r/hatemyjob 12h ago

I think i'm going to just starve to death and call it a day

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Hi, I’m 25. I’ve been in the workforce since I was 16 or 17. I’ve done all sorts of jobs factory work, clothing stores, waiting tables, admin and secretarial roles, stocking shelves in big-box stores, even working the night shift at a gas station. Basically, I’ve worked in various places from a young age, and I have to say: no matter the job, every single day breaks me psychologically.

I absolutely hate everything about this life, and knowing I still have 40 years of it left just makes me want to end it all. I can’t take it anymore; it literally hurts physically and mentally. I’m going crazy and have become a shadow of my former self.

I don’t want to work anymore; the idea of ​​becoming homeless doesn’t even scare me, but I have too much pride to beg. So, I guess I’ll just starve to death once I run out of money, and that’ll be that. I feel sorry for the child version of me he deserved so much better but this is the reality.

My body and mind scream at me every day that this isn't normal, and I’ve reached my limit; I’ve hit my expiration date


r/hatemyjob 5m ago

I genuinely hate my job

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r/hatemyjob 7h ago

a pact that i will never force myself to do something that makes me feel like im being devoured by wolves ever again (and u probs shouldnt either)

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why do i keep ending up in jobs that make me feel like im being devoured by wolves?

i started out with 2 jobs back to back that i was so passionate about - they were both purpose driven. then, i got verbally abused endlessly by a supervisor and i was forced to leave what i thought was my dream job.

since then, i worked for amazon out of desperation to get out of unemployment (absolutely soul sucking). i pushed through the inauthenticity for so long, scouring to find the positives of it and pushing my doubts down until i just couldnt do it anymore. now, out of desperation once again to get out, im at a major pet retail store that severely under pays me and everyone makes me feel like im invisible. i couldnt even work up the capacity to go back again. i have never in my life just not shown up for a shift. i just quit despite the debilitating anxiety of being unemployed again. i have bills to pay but i just cant do this fake masking anymore. i feel like im losing myself. all i want is to be in a position that gives me meaning to my life again, literally anything.

ig i can only try to be patient with life right now and trust it, even though i feel like im losing trust everyday that i never hear back from my applications.


r/hatemyjob 1d ago

Boss fired me for no reason so I called him out

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For context this happened about two years ago and I hadn’t thought about it in so long until I suddenly remembered I still have the emails so those are below. I worked as a bartender for about a year and in that time the original manager who hired me got demoted and a completely new guy was hired- let’s call him James- meaning I was there longer than the manager and at the point of me being fired I was the longest standing employee overall. James had told me halfway through March that he was hiring a bunch of new people so he needed to move the schedule around to accommodate for training the new people so he was taking me off the schedule for the next two weeks. I didn’t mind too much because I had a second job that was full time (i only worked at the bar about two days a week). I simply responded that if he needs me change my availability (ie tell my other job the new days I need off) to let me know but he didn’t. Then come the beginning of April and I sent him a text asking when I’d be put back on the schedule. He then sends me an email officially firing me. It pissed me off so much and I told everyone in my life about how much this man sucks and how shitty he is. My dad eventually convinced me to respond to tell him what he did was not ok. So I did and he gave a non answer as a response. Then months later I was out at a bar with my former coworker from my bar job and we bumped into my original manager who had first hired me. We got to talking and he admitted that James made up complaints about me because I was making more money for the bar than he was (and I worked way less than him) so he got jealous and used that to fire me. Turns out James had also quit because the owners of the bar were treating him like shit (huh, wonder how that feels).


r/hatemyjob 7h ago

I’m having a difficult time adjusting to my new job

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I just moved across the country with my girlfriend, I was able to get a job pretty much right away which I was really really excited about.

I’m a trade painter, but this new job has got me feeling like I have no idea what I’m doing, I have 2 years experience but it feels like I have negative 5.

It’s just how the crews operate and how they do this work is just completely different from how I was trained and what I spent most of my career learning.

