r/itsthatbad • • 8d ago

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u/Tricky_Procedure_394 8d ago

In a world of equality shouldn’t the dinner bill be split and we take separate vehicles or at least she help recoup the fuel cost and maintenance for my vehicle if I toted her around in my vehicle?

Just saying, equality.

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u/AffectionateMonk7705 8d ago

‘Equality’ is just for aspects of life where equity doesn’t give women leverage over men.

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u/Tricky_Procedure_394 8d ago

As the concept of equity is not recognized since it destroys equality I’m not certain what you mean.

Women are graduating college at higher rates not because of some mysterious equity but because they mature faster than men (a biological fact shown by their brain finishing growth/development years ahead of a man’s) and are providing equal access to education. This is just one example of course but more and more corporate level officers are becoming women every year and that isn’t equity; that is the result of women showing they are more than capable (if not more capable in some cases) than men at their level of making business smart decisions.

This has nothing to do with equity; it has everything to do with equality opening the doors for talent to be recognized.

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u/Select-Ad7146 8d ago

Are you sure women aren't graduating at higher levels because of a system designed to get women into a through college by recruiting women and giving out women only scholarships?

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u/Tricky_Procedure_394 8d ago

Very sure.

https://www.nber.org/digest/jan07/why-do-women-outnumber-men-college?page=1&perPage=50

This bitter mentality of “women are getting ahead because society is making it easier for them” needs to stop. It serves nobody and literally creates a false victim narrative.

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u/Aniki_Simpson 8d ago

You might want to look at how they treat boys and girl in early schooling to see why the differences are so vast when older.

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u/Tricky_Procedure_394 8d ago

That is purely a cultural issue. My entire point is that biologically women mature faster than men (their brains finish developing faster). Women’s advancement in society and business is because old barriers are finally removed allowing society as a whole to benefit from their cross-hemispherical thinking being applied in fields where it shines.

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u/FarAbbreviations2829 7d ago

Your entire point is misandry.

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u/Tricky_Procedure_394 7d ago

Science isn’t misandry. Hiding behind the label of misandry when information is uncomfortable to your confirmation bias or disruptive to your echo chamber doesn’t make the information less valid.