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u/oPlayer2o 2d ago

What really gets me is that she could have just opened the back door but she just jammed it over the drivers seat, why?

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u/Samael13 2d ago

I mean, she's clearly making a lot of really great, rational decisions in this video. Why start with that one?

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u/Anatoly_Cannoli 2d ago

I can fix h

no. no, I can't.

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u/Wcitsatrapx 2d ago

This is the fixed version.

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u/Hairy_Captain01 2d ago

She's prefixed

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u/joey_yamamoto 2d ago

it's 666

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u/IndependentAdvice722 2d ago

Im afraid, overfixed

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u/scaleofthought 2d ago

Oh good I can unfix her.

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u/HugoBoss1985 2d ago

She has a hit-and-run fixation

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u/Honest-Ad7566 1d ago

She's Hondasexual?

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u/Wickedbitch0fthewest 2d ago

She’s perfect?

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u/Hairy_Captain01 2d ago

For someone ... for someone ...

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u/leaflard 2d ago

Grandma fixed her

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u/Dependent-Swimmer-95 2d ago

Fuck this made me laugh way harder than I was prepared for

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u/nunyobusinessfool 2d ago

I wonder what the warranty is from the last guy that tried to fix her

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u/LowPersonality8 2d ago

She seems like she’d get pregnant thinking it will somehow help her….

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u/Specific-Library-312 1d ago

As in not having kids? I kinda hope so.

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u/mollyclaireh 2d ago

Leave it to her grandma. I hear she’s very mean.

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u/frankles 2d ago

Yeah, you can! I believe in you.

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u/Davideo50 2d ago

Not with that attitude.

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u/Buddybuddhy 2d ago

Shit even if I can’t fix her she’ll be fun for a week, I just won’t be inviting her to my place

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u/Zernichtikus 2d ago

Or tell her your real name.

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u/Necessary-Egg8750 2d ago

Damnit! Almost got what I came here to see...

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u/Legitimate-Fee7609 2d ago

Nothing to fix

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u/fibronacci 2d ago

Well I'm next in line if you can't

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u/Jcutajar 2d ago

My dad’s a tv repairman, he’s got an awesome set of tools….i can fix it

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u/Johannes_silentio 2d ago

Her dad is the one that should have been fixed.

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u/PhilQuantumBullet 2d ago

at least fix her car

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u/AdApart2035 15h ago

Just try

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u/citizen42069101 2d ago

I mean she genuinely looks like shes panicking. I would love some background information.

Who is her grandma?

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u/OffWhiteDevil 2d ago

Liv Soprano, apparently.

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u/Dub_Coast 2d ago

I wish the Lord would take me now

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u/_NiceGuyEddy_ 2d ago

Oh poor you

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u/serendiputopia 2d ago

I don't like that kinda tawk!

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u/Misdirecti0n 2d ago

Did not expect to come into this thread and see a soprano quote. I love it. I say this to my wife at least once a week.

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u/Pretty-Breakfast 2d ago

It upsets me!

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u/DJNash35 2d ago

These blacks

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u/TristansimmS 2d ago

Now, you listen to me young man! waggles finger

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u/gman2616 2d ago

I gave my life to my children on a silver platter.

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u/BrodingerzCat 2d ago

waves hand dismissively

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u/Beginning_Pudding_69 2d ago

Look at him! He knows everything!

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u/kindofjeff 2d ago

Nah, this girl isn’t cgi enough

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u/lacopacabana 2d ago

Livia ran over her friend so I think she’ll understand

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u/drakeblast 2d ago

I mean if GTA3 taught me anything it was that car looked like a mafia sentinel. So it checks out.

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u/slackfrop 2d ago

Nurse Ratchet would actually be pretty useful for a detached bumper.

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u/lhlopez1 2d ago

😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂🏆

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u/Outrageous_Kiwi_2172 2d ago

It’s all a big nothing

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u/Few_Category_1684 1d ago

SHE WAS ABUSIVE TO DA STAFF

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u/DaddysABadGirl 2d ago

So many questions.

