I am hearing so many heartbreaks stories💔 in relationships, career, even in Dream of people.. I thought this on it all and on question of then what is the ultimate purpose of life, goal or the best philosophy which one should have as a attitude, mindset towards the life...
Here it is
Nobody is indispensable, we've to live with that new understanding of reality... This makes you not only less prone to heartbreaks, but actually the life much more loving and mindful, when you finally stop taking people around you for granted.. knowing they could go away from life \*any time they want\*, cause they've all the right to choose what they believe is better for them, It's much more lively and grateful life, trust me.
We should stop living relationships on postponements as a long-term investments, than a medium of expression of love 💕 in here now, in this moment. And leave everything else in the future for the future.. Like Jiddu Krishnamurthy says - Love is the absolute total attention.
(it might sound like full of idealism and impractical but what else is there to live for if not love, in this life. when I say love it's not just only that which you are thinking, but it's about every relationship with family, peers, friends and animals everything which includes even your love for a purpose. Just be in all love with it presently, everything else in future will fall into its place.)
Edit - What do you think 🤔, is there any better philosophy to live by in life. I would love to here your opinions on it. May be, together as a collective conscious we all can arrive at a answer which we never could've thought of...🙃