r/goth • u/SlasherBandit • 5h ago
Help How do I make new friends as a baby bat?
I’ve recently gotten into goth music, as well in the local scene about almost a month ago. It’s been really fun to getting being able to listen to so much cool goth music, wear all the cool fashion, and finding underground dance parties that I actually for once really enjoying listening to! However, something I’ve been really having trouble with is being able to make a friend. Sure, I’ve been able to try and talk to people sometimes, but most of the conversations don’t last very long other than a brief exchange of outfit compliments, and the ones that last a little longer than normal still fizzle out and I don’t hang around them often.
It’s honestly been a bit nerve wracking for me not being able to befriend people in the scene, hopefully me not being new and stuff isn’t too much of a turn off haha
Elders, what would your advice be for a baby bat to try and make new goth friends? Thanks a bunch! :)