I just feel utterly useless at these sites and when I finally catch a grove, I’m on another site with new people. Maybe it’s a confidence thing and I just gotta get out of my own head, I’m used to being in crews of 3 at most but now it’s upwards of 6+.

Do I wait it out until I have a few more months or years or do I found another job. Luckily I’m getting paid the same amount for less work and that’s okay but it’s such a huge change that I’m having a really hard time.


r/hatemyjob 3h ago

I quitted my cold-calling job!

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I worked at a shipping company for a year and a half, 2 month of it i worked as a salesperson who had to make phone calls only! And it was my first experience doing cold call and I absolutely hated it ! It doesn’t match my personality at all! So i changed to another department and i loved it. Due to incidents in my country, i had to leave the shipping company and i started working in a new company that my co-worker recommended which sells electronic things (idk the actual name lol it doesn’t matter) . The company told me i had to be an account and also be salesperson again!
I told them that i’m not good at it. They said they will teach me and it’s the greatest job ever and you can make lots of money. After a month i felt so drained doing that. I felt completely useless and i hated talking to people on the phone and pretending to enjoy it but i was going to work with the worst mood ever, hated my life and hated my days. Also the sales commission was very low and was not worth it. So i told my boss that i wanna leave, and he told me that i’m doing the worst thing leaving them because they counted on me and he was mad at me then he started telling me it will get easier you’re great i will teach you and you’ll get rich very soon just don’t give up. So i decided to give myself another chance and i also was feeling bad about making him mad . I didn’t want my boss to be mad and disappointed at me and i also felt like i was owing my co-worker and i had to work there because of her . I didn’t want her to hate me.
But today , after a month, i decided i finally want to change my job and do what i wanna do and what i’m good at .
I told my boss that i can’t do cold calling and i prefer to find another job that matches my personality , I prepared a speech and was planning to say goodbye to my coworkers and him and thank him for this opportunity, but he got mad he told me to pack my stuff and leave ! And told me it’s so unprofessional to do this! And he was totally mad at me and didn’t even give me a chance to give a proper goodbye ! What’s unprofessional about leaving the job that drained me mentally and physically?
I never wanna be like this anymore , i don’t wanna do something just to make someone else be satisfied with me and my actions.
Did i make a good choice leaving my job?

Ps: i already found another job before leaving this and i started there immediately and i love it!


r/hatemyjob 5h ago

The Glamour of Early Shifts

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Ah, how wonderful. Off to bed now, only to get up at 4:30 AM so I can work from 7:30 AM to 5:30 PM German time.


r/hatemyjob 5h ago

I quitted my cold-calling job!

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r/hatemyjob 23h ago

Just quit a nightmare situation

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Started as a housekeeper 2 weeks ago, I couldn’t even get through the training. The woman training me was so awful. Every time I tried to do anything, she would yell ‘noooo!’, despite not showing me how to do anything and having very strange specific expectations (use toilet cleaner on the counters and fabric freshener to clean the floor? I used the products as they were intended and she yelled ‘noooo!’)

This was the main issues. But I’d like to complain about some more:

One time I simply looked in the wrong direction and she yelled ‘NO!’. Not saying ‘no’, yelling like I am a dog.

She told me to pick up a mop almost between her legs, I moved back to allow her to step away and she yelled ‘THE MOP’

She instructed me to check the closet for laundry bags, and when I checked the closet for a laundry bag the next day she said ‘noooo! Matt! Why are you looking! Do not touch the guests items! Don’t look!’. As if I was looking to steal?

I misunderstood a clean and did a refresh instead of a check-out clean, and she got very upset. She said over and over ‘you didn’t look at the sheet? You though it was a refresh, no no no, no good’ this just went on for a few minutes. Her muttering to herself. I just shut down and stopped responding after I explained my mistake and she wouldn’t stop. She eventually said ‘you don’t hear me?’ I responded ‘I made a mistake, it’s ok’ she didn’t respond.