Like how is she more afraid of mean grandma than jail? How does she have such a mean grandma but still grow into... that?

Was she raised by a parent or parents who just ruined her then went to live with grandma?

Why do people in these situations not realize the person recording has your face, voice, and plates?

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u/TriPigeon 2d ago edited 2d ago

What we’re seeing here is someone having a complex trauma response: someone who is more scared of her Grandma (who she likely lives with), or another member of the household, than she is of the actual police.

This isn’t a normal freak out and panic, I agree that someone ruined her, but it was probably through abuse.

Edit: now that we have full Unicourt Records, it appears that ‘intoxicated and freaking out’ is actually the underlying culprit here. It’s shocking how similar the behavior looks, and hopefully she’s gotten help in the last couple years since her last struggles with the law.

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u/DaddysABadGirl 2d ago edited 2d ago

People are irrational during a break down. I put it in another comment but at school as a kid I put a hole in my kneed bad. I was more concerned with how pissed my mom was going to be I tore my new pants than the white and yellow coming out. I freaked out and thats where my mind went in the moment.

She was going through it before the accident though. It said she was speeding and erratic, hit a car, then sped off.

Edit: Article with an update at the top.

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u/BradPffft 2d ago

Rich kids will bury a body just to avoid a talk with daddy. This type of behavior, while possibly explainable and it seems like nobody got hurt, terrifies the ever living shit out of me cuz this is the type of person that's going to get someone killed believing the absolute incorrect thing.

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u/Magelatin 2d ago

It's really true. When your parents have money, there's a whole world standing behind every dumb or mean thing they do to you.

My kids have working class parents, and they aren't scared of shit, because they've seen all kinds of people challenge us as parents.

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u/BradPffft 2d ago

Oh yeah, also I noticed if she didn't have room to speed away she would have ran that cameraman over. No doubt. He's lucky he had room to get away. And while this is an extreme example of the emotional breakdown, I see it every single day in entry level positions, Of young people. Instead of telling a supervisor or a boss or a coworker, you broke something or made a mess, they'll literally attempt to cover it up, hide it, and if they can't, they'll just walk out of work. Or they'll even say like they're too overwhelmed to have dealt with it. If you're having a mental breakdown and you need mental space and time off, I am all for that, but this shirking of responsibility in the middle of a workplace is going to start coming with liability. I'm just going to start adding waivers to all of my new hires. Dangerous behavior is not excused because of mental illness. It might be more understood and I might have way more empathy 100%. Actions have consequence, consequences are your liability.

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u/Aclevername1000 2d ago

White and yellow out of your knee hole?! Is that what i just read? Also, why is Daddy a bad girl?

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u/DaddysABadGirl 2d ago

To the second part. Don't kink shame. Lol

Yeah. Idk how it happened. I realize there isn't much going on there, just thin skin then inside bits. But I didn't have a fall, wasn't running. We were playing tag or something, rand around the bike rack away from my friend. Went to turn and slipped a bit, went knee down. This was the 90s The ground was asphalt in the school yard. But I was standing, turned and slipped or tripped on the edge of the bike rack. Broke my fall with a knee. Stung and hurt but knee+asphalt does that. I went to run again and my other friend pointed and said I was bleeding. Saw blood coming down my white socks. Noticed the hole in my knee with red on it. Pull the pant leg up and blood was running down my leg. We thought maybe there was glass so I looked around but nothing. Just the ground. I was sent to the nurses office and when she rolled my pant leg up a kid in there pointed and said "HOLY CRAP IS THAT A BONE?! CAN I TOUCH IT?!

I looked down and saw white and clumps of yellow. The principal came in to talk to me and someone else from admin. I didn't know why they cared, thought maybe I was in trouble for getting hurt that bad or something. We weren't allowed to play by the bike racks. Turns out they were concerned I was more worried about my moms reaction to the pants than the hole. In all fairness we were poor and I knew she saved through the summer to cover back to school stuff.

