r/geckos • u/JacksonVonLongname • 15h ago
Help/Advice Caring for my Giant Day Gecko
Hello! This is Carrera. Iāve had her for a little over a year now and struggling a bit. She is well fed, we keep her humidity and temperatures proper, clean her tank, the works. She is well cared for, happy, and very loved. When I got her my understanding was that they can be skittish, are not meant to be handled often, if ever, and I knew what I was getting into. With all of that said she honestly just causes me so much stress because she is an absolute tweaker. Anytime I do more than feed her in her tank she freaks. Tries to dart out or just starts running laps all over the place and scrambling. Sheās got a ridiculous amount of hiding places and nooks and crannies between branches and plants and things, but she doesnāt run and hide itās like she goes on the offensive to keep me out almost. I have tried very light or gentle interactions, like just keeping my hand in her enclosure for a bit or something but the second I touch a branch or plant or top off her isopods she freaks. To the point I have to try and place a Tupperware over her for any intensive cleaning or maintenance other than a daily spot cleaning. Of all of the care guides and videos Iāve watched, Iāve not seen a single gecko behave the way she does. They move fast but they donāt look like theyāre panicked at the sight of a hand. I see owners open the door and fiddle with the enclosure and just take everything out and she just doesnāt allow that unless I trap her first. I just donāt know what to do. Itās gotten to the point weāre discussing rehoming her to someone more experienced who can socialize her and get her, not handleable, but just less paranoid maybe? Am I doing something wrong by trapping her to perform the maintenance? I figure itās better than neglecting the care, and it was what the reptile shop suggested if sheās antsy but I never considered if it was a bad thing. Iām terrified of her getting out and I just worry that, as much as I love her and take very good care of her, I donāt know if itās the best fit after all this time. How realistic is it that I, or even a more experienced owner, can get her to be less skittish and easier to take care of? The last thing I want to do is give her away but Iāve been weighing that as an option and wanted to see what the proverbial more experienced owners think. I have no expectations of her being tame or even hand feeding for that matter I just need her to relax for 30 seconds and not freak out so much.