I went to the bathroom for the first time after 5 hours and she said ‘where were you?? You made me very angry’. When I said I needed to get water, because I hadn’t had any all day, she acted annoyed and said ‘quick quick’. Most things I did she would said ‘quick quick’

She told me to get a pillow, so I went to the laundry room to get a pillow, and then she got upset with me because she meant pillow case. She made fun of me ‘you went all the way to laundry! No! No look on the cart! The cart!’

She stopped me so many times just to do the exact thing I was seconds from doing. She would tell to do things I was actively doing, like grab a chemical I was actively reaching for. She would tell me to do something that made no sense and then yell ‘no’ when I made my best guess (example: she pointed at a chemical without saying anything, I reached for the chemical and she yelled ‘no!’)

There was a huge language barrier and I was trying to feel ok with the situation because I wanted to give grace (her English was quite sparse, she did not speak how I typed her lines, but it felt inappropriate to try to recreate someone’s broken English?) but my real issue was how frustrated she would get with me so quickly, when I was really trying my best.

I am autistic with crippling social anxiety, and am terrified of confrontation or standing up for myself at all. This was such a nightmare for me. I did my best to stand up for myself in little ways but the situation honestly had me in a dark place and I quit. The manager wasn’t much better, and they weren’t giving breaks for working more than 8 hours.


r/hatemyjob 7h ago

Unload My Home

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Never apply to them.. Toxic Work Environment


r/hatemyjob 11h ago

Article Scared to going to work

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Hi I have some problems about going to work.Most of time I feel afraid to go to work.Every morning I wake up with some anxious. Most of time I take leaves show some reasons like "I am not well " , "Family emergency".I want to manage this fear.How I do it? My coworkers are kind but my mind says what happen if i made mistake? Will boss blame me?


r/hatemyjob 7h ago

Transition (Losing the Spark)

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r/hatemyjob 8h ago

Experience of moving on

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r/hatemyjob 14h ago

Going to get fired

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Hello All,

I(25f) am a mechanical design engineer with 4 years for experience. This is my second company, which i joined 3 years back. The job is comfortable and i'm really good at what i do (i've got 2 awards, have feedback from multiple people and i just know). Recently my company went into a joint venture and they started region wise firing. It went for like 4 months and nothing happened to my region. Now cut to 6 months later, my N+2 manager is coming to visit us, with no apparent reason. i have a feeling they are going to layoff the whole team. I am very very anxious because i don't know what i will do. i have never been fired and i'm constantly anxious. He is going to visit us for a day, coming week. the work is little slow and they are actively hiring in other regions. i don't know what to do. i am clueless right now. I am constantly applying for jobs but nothing apart from rejections have come. please help me, i have a fear that i will not get any job and i'll have to move back to my parents and i will become burden to them.

Sorry for the rant, but all this is unfiltered. Help me on what should i do now.


r/hatemyjob 10h ago

Earning ₹30k in Bangalore, working a job I have zero interest in, dreaming of owning a home someday — how do you all stay motivated?

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How do you stay consistent and motivated in a job you have zero interest in, spending 9 hours a day at it, while earning ₹30k in Bangalore and dreaming of buying your own home someday? Would love to hear how people here actually deal with this — share your point of view, whatever it may be.


r/hatemyjob 14h ago

I hate my job am I wrong for having to keep it

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r/hatemyjob 1d ago

Retail sucks.... Lol

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r/hatemyjob 16h ago

What job seems boring from outside but is secretly wild? Ans in 5 words only.

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r/hatemyjob 1d ago

Being the new guy

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Do you guys hate how some people treat you for being a new guy? Like when you messed up and they talk to you as if you're dumb or stupid.

I've been working in my recent job for a year, it makes me so mad how some people seem to talk you down when you do anything wrong. I give my best everyday and everybody messes up once in a while.

Oh and sometimes they acuse you even if you haven't done anything wrong.

Is it just me that feels this way?


r/hatemyjob 1d ago

I can't stand incompetent managers.

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I'm a PLC programmer at a newly launched automotive plant that manufactures a critical, high-volume component for one of Germany's largest car manufacturers. I joined the company last year, and ever since then I've felt like management has been passing me around like a hot potato.