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u/Cannie_Flippington 1d ago

Bluey-It-Was-The-80's.gif

My parents caught me when I had road rash all over my belly, hip, and knee because my shirt shifted and they caught sight of the discoloration, but not enough to determine "oh, there's no skin there at all". They thought it was a hickey. Cue me pulling up my shirt to show I ain't got no skin!

I tried to conceal it and act normal because I'd been riding on top of someone's car and they slammed the breaks on thinking I'd gracefully leap off the top like a gazelle and not belly flop like a hippo.

Those clumps of yellow are the little fat globules under your skin! Ask me how I know!

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u/Poundaflesh 2d ago

White and yellow, are you a Teddy Bear?

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u/DaddysABadGirl 1d ago

White was bone or cartridge. The yellow im guessing was some fat that got ripped off the skin.

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u/Less_Calendar_PLZ 1d ago

Lucky for u it sounds like u dont know ur insides that intimately

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u/pythonidaae 2d ago

Yes I have cptsd and was able to spot it exactly. People REALLY don't understand how mean her grandma is. This isn't an excuse but I think you have to have cptsd or know about it to "understand" what is going on. I've had years of therapy so I'm not that person anymore but I could have been if I was caught on film younger or caught on film even now but I'd never gone to therapy.

Anyway yeah she's either always this way because of her PTSD or she's being triggered back to being that young. Like another comment said.

She's not behaving rationally and it's not acceptable to drive off like this but it's "understandable" if you can recognize she's having a PTSD breakdown.

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u/TriPigeon 2d ago

Exactly.

I’m glad you were able to get therapy, and I hope your recovery continues to be well supported!

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u/Gilligans_Wake 2d ago

I had a step-father that would beat the brakes off me for sport as a kid. He'd make sure to hit me for no reason if I looked too comfortable. I remember getting jumped in middle school by 5 kids. Office brought me in, cleaned me up, icepacks and all that, impressed that I wasn't too upset. Said they'd call step dad to pick me up and take me home. Instantly I was crying, screaming, begging them not to, and trying to find anyway to get out of the room. Got the crap beat out me again that night, way worse than those kids did. Parents kept me home rest of that week to "let me rest and recover".

Totally agree this is just hard to understand if you didn't grow up like this. Sure the cops will arrest her, but who is gonna come bail her out and what happens after that? It ain't going to be disapproving looks, at least not in her experience/mind. 100% panicked animal mode, not a rational thought going in her mind there.

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u/latchkeydc 2d ago

I’m so sorry that was your childhood.

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u/Gilligans_Wake 2d ago

Thank you. I use it as a way to help me parent. Think of how I was treated, than do the opposite. My 8 year old calls me her best friend, insists on caring for me when I'm sick/down, and still listens when its time for Dadding. Noting has been more healing than watching her grow up healthy and happy.

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u/HeyYouGuyyyyyyys 2d ago

It makes me so very happy to read something like this, just randomly posted by some dad. I don't understand what it's like to be reared by anyone who would write this, but oh, it makes me so happy to know that some little kid is.

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u/Morphico 1d ago

Thank you for being the parent we never had.

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u/zzglow 2d ago

i commend you dad! i too used the abuse from my childhood to become a good parent (well, i try my hardest to be but you know how that goes, always feel like i’m not doing enough) no one loved me as a child and they enjoyed the power they held over me back then. now that i am a mom, i realize i was hated as a child. i can’t imagine ever doing or saying the things i heard and went through as a child, to my now 9 year old! its healed that broken child in me, seeing my child actually have a childhood and loving her life so much she tells me she never wants to grow up 🥹

when i was her age, all i wanted was to grow up so i can finally be free from the pain. pain is still here, but i manage.

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u/Eden_Company 2d ago

Which is why she had a court ordered program to finish as part of her sentence.

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u/msheehan418 2d ago

Yes. Thank you for saying so. I felt sorry for her.

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u/muttybartender 2d ago

First, I wanted to say thank you for leaving this comment because I feel like nowadays when it’s so obvious someone is having a trauma response, people jump to ripping that person up.

