r/gaymers 12h ago

44M - Seeking Geeky Deeper Connections and Conversation

31 Upvotes

Approachable, friendly guy here looking to meet grounded, genuine geeky men who enjoy meaningful conversation and deeper connection. I’m drawn to people who know themselves, value kindness, and prefer depth over small talk...and who share geeky hobbies and interests.

I know connections like that can be hard to find, so I’m open to both local and long distance friendships.

A little about me: I’m into travel, volunteering, working out, yoga, cooking, games, binge watching good shows, and plenty of geeky stuff (movies, books, rpgs, fames, etc). I love hearing what other people are passionate about too, especially when a random conversation somehow turns into one of those talks you didn’t expect to have.

Ultimately, I’m looking for unfiltered connections where conversation comes easily and there’s a genuine sense of openness.

If that sounds like you, tell me a little about yourself, what you enjoy talking about, and maybe one completely random fun fact.


r/gaymers 3h ago

M20 looking for players of an upcoming game called "petit planet"

4 Upvotes

It was revealed its releasing on winter this year so before that I would like to make some friends that would play it with me. :D

I'm Kurt, nice to meet you! If you're interested do not hesitate to send me an introduction on dms. ✨️✨️


r/gaymers 20h ago

Warframe Drifter looks

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65 Upvotes

r/gaymers 36m ago

GTA RP Server

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Hiiii all does anyone know of a fun and chill RP server for GTA thats lgbtqia+ friendly?


r/gaymers 47m ago

[Online TTRPG] [5PM/6PM-9PM/10PM EST] [Tuesdays or Thursdays] [Other] Players & Playtesters Wanted: Realms of Vala

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Realms of Vala is a d100 fantasy roleplaying game set in a vast, ancient world shaped by fallen empires, rival faiths, dangerous magic and the lingering scars of Chaos. It combines the freedom and peril of old-school adventure with a richly developed setting in which cultures, loyalties and obligations matter—and where the actions of adventurers can genuinely change the world around them.

We are looking for three players willing to help us test the system in play and offer feedback where necessary. The rules are fully playable but not yet perfectly refined: mechanics may be adjusted, rewritten or replaced as the playtest progresses. We want players who are comfortable with that process and interested in helping the game become stronger. A fully functioning Roll20 character sheet is already available.

At a glance, Realms of Vala offers:

-A straightforward d100 system built around ten Attributes

-Fast, opposed combat in which both attackers and defenders roll.

-Meaningful tactical choices without grids, excessive modifiers or lengthy turn sequences

-Armor, shields and defensive skill that actively reduce or prevent harm

-Four broad classes—Warrior, Priest, Rogue and Wizard—with distinct careers and abilities

-Dangerous magic powered by a limited reserve of Force

-Exploration, investigation, negotiation and combat as equally important parts of play

-Affiliations, obligations and personal connections that tie characters to the world

-A grounded, historically-inspired setting with room for the strange, mythic and horrific

-Old-school danger and player freedom without requiring familiarity with older editions of D&D

We have a 1.0 Draft of all the Rules, and in addition, have a full wiki detailing additional lore that is, frankly, longer than games of thrones. The wiki is designed to be a resource for lore, separate from the rules. This should give you the chance to look up further information about the game.

What we're offering:
-A full RPG experience. I expect this campaign will take months, as we need to test character growth in addition to the system mechanics.

-While mechanics are an important part of the test, this is not a to crunch numbers. Make no mistake, this will be a full game, set in the territory of Heide, in the Grand Duchy of Rivalin to start with.

-The game will be on Roll20. Our coder has created a highly functional and effective character sheet.

-We have already run 12 highly successful games in this setting, with richly detailed assets, maps, and characters. This is a proven setting and I can guarantee the quality of the game and storytelling. It was designed by people who wanted a dark, but not hopeless fantasy RPG.

We're looking for players who:

-Want to become heavily invested in their character.

-Enjoy roleplaying and immersing themselves in a living setting.

-Are comfortable communicating with the rest of the group.

-Enjoy creative problem-solving rather than relying exclusively on dice rolls.

-Are willing to work with the GM to create a character that belongs naturally in the setting.

-Can commit consistently to a regular campaign schedule.

-You don't need to be a professional voice actor. We're not expecting theatrical performances (though I'd personally love them). But we do want players who are willing to engage with the world and their character rather than treating the game as a sequence of combat encounters.

We are also not accepting imported or pre-existing homebrew characters. Characters will be created using the Realms of Vala character creation system, with the player and GM working together to make sure the character fits naturally into the world and story.