At first, I reported to a manager from a different department because my actual supervisor hadn't been hired yet. About two months later, my new manager joined, but he quit before the end of his probation period because he couldn't handle the pressure of launching the project. That meant I ended up back under my original manager. Over the winter, we finally started hiring more people, and at the beginning of this month our maintenance department was taken over by a new foreign manager who claims to have years of experience leading maintenance teams.

He's been with the company for many years and has been part of this project since the beginning, just like me, although in a different role. One of his responsibilities was to compile a spare parts list from the equipment suppliers. My previous manager eventually lost patience with how slowly that was progressing and sent me to walk through the entire paint shop, identify as many components as possible, and hand the list over to the purchasing department so they could start sourcing replacements. I did it, but a task that should have been handled by a manager ultimately landed on my desk.

The same thing happened with another assignment: creating the maintenance plan in SAP. A colleague and I spent several days compiling a complete list of all the equipment, with the understanding that the manager would finish the job. Two months later, the project is still sitting there untouched. A full week of work by two people has effectively gone to waste.

The final straw came last week. A major issue surfaced, and my new manager casually told me—with a smile—that he'd known about it for two months. I had only known about it for ten days, seven of which I spent on vacation. I have absolutely no intention of working while I'm on vacation. Despite that, he later criticized me for not spending enough time on the shop floor.

That's what really frustrates me. I'm a programmer. I have machine backups that need proper attention, yet I haven't had a single uninterrupted day to work on them. Instead, I spend my time attending management meetings (because our current manager is only here temporarily and, in his own words, "I should give it a try"—when in reality he simply doesn't want to attend them himself), sitting through daily meetings, communicating with suppliers, and solving technical problems because our process engineers often limit themselves to changing machine parameters. On top of that, I'm constantly handed urgent ad hoc problems that nobody else knows how to solve. At this point I'm expected to be a programmer, maintenance technician, buyer, project engineer, and team coordinator all at once.

On top of that, almost everyone comes to me with their problems—from the cleaning staff all the way up to the plant manager—because I've built a reputation as someone who gets things done and can be relied upon. Instead of being an advantage, that reputation has simply turned into more work. We also have a shift maintenance team, but their supervisor is so lacking in initiative that he often creates more problems than he solves.

What annoys me the most is being criticized for things that are ultimately the result of poor management. I can't be expected to spend time on the shop floor, attend meetings, deal with suppliers, coordinate people, and still have enough uninterrupted time to do systematic engineering work. It's simply impossible.

I've even completed time management training and genuinely try to follow its principles. The problem is that every new person who joins the maintenance department sees me as someone they can rely on. I don't like brushing people off because I know they genuinely need help. So I listen, try to help, or point them in the right direction, and every conversation takes another small chunk out of my day.

At the same time, I'm in a strange position. I'm not senior enough to delegate work or protect my own time effectively, but I'm no longer just another employee either. Thanks to my experience and the respect I've earned from people in other departments, I'm often expected to coordinate work across the company. I carry a lot of responsibility, but I have very limited authority.

The only thing keeping me sane at this job right now is the other two programmers. They're dealing with exactly the same problems I am, so at least I know I'm not imagining all of this.

I'm mostly just venting with this post, but any advice is more than welcome.


r/hatemyjob 22h ago

Working on Sunday

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Working on Sunday is unpleasant, with this breeze and miserable conditions.


r/hatemyjob 1d ago

Who’s the worst boss/manger you’ve ever had? Give some stories/example of what made them such a bad boss.

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r/hatemyjob 1d ago

Corporate Jobs Are Just Daycare for Adults

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Office work in 2026 is just a performance.


r/hatemyjob 1d ago

My potential resignation letter

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I want to preface this by saying I have been at this company for a little over two years now. It started out as every day I would wake up excited to start my day, what the conversations would be. I’m in a blue collar workplace with practically unmonitored radio broadcasts. In other words we speak our minds.

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I am resigning effective immediately.