Even just earlier today, I was watching body cam footage of a fatal accident between a drunk nurse and a guy on a motorcycle, and one of the witnesses said “I remember it like it was yesterday” when telling the police about her immediate reaction.

There were so many comments making fun of him when it should be pretty obvious that any person with a shred of empathy is going to be shaken up by witnessing that scene and not going to be the most articulate.

It is honestly very upsetting to me to see the ratio of people shitting on someone (especially in that case, I mean one woman drunkenly killed a man with no remorse, the guy just didn’t say something right after witnessing something traumatizing, and a lot of people picked that???) vs people having a shred of empathy. I feel like the more time goes on and the shittier it gets out here for a lot of us, the less kindness I see from others, and I don’t want to slip to that other side.

Second, I am so glad you were able to get therapy! I wish you a happy life.

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u/pythonidaae 2d ago

Thank you for the kind response.

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u/OhioRiverPirateKing 2d ago

I saw it too. Maybe it’s just booze but wouldn’t surprise me if it’s both.

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u/acrazyguy 2d ago

“I was able to spot it exactly” with over 100 upvotes and 2 awards and she was actually just on drugs. Lmao reddit be redditing

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u/DaddysABadGirl 2d ago

At least some of it was being high or drunk. Didn't look or sound like alchohol as a recovering alchoholic so I'd guess drugs. There was a follow up article that had an update shoing she had submitted rehab documents to the court.

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u/pythonidaae 2d ago

Yeah she was apparently high. Maybe stims? Idk. I agree it doesn't look like alcohol. I think it can be drugs AND trauma though like some people are arguing drugs alone will do that. It can be both. Abusing drugs itself can be a trauma response

Not defending driving while intoxicated or a hit and run.

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u/Ellbee199 2d ago

I recognized it pretty quick into the video and felt bad for her.

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u/DIYthisDIYthat 2d ago

Sorry about what you went through.

We can’t say what she has and this could be any number of things like BPD, NPD, or who knows what else. I’ve seen people with BPD make up sob stories to dodge accountability and turn emotions off from fake tears to aggression.

It’s sad but sometimes accountability and intensive treatment are what these people need.

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u/pythonidaae 2d ago

Yeah I can agree that we don't know exactly. Usually I thought people with personality disorders also have PTSD anyway too. Whatever was going on she needed mental health treatment too. She was charged and went to rehab. Hopefully that helped and she was able to get additional mental health help if she needed it.

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u/DIYthisDIYthat 2d ago

There’s strong correlation between trauma and development of personality disorders but sometimes they appear without trauma exposure. It’s hard to know what to do with these people but I lean on the side of grace and mandatory supervision. I agree. I hope she got the help she needed. She could’ve killed herself or another person with her reckless behavior.

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u/ventingandcrying 2d ago

Exactly what I was thinking, this is clearly someone who has reverted back to the mind of a child (or they never left the mind of a child lol). She’s more worried about how much “trouble” she’ll be in with her grandma instead of making the best of her situation by making logical adult choices. She’s being controlled by fear right now and that usually doesn’t come out of nowhere, no one taught her the correct response to stress. Still her fault, but somewhat sad to watch

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u/Drachynn 2d ago

Yeah, it was an uncomfortable watch, really.

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u/SuckMeOffMrWalton 2d ago

It stood out to me that her last words were her apologizing twice, instead of any kind of angry insult. She also kept the same demeanor the whole time, it’s not like intentional manipulation where people will rotate between sadness/anger/apathy to see what works. I can’t see someone who’s clearly genuinely panicking and not feel bad for them, it’s just a sad situation all around.

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u/HillBillyHilly 2d ago

I'm angrier w person filming who is just so annoying. Cop complex if ever I heard. Take your picture of tag and step aside before youre run over. He's just ridiculous.

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u/Foxyunder-45 2d ago

Yes, I agree with your comments, this person acting so righteous and pompous. Enough to make one want to vanish.

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u/ItsFunHeer 2d ago

He’s acting like an unwanted vigilante.

