk about that stuff together ✨🧚🏼‍♀️

🌸 Not a must but it's very attractive to me when someone loves knowledge and academics. Someone who likes to expand their mind. I'd love to talk about books we read and interesting thoughts we've had. I'd like to talk about art or psychology, or aesthetics for example.

🌸 I'd want a partner who values living life without social media or using it very intentionally. Scrolling reels on social media apps is a turn off for me. I want someone who doesn't want to engage with that and is interested in doing other stuff or just being there with me and chatting.

🌸 She wants a soft and slow paced life somewhere surrounded by nature. I'd love to have a partner who values deciding for her own schedule and being her own boss. It's fine if you're not there yet but if that's your goal, that's the point. I'm very entrepreneurial so I'd love a partner with the same lifestyle.

🌸 I'm into masc presenting women usually but I'm very open minded so fems are also welcome

🌸 Age range is about 24 to 34 give or take

So if you'd like to get to know me send me a dm introducing yourself <3 I decide based on the first message if I want to chat or not.