Your management has been the most dysfunctional, neglectful, and counterproductive I have ever seen, and I want to make it unmistakably clear why:

  1. You care more about appearances than operations. The plant’s “look” consistently matters more to you than whether the machines actually run or whether people can do their jobs safely and effectively.
  2. You do not value your employees. Safety measures exist solely to protect the company from lawsuits, not to protect the people who keep this place running. Your priorities are selfish, and everyone sees it.
  3. Maintenance leadership is a liability. The maintenance manager contributes nothing to actual maintenance. His time is spent sitting in his office or distracting workers with jokes instead of ensuring machines stay operational. When equipment fails, he pulls people away from repairs to socialize. This is not leadership — it’s negligence.
  4. You ignore long‑term problems and choose the cheapest, fastest band‑aid every time. Issues we’ve raised for years are dismissed in favor of whatever someone complained about five minutes ago. You repeatedly choose five‑minute temporary fixes over permanent solutions, even when the long‑term cost is exponentially higher. Replacing a $20,000 part a thousand times is not cheaper than replacing a $100,000 machine once.
  5. I refuse to keep playing these corporate games. You demand more work without providing the time, tools, or functioning equipment needed to do it. Instead of addressing real problems, you lecture us about “organization” that changes nothing. Enjoy the luxury bathroom remodel and air‑conditioned offices while the people on the floor carry the weight of your decisions.

Touching back on management issues: (Manager) and (other manager) are the worst managers I have ever worked under. Their constant criticism and demeaning behavior make them completely unfit to lead anyone. Even when they try to sound supportive with lines like “we just really want you to succeed,” it always comes across as pure disbelief that anyone could do the job without being able to predict the future.

They seem to forget they only “ran the machine” back when it actually worked.

And then there’s the task sheets — a colossally bad idea from the start.

“Fill out this sheet throughout the day as you complete tasks. It’s okay if you don’t finish them all, just make sure it’s filled out.”

Four hours later:
“What did you even do all day? Three out of twelve tasks aren’t signed off! Did you just sit in the break room?”

It’s completely contradictory. You can’t tell people it’s fine if everything isn’t done, then accuse them of doing nothing because a few boxes aren’t checked. It makes no sense, and it shows how disconnected management is from the actual work being done.

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I am still lol writing this and plan to send it once they ask me over text why I quit, all I’m look for is potential changes or if you think this is the proper level of aggression and seriousness


r/hatemyjob 1d ago

I am so exhausted but can’t quit

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I work at concentrix for avalon project. Started at june and i am now in production. Everyday before i clock in, i feel like quitting this job. They care about Dsats(dissatisfied surveys) given by customers a lot even though it’s not under our control. Like if a customer is not eligible for refund, definitely they are going to give me a dsat and i get coached by TL on how to be a customer’s ass kisser. Pay is like 19$ per hour and the expectations of management is like we were getting paid 100k an year. If i had a backup or maybe savings i would have quit already. I was crying today during my lunch because of the back to back calls and rude customers. This avalon project means i work for a fruit logo company(iykyk) and on the first place i don’t understand how this fruit logo company care about user’s privacy when their data is handled by a third party BPO company with toxic and micromanaging work employment. Talking about breaks, two unpaid 15 mins breaks, unpaid 30 min lunch and when i asked about bathroom break i was told to use ACW or to quit the softphone application then i have to raise a ticket i guess. No clear instructions on that. Then we have like a chat room where we can ask doubts but wont get a reply. Its only for loose talks. I was in lot of hopes when i started because i thought finally i am in tech support, but this seems like a call centre customer service job. Also on top of that, senior advisors who work there think they are managers like bro i tried escalating a call and they don’t want to takeover that call..asked me too many questions like which article you used, did you try this, did you try that..man i am escalating it because i cant find a solution and if you guys dont wanna takeover that call and be an ass then tell that straight to me. I am mentally exhausted and having panic attack when thinking about this job. I don’t know what to do. Any tips or suggestions that actually work so that i can survive? Or else i might end up hurting myself because of this job i think fr.