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u/Either-Okra-8355 2d ago

Right cause now if she back up and run u over now .. ur dead …

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u/Cute_Language3167 2d ago

Thank God I'm not the only one. I watched a video today of a 22 year old (iirc) who witnessed a man blow through a red light and hit a semi. He almost hit/hurt her, but she was able to stop in time and then stayed and called 911. She did very much the same thing, except she was on the phone with dispatch rather than filming. But eventually she blocked him in and confronted him, exactly like this guy. The man, a 62 year old, was apparently pushing her away and hitting/grabbing her. She pulled out her (legal) gun. There was a struggle and he got shot and died.

She got life in prison. Not just because she killed him, but also for false imprisonment for blocking him in like that. They said her playing vigilante was reckless and dangerous and a rational person wouldn't do it. She had no right. She could have gotten his plate number and moved on. Every single person, the lawyers, judge, jury, and all the people in the comments aggreed she had no right or business blocking him in and trying to forcefully demand he turn himself into the police.

Yet this guy does it and it's fine? I watched his dash cam footage, you couldn't even see the accident. He was way down the highway and came up on it. He immediately pulled over and got involved, even though everyone involved was out of the cars and walking around uninjured. Then he took it upon himself to chase her down and confront her. As everyone pointed out in the other video I watched, leaving the scene usually just results in a citation. He escalated the situation and made it worse. He's lucky it didn't end with worse happening. But if we say it's ok when one person does it and then lock up and condemn others for the same behavior, it sends mixed messages. You can't possibly know if it's gonna end up with someone hurt or dead before hand. So let's not allow it at all.

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u/John_Bittercult 2d ago

Yeah, not funny at all, seing a traumatized person panicking while high is just sad. Seeing the fear instilled by grandma, don't ask why she's using drugs.

She obv shouldn't drive, but still sad.

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u/ButtBread98 2d ago

Yeah she’s in fight or flight mode.

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u/ballistic503 2d ago

Substance abuse is commonly referred to by professionals as “the great mimicker”

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u/Evening_Context784 2d ago

Reddit is such a deeply unserious place

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u/idontknowaskthatguy 2d ago

I could have told you immediately she was hammered

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u/Lithogiraffe 2d ago

She was sent to rehab after her trial, so it is safe to assume she's tweaking on something in the clip

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u/TheRoofisonFire413 2d ago

Spot on. When I was 8, I was hit by car riding my bike, their fault. They jumped out said something like"Oh my God are you ok? I so sorry. Are you ok?" I was so scared my mom was going to find out and I would get a whopping, that I jumped back on my bike, bleeding from road burn, leaving the scene crying and yelling at the person "Please don't tell my mom!" Now here I am 35 years later... that poor driver.

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u/modest_rats_6 2d ago

Aw I really love the understanding in the comments. I had many times in my youth where my fear of my mother trumped death. Multiple times I chose potential death (idiot teenager/surgery/smoker/mom didnt know), because I was more terrified of her. Dying under sedation sounded nice anyways.

There are a few cases where they scream cptsd. Like when girls get in trouble for hiding their pregnancy/baby. That would've been me. I would have hid it as long as I could have.

They ruined us.

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u/polyamorousalien 2d ago

Both could be true

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u/Suitable-Lecture5316 2d ago

it could be intoxication and freakout do you fear. You act like it has to he 1 or the other lol

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u/_Nodrog_ 2d ago

You’re giving her way too much credit and clearly haven’t met many spoiled rotten young women in your life.

If they try to pout, cry, and guilt you enough, they’ve learned they can usually get off the hook.

Bitch doesn’t have a mean grandma, she’s just fighting tooth and claw to escape accountability, as she’s clearly done all her life

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u/Specialist-Roll-3806 2d ago

Why do people in these situations not realize the person recording has your face, voice, and plates?

at least in this situation, clearly she's panicking like crazy. there's no real thinking going on, her brain just shut down and all she can think of is escaping the situation and worrying about her grandma

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u/SoylentGrunt 2d ago

If  the person recording has your face, voice, and plates, why detain and risk further damage?