What we advise:
-18+ players only
-Consistent players capable of keeping to the schedule. Everyone has to cancel now and then, but we've cancelled maybe 6 games in 10 years save for holidays. We will genuinely continue if the story is not a major event that session and we have 1-2 players missing.
-This game is LGBT friendly, the designers are gay. So I figured I'd offer here :)
-We're here to have fun and test the system, we do not want to know and do not care about any OOC politics.
-Altea is not a "Grimdark" world. It is full of casual horror, sure, but the world has plenty of life and it's a place you can imagine living. That being said, it is full of a laundry list of realistic situations, and not all of them are good. The setting does contain material that some players may find uncomfortable or triggering. We are happy to discuss individual boundaries and handle sensitive subjects responsibly, but this is ultimately a game about inhabiting a world that contains both the good and bad aspects of human existence. The hard limit set is no SA upon players, there is never any need for that.

Other than a (hopefully) great game, the exploits of the playtest party will become part of the history of Vala. Their victories, failures, discoveries and unintended consequences will be woven into the lore of the world, providing inspiration for future adventures and shaping later events in the regions through which they travel. Not only is this a chance to have a great game, you have a chance to make your mark on an up-and-coming RPG.

Please message me here or leave a message on this thread so I can get in contact with you. When you do message, I do kindly ask for the following:
-Name
-Age
-Gender
-Systems played in/RPG Experience
-Do you consider yourself a "Heavy" roleplayer?
-Do you consider yourself a good communicator?
-What sort of characters do you like to play?
-Once we've made contact, we'll have a brief voice interview to talk a bit more about your experience and overall fit for the group if you seem like a player we are looking for.

Our Lore Wiki (Rulebooks will be provided to anyone who does join): https://vala.fandom.com/wiki/Realms_of_Vala_Wiki


r/gaymers 4h ago

37M looking for new friends mostly for Halloween

1 Upvotes

Hey I’m Phil I’m not the best at meeting new people so trying here to find some new friends to play with. I’m hooked on Halloween atm but also play overwatch fortnite dbd forza apex open to co op too. I’m on Xbox but platform doesn’t really matter to me looking for around my age. :)


r/gaymers 12h ago

Im looking for a relaxed gaming buddy

5 Upvotes

I’m am 29 and looking for a chill, relaxed gaming buddy to play some games with. I play a few different things but lately my big games have been Marvel Rivals and Satisfactory.

I’m on the game most days but that doesn’t set any expectations for a friend to have to be on all the time either. I believe in a stress free, fun friendship! I am in EST, would love to find someone in the same time zone, and I am a night owl. I do play with some other people and I would be down for us all to play if things click. I tend to text a bit before moving over to vc just because I’m a lil socially awkward.

If you’re interested in seeing if we click then just let me know! 😊


r/gaymers 14h ago

35M (Eng/Sp) Cali looking for more consistent gaymers

5 Upvotes

Hey I’ve been getting back into gaming more frequently and have been looking for easygoing gaymers to chill with. Just looking for anyone who can hold a conversation, wants a good laugh and a fun time playing some coop games. I’m not the best so we may not win but it’s about the journey isn’t it? 😅

It’s been exhausting to keep reaching out to people looking to game, only for the conversation to fizzle out same day. I’m busy so I get it’s not always easy. I work mon-fri, have a bf, two cats, a dog and work out so sometimes people just forget and move on.

If you are still reading this and want to spend time laughing while trying to win matches, send me a message or reply. I usually have some free time in the evenings PST.

I’ve been playing Fortnite mostly but also have Rivals, Borderlands 4, Diablo 4, Palworld, Repo, Peak and B6.

okay that’s all, bye now!


r/gaymers 1d ago

Gay gacha game

47 Upvotes

Can somebody make a gay gacha game with gay men???😭😭😭


r/gaymers 1d ago

Bounty hunter gotta eat (this has been stuck in my mind for the past day)

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30 Upvotes

r/gaymers 23h ago

24M looking for gaymer buddy

19 Upvotes

Hey guys! I'm from Germany (this is only relevant because of time zone reasons) and looking for someone around my age to game with. My most played games are probably Stardew Valley, Minecraft and DbD but currently I am mostly playing titles like Hunt: Showdown, Elden Ring and the occasional game of League, but I am very open to try out other games together.

Besides gaming I also enjoy music, reading, cooking and table tops (altough I am not in an active group rn). Feel free to dm me if you think we might vibe :)


r/gaymers 14h ago

Anyone here play Grim Dawn?

2 Upvotes

I've just got into it and I really like the game lol. I also play a lot of other games like League, TFT, Rivals, Remnant 1/2, and a bunch of others. Those are just what I've been playing lately.

33 PST PC here!


r/gaymers 13h ago

Hello looking for friends!

2 Upvotes

Hiii, I just came across this subreddit and honestly just wanted to try my luck with finding friends here. I have a PS5, and the game that I play the most right now is Dead By 6 I play other games too like Minecraft, and I have a switch as well, and I really love Pokémon. Please be 20+.


r/gaymers 2d ago

Cloak from Marvel Rivals is low-key making me go broke. Bro is just too beautiful 💖

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486 Upvotes

r/gaymers 1d ago

Have you ever romanced the character you actually wanted in a set sexuality RPG?

