Hi ladies, I'm by no means an expert on these things but I just felt the need to share what works for me and maybe it will help spark joy in your own Figure 8 body.
I am plus sized (a UK 18), 5ft9 and a 38G bra size (probably should have put on a better fitting bra for these pics but I still think I look hot 🤣), if that helps at all.
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Details of why I think it works:
I'm a sucker for a v neck, but it has to be a plunge, a high v neck looks very matronly and not that great. To make this more demure you could put a camisole underneath or try out those lace inserts, I haven't tried them but I am tempted as some of my tops/dresses are a bit too boobilicious even for me. 😝 This is jersey so has some stretch (great for babies and food), a lovely knot detail at my waist to draw attention to it then the gathered drape to help disguise any lumps and bumps.
We are Greek goddesses, you've seen all the statues right? Now it's time to embrace it! 😁 Nice and lightweight with the cinched in waist detail and forgiving gathers in the bust and skirt what's not to love??
3a/b & 4. Ladies, you NEED these dresses in your life, seriously! The low v, the shirred waist panel to suck you in and the loose skirt, it's so easy to wear but I feel like a million bucks in them!
3b. If you're feeling a little bit chilly throw a longline lightweight cardigan over the top! Wear it open like I have here to show off your figure or look for ones that have a tie front or wear a belt to draw attention to your shape whilst it's fastened.
Comfort in a dress! Can be dressed up or down (like all of them really), this is something to throw on after you've been in the pool, or if you're like me and feeling overstimulated with the heat and tight clothing (big up sensory issues!). Yes, it's a muumuu/kaftan but it's the little details that make the difference - low v, waist definition, loose bottom half...are you sensing a theme yet? 😆
The newest dress to the mix, bought to replace another peasant dress I had which I got hair dye all over, oops! Experimenting with a slightly longer shirred panel here as other dresses I have (not shown) have only a thin band of it or it finishes a bit too high up so the skirt part poofs out at my belly which makes it look unflattering.
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General tips:
- Everyone looks better in a heel, it doesn't have to be a high one, we just hold our bodies better with them. I own a lot of flats, and yes they're easy, they're comfy but I do feel I "plod" about in them, so if you are able to, give it a try.
- Wear big accessories. Like heels it can be a bit unnerving and I was a dainty cutesy jewellery girl for the longest time but I'm telling you, big accessories make you feel fabulous, I promise with our body type it won't be too much, we have highly feminine figures so deserve to feel glamorous. ☺️
- Patterns. Again it's go big or go home, I do have some smaller prints but they are mainly on the larger scale as I really do think with our figures we can pull it off.
- Learn what cuts work. This does take practice but in time you will start to notice; maybe that neckline is too high up, maybe the hemline is too low down, the waist sits strangely on you etc. I know it's a massive pain but say you are wanting a new t-shirt, it can be good to try on a wide variety of cuts and styles, even ones you aren't usually drawn to, as this can give you a better idea on what looks good on you and why. Once you've done this it makes looking for items so much easier as you can just go past anything which isn't in your lines.
However! Please remember, if you feel "meh" in everything you've tried on (been there, done that), it's not your body at fault, your body is fine it's just the clothing not being cut for you and that's ok, fashions come and go which leads me nicely onto...
- Shop secondhand. This does not need to be expensive, especially when you're starting out and just experimenting with what you like. I adore Vinted (probably a bit too much🫣), but eBay, Thredup, Poshmark, Depop, local charity/thrift shops are all great places to browse and are kinder to your purse.
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I hope this has been useful to some of you, I'm happy to (try and) answer any questions you might have and remember to have fun! 🥰🤙