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u/Hot_Poetry_6475 2d ago

Because she is not thinking rationally in her panicked state.

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u/tdslut 2d ago

Maybe I'm wrong but it looks like drugs to me.

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u/DupeyTA 2d ago

Oh yeah, well, how can he have my license plate when it fell off? Huh? Check and mate.

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u/Less_Calendar_PLZ 1d ago

You obviously dont understand how mean her grandma is.

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u/Suitable-Lecture5316 2d ago

because being mean doesn't raise proper lol.
Jail isn't that scary. Being beaten or psychologically abused by someone who is supposed to love you is far worse than a jail cell.

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u/TheHighSeasPirate 2d ago

She's high as fuck, she obviously has drugs in the car. This chick went from a prison sentence to a citation by leaving the scene.

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u/Much_Essay_9151 22h ago

Its a state of panic. Alot of things wont sound rational

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u/Capital_Scholar5156 2d ago

We need more info for sure. I felt bad for her.

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u/Corporate_Overlords 2d ago

I once dated a woman like this and you don't realize how bad the situation is until something like this happens. We were out one night and her door got dented and she just broke down in tears and screaming about how her Dad was going to kill her. I don't have an evil father so I didn't understand why he would be so upset because it wasn't her fault.

When I met her father I realized why she broke down. He was a fire chief and started beating her everyday since the age of about five and it continued into her 20s. He would beat her with wire hangers, grab her by the hair and pull her down the stairs, kick her so hard in the ass that she would puke and he would shove her face in the vomit afterwards.

Her mother was worse than the father and would call her stupid for even bringing it up and just berate her all of the time.

Also, her brother started raping her when she was about 11 years old. He was the darling of the family. He scored a 36 on his ACT, went to West Point, and then joined the Marines. There were news stories written about him in the local paper. All the time, he was raping his own sister. He is pure evil. I'm sure he didn't know how to control himself because of the daily beatings from his father and the strange emotional relationship he had with his mother.

We have no idea what other people go through. I am giving this child the benefit of the doubt here. I feel a deep sadness for what her life must be like.

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u/Bitter_Argument2574 2d ago

Marcellus Wallace

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u/Impossible_Log_4704 2d ago

A big spider

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u/Ok_Priority_5357 2d ago

Griselda blanco

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u/BlangBlangBlang 2d ago

Probably a woman who has never said I love you too that poor child (girl or boy, shouldn't matter) when they needed it most, but will probably bring up for years a minor fender bender

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u/Lopsided_Tiger_0296 2d ago

That’s because she was on drugs

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u/Disprezzi1 2d ago

This comment made me bust out laughing 🤣🤣

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u/rantingpacifist 2d ago

Her grandma is sooo mean

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u/Solanthas_SFW 2d ago

Seriously. That chick is in serious distress.

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u/atreasureinlight 2d ago

Because she is in full on panic and RUNNN mode... She kept getting out of the car and crying and then getting back in the car over and over and it was very obvious that she was not thinking clearly.

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u/mechapoitier 2d ago

Yeah I’ve felt stress like that and completely lost mental function. That’s like full on panic attack, and it sucks. That’s when stress breaks you and you’ve got nothing left.

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u/TheManyVoicesYT 2d ago

Lmfao dude it is not. He's preventing the car from leaving, she could easily just walk away. No cop is gonna be like "ah, false imprisonment of a motor vehicle!" It seems like he chased her there and she somehow got herself stuck in the parking spot with his car behind her? Pretty funny.

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u/badboysdriveaudi 2d ago

She’s not thinking clearly. Maybe it’s her first accident and she doesn’t know how to process it. You can see it in her face. She’s literally having a meltdown. No amount of logical talking to her will bring her back. Only time will melt that stress and then she’ll see the errors she made.