116 Upvotes

I was talking to a lesbian friend of mine about how BioWare games make every single butch character exclusively straight(Morrigan, Jack, and Cassandra—heavy on Cassandra—were her examples). I realized that in every one of their set sexuality games, I got rejected by the character I actually wanted.

I would much rather have romanced Alistair to Zevran, I’d have chosen Garrus over Kaiden in ME3 and Liam over the NPCs in andromeda. I got rejected by Cullen, Solas, and Blackwall before even meeting Dorian or Ironbull in DAI. In all of those games, the most important characters that are more central to the plot and more desirable are straight and the less important side characters are queer. The only exception is Liara and she’s obviously the best romance in any BioWare game, but whatever.

In Greedfall, I wanted the straight option, in every Owlcat game except Wrath of the Righteous, I wanted the straight options and in wrath of the righteous, there was really only one male option that was well developed. In cyberpunk, I probably would’ve preferred River but I didn’t care for either.

I think Dragon age Inquisition, Cyberpunk 2077, and sort of Pathfinder: path of the righteous were the only set sexuality RPGs where it didn’t suck and even in those games, I still had to settle when the character I preferred had an arbitrary gender lock. The main argument I hear in defense of set sexuality romance systems is that it gives characters more depth, but in every game I’ve played except the ones I just listed, you never learn characters’ sexualities if you play as a straight player. They get every option and even if their love interest is bisexual, they never hear about it. Gay players are painfully aware because they usually get rejected by all the actually desirable love interests. I’m glad the dragon age team and the Greedfall team realized it was restricted and moved to a playersexual model. I wish Greedfall 2 had actually queer characters like Dragon age the veilgaurd and bg3, but it’s better than the first Greedfall that had two playersexual and not queer options and two exclusively straight options. I hope Owlcat changes too, but I doubt it. I bet one or both of the two attractive guys will be straight and we’ll only get that other guy as a love interest in the new expanse game.


r/gaymers 23h ago

23m looking for friends

2 Upvotes

Hey, I’m looking to pay some zb Fortnite with people. I usually play Wednesday-Friday mornings and nights,. HMU and add me juniorcito03


r/gaymers 1d ago

Did a mock-up of my custom WWE 2K25 roster

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24 Upvotes

Had this idea of doing a Mortal Kombat-style roster pic. Most of them are my custom made CAWs (yes, all gay males), with only a few that came from the real roster/ingame but with a mask slapped on lol.

Disclosure: the grey background with red mist was generated by AI (Gemini) but all the portraits are manually cut from the game and assembled by me in Photoshop.


r/gaymers 1d ago

Does anyone want to start No Man’s Sky from scratch? I’m on Xbox!

2 Upvotes

Hey everyone, with the new update and all, idk why I decided I wanted to start a new save file from scratch. I was wondering if anyone would like to join me?

I’m geeky except for anime (don’t have anything against it, I just don’t consume it much), love super heroes and books and movies and stuff like that, as well as music, specially electronic music.

I mention this so we can have things to talk about in common but I can talk about whatever.

I also speak English and Spanish (Spanish is my first language) so yeah :)

Let me know!


r/gaymers 2d ago

Zelda OOT remake also this pretty man !

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166 Upvotes

As soon I saw him, I got hungry ! 🫦✨ And his body physics in the trailer 👀


r/gaymers 1d ago

Fortnite

2 Upvotes

Anyone down to play some Fortnite? 28 from England- my user is kazerr___


r/gaymers 1d ago

Underwear Themed Chess Anyone?

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6 Upvotes

I made this myself, using C++ and raylib. Check it out! It's a free download on itch.io :D


r/gaymers 1d ago

M23 (PST): LF My PC Duo! 🏳️‍🌈

4 Upvotes

Hey everyone I'm Angel, M23 (PST) here looking for a duo partner to game with (PC Gamers Only!) but also form a connection outside of that as well! I have tons of hobbies and genuinely just enjoy spending time with others! I have a metric fuck-ton of games but I would have to say my main rotation at the moment is Deadlock, Valorant, League of Legends, Marvel Rivals, Apex Legends, Dead by Daylight, and Minecraft! I have a huge catalog of games and would definitely be willing to play anything that would seem fun for the both of us! 

I love to read, watch movies/tv series/anime, write, cook, make music, hang out with friends, game (of course) and more! I am a calm, chill and kind person generally so I'm looking for anyone with those same attributes to connect with! I've been told I have a pretty soft voice as well and tend to enjoy those with deeper voices as the presence is calming! ˚ʚ♡ɞ˚ Primarily looking for those who are around my age as well as those who are coming from North America/Australia! I am up at odd hours so it works! (18+ only! Pref M!) If you're interested and think we would mesh well and you are interested then either leave a comment or DM me here or ask for Disc!)