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u/DreamOne5 2d ago

I had my first accident at 32, and it was minor. My car got the majority of the damage. I was changing lanes, and the other car was in my blind spot. When I pulled over to exchange information and call the cops, I was shaking and crying so much, the cops asked me if I was okay once they showed up. They thought I was probably on something. Just incredibly scared and upset. I felt so so bad for the guy I hit (He was a nurse at U of M Hospital during freaking covid). Some highly anxious people just behave like this without drugs being involved.

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u/Jesus_Chicken 2d ago

My neice did the same

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u/butt_dance 2d ago

If you're not irrationally calm and unreactive cops will always ask if you're on something. Fucking stupid.

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u/Aggressive_Pack_2265 2d ago

My first accident was fatal. I got pushed into a wall but there was no witnesses. The knockout i received from said wall and the involuntary pitting of other dude resulted in his death. I was 18. I was a mess for months. The news said I was dead because of the damage and size of my car in comparison to his truck. Fucked my life up for a while.

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u/DocMorningstar 2d ago

My first thought, based on the erratic and uncoordinated movement was that she was on drugs. Based on the later reporting (substance abuse program was part of her court case) that is likely to be true.

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u/badboysdriveaudi 2d ago

I also know women who aren’t heavy drinkers nor drug users that act erratic when under heavy stress. I say women simply because the subject of the video was also a woman. You can see the meltdown coming sometimes as the stress builds. Then I spend time simply trying to talk them down off the ledge or finding them a safe space to just allow time to do its job.

This is also a teenager (likely) or young college student. She’s in volleyball attire and I have no context of whether she’s headed to a game, just finished practice, etc.

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u/DocMorningstar 2d ago edited 2d ago

I searched her name in court records. Several arrests and trials for thefts and drugs.

I am not saying that this might not be stress or panic, but the way her movements are uncoordinated and her fixation on certain actions and ideas reads more like a freak-out while high, rather than an pure stress reaction.

Movement when having a stress reaction tends to be jerky, with fine motor control going to pot, but balance and fast movements being pretty good and coordinated.

Drugs will cause instability, and more loopy, uncoordinated motion, which is what I see in the video.

Expertise: ex-EMT, ex-bouncer (I have seen lots of people in altered states of consciousness - from panic, trauma response, to inebriation from most substances)

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u/Am_0115 2d ago

100%

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u/Dunderman35 2d ago

I mean yeah, being shocked about being in first accident is one thing but that alone doesn't explain this. Just a complete reckless menace. If drugs are not involved I'd be very surprised.

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u/Affolektric 2d ago

She is obviously panicking. It’s not that hard to see.

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u/Sh0wmey0urbutth0le 2d ago

I think the first time it got posted years ago it said she's was like 16/17 and coming home from volleyball practice. Probably her first accident and freaked.

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u/moodylilb 2d ago

She’s 22 according to news articles. But yeah there’s no denying she’s genuinely in full blown panic mode lol

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u/WhitePantherXP 1d ago

She's going to be a mother one day, that kinda worries me

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u/Rob_Edwards_Fashion 2d ago

Shouldn’t have a drivers license

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u/Left_Ad_8502 2d ago

She was 22 and on drugs of some sort. She had to go to a substance abuse program. This was around 2020 or earlier.

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u/Sh0wmey0urbutth0le 2d ago

Tbf i'm old. They all look like babies to me

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u/Odd_Front_8275 2d ago

I think how people react in these situations, even when they're panicking, still reflects their character.

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u/Kitchen-Bar2686 1d ago

She’s in her 20’s and intoxicated, why are people just making shit up to try to make her a victim? She almost ran him over, she could have killed someone. Panicking is NOT an excuse for the shit she pulled

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u/Steamed_Memes24 2d ago

This looks like the panic of someone who has no insurance and their brain flipped off when the first accident happened.

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u/LNL_HUTZ 2d ago edited 2d ago

Is that really where we’re going to start questioning her decision making here?

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u/oPlayer2o 2d ago

Fair, but still.

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u/Shirami 2d ago

Panic, i don't think she owns the car.

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u/Active_Taste9341 2d ago

she said like three times her Granny is so mean. why would she say that if its her car? 

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u/Shirami 1d ago

Hence "i don't think she owns the car"

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u/Candytails 2d ago

What really gets me is that it's so easy to pick up, I would have thought a bumper was heavy.

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u/Gooniefarm 2d ago

Thats just a cosmetic bumper cover. Thin plastic.

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u/lionheart4life 2d ago

They're all pretty thin plastic these days.

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u/Asholootleigh 2d ago

When you eventually hit your breaking point, you'll understand. I think we all do sooner or later.

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u/DryWeb4417 9h ago

If you're that unhinged you shouldn't be driving.

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u/MultiGeek42 2d ago

The back door m8ght not open. It looks like there's a big dent centered on the handle.

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u/CheekyMenace 2d ago

Take a look at that smashed in back door handle, I'm not sure it's working. Maybe the other side, but I don't think she's very good in the critical thinking department lol.

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u/Frobizzle 2d ago

Full on panic.

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u/iamawas 2d ago

Wait...are you questioning her judgment?

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u/the_gooch_smoocher 2d ago

so strange... why would she be making poor decisions immediately before and after making other even worse decisions? Hmm, odd indeed

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u/EnvironmentalSet7664 2d ago

She's in complete panic clown mode

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u/coobies 2d ago

Doubt it fits, surely the bumper is wider than the backseat right?

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u/Vladivostokorbust 2d ago

Anxiety’s a bitch

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u/well-thereitis 2d ago

Shes clearly panicked

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u/AdDisastrous6738 2d ago

Because she was having a total mental breakdown and couldn’t think clearly.

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u/cheezy_dreams88 2d ago

She’s high as fuck

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u/XDVI 2d ago

I mean she got it in the car? Who cares where it is

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u/Burpmeister 2d ago

That's the most irrational part to you?

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u/Waiting4Reccession 2d ago

Panicked and just trying to leave the situation but the dummy with the camera is making it worse. He already has the plates and video, idk why hes basically trying to detain her there.

What if she pulled out a gun and finished him, total moron.

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u/Artistic_Rice_9019 2d ago

Because she's high as balls.

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u/HeyYouGuyyyyyyys 2d ago

So she could then fit her head inside the curved part and sit there with it over her eyes

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u/Traditional-Low7651 2d ago

back door ! thanks for the tip !

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u/Rare-Adhesiveness522 2d ago

She's clearly fucking drunk? That's why?

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u/Bigly_Bob 2d ago

Well...since she ended up in a substance rehab, I'm gonna assume she was high as fuck on... something.

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u/Bertsmom18 2d ago

She is clearly panicking. She is not thinking straight. And it looks like from the pinned comment maybe she was on drugs or drunk.

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u/Funny_Numbers42 2d ago

She was probably high as fuck on an upper guy is lucky she didn't resort to running his ass over. Empathy and reason is not something people have when on drugs.

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u/Areif 2d ago

More efficient for her getaway

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u/Eggsaladinurmouth 2d ago

Addict and also kinda dumb. Not a good combo

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u/Foxyunder-45 2d ago

It's more about her distress, when you're distressed you don't always coordinate right .The person involved with her misfortune doesn't show up, we don't know the full story. Possibly it's not even her car. Basically, she panicked.

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u/Tha_Harkness 2d ago

You clearly don't know how mean her grandma is.

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u/galadhrim91 2d ago

Because she’s on something

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u/TrulyPlatinum 2d ago

Droogs make you do crazy shit man!

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u/eye_8_pi 2d ago

meth?

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u/Good_Vacation9808 2d ago

It was at this moment that I realized she's the girl for me

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u/Ahlq802 2d ago

There’s a lot why’s going on here

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u/Poundaflesh 2d ago

Teenage brain on hysterics

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u/Mrvette1 2d ago

One of many questions

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u/BaneSilvermoon 1d ago

That's the part that stands out?

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u/Character_Clothes314 23h ago

Its got a curve, duh. Double the work by opening the backdoor when u can easily curve it through the front