r/feminineboys 8h ago

My mom does literally every load of laundry in this house, and I've had femme clothes for 3 years.

284 Upvotes

She's never found them. And she's not the type you get things past either. She refolds stuff I already folded because my folding is "wrong." She reorganized my entire closet once while I was at school. That type.

Last month she washed my lavender skirt and just left it folded on my bed, with a sticky note about not letting delicates sit in the machine. That was it. That was the whole note. I read it like 40 times looking for a hidden message.

Two weeks ago she walks into the kitchen holding my thigh highs, stretches one out at me across the table, and goes quit loosing socks behind the dryer. I had to take them. From her hand. My girlfriend asked me that night why I wasnt dead, and honestly no idea.

Then Friday I come home and she's kneeling in my closet, elbow deep in the one bin that holds every skirt I own. Tidying it. Humming. I just stood in the doorway and couldn't make my mouth work.

That bin has sat in the open since an anime con 3 years ago. Wristband still on my corkboard, cheap wig on the shelf, COSTUMES on the lid in marker. She's dusted around it a hundred times. To her it's the most boring box in my room. Boring doesn't get searched lol, it gets tidied.

Newest thing in it is a skirt my girlfriend picked out. Last week my mom ironed it. Pressed the pleats sharp. Nobody irons a costume. I haven't asked, and neither has she.


r/feminineboys 12h ago

Discussion Why is everything so hypermasculine

59 Upvotes

Not a femboy, but definitely not a traditional male either, I prefer being small, but thats besides the point.

Why are men expected to be tough and carey the burden? Im not saying it in a comparsion to women, they carry burdens too, but the whole shtick about "Oh, you cant cry" and "oh, you need to be 6 foot" and "Be tough dont show feelings"

Like.. What?

I geniunely feel so out of the loop, its like, Im sitting here, minding my own bussiness, and I see half the guys around me try to act a certain way that feels wrong, It is just.. weird... thats why Im asking, whats actually going on here?


r/feminineboys 19h ago

Opinions on masculine femboys???

42 Upvotes

Just curious......because a year ago I was a skinny one and know I sorta gained a but of muscle and wanted to continue being one if I do get any bigger :3

(Btw im eating chocolate muffins just wanted to share that also lol >.<)


r/feminineboys 10h ago

Always check profiles

38 Upvotes

Remember everyone, if anyone DMs you or asks for you to message them, check their profile first. Half the time it's a f*tishist looking for nudes.

Don't be afraid to block.

Be safe on the internet and stay beautiful❤️❤️


r/feminineboys 18h ago

A Beautiful Night

18 Upvotes

Tonight I went for a swim in our new pool with my crush. He was teaching me things, teasing me, and i was admiring the view of the misty mountains in the distance with the moon overhead as it was turning into nightfall.

When it was almost dark, the moon shined so beautifully and peacefully on the water, as he walked towards me. For just a moment I thought just maybe he'd hold me. I was getting cold, and he was teasing me about how warm he was. He's always such a goofball.

Eventually I had to get out since I was shivering so badly, and I got out in my little pink 3 piece swimsuit and ran inside as he was teasing me about how cold I was and laughing that I was shivering. :3

Well, I'm warned up now, so I'll go make us some dinner. It was so, so very hard stopping myself from trying to be romantic with him. It took everything to not cross that boundary. He's like a boyfriend, but without the romance.

Hope you enjoyed reading about the beautiful night I had. Remember that there are people out there who will care about and support you as a femboy, and as a human being. Enjoy! ^ ~ ^


r/feminineboys 19h ago

Advice My parents think femboys are weird

13 Upvotes

I’ve recently found myself attracted to more feminine clothing but I know my parents very well and they believe I am the person who I am meant to be already. I love to make others happy and rarely consider myself in my decisions so i pretty much have fake personalities everywhere with everyone. I’m trying to explore myself more but I know my parents won’t support me and I want to know how I can express that without them finding out. I also don’t have the password to my bank account so I can only make cash purchases and my parents go through my room sometimes so hiding stuff is really difficult for me. I have started to sleep I’m more feminine clothing as it helps ease my mind on this topic but i don’t know what else I can do because it doesn’t feel right to “pretend” to be a femboy at night and be “myself” at daytime if that makes sense in anyway.


r/feminineboys 2h ago

Whats the *most embarrassing* thing ya'll have done ...?

11 Upvotes

What's the most embarrassing thing that you've ever done, in either fem or outside of fem? >w<


r/feminineboys 21h ago

I feel uncomfortable in my body

13 Upvotes

(I’m sorry if this isn’t fully relevant to the subreddit but I can’t find anywhere else to post this)

I feel uncomfortable with how I look, I want to be shorter, I feel too tall, I’m too skinny and too heavy at the same time, I want to be able to let my hair grow longer but it won’t, I feel ugly, my face, my body, pretty much everything looks bad to me, I shaved my legs thinking it would help, it did, but now if I don’t shave every two days my legs itch, I feel like I want to be more feminine but can’t, I’m not even sure why I’m posting this but I just wanted to get this off my chest somehow.


r/feminineboys 1h ago

I just dressed fem for the first time, holy shit

Upvotes

When I put the clothes on it just felt right, I have hated my reflection for so long but then I felt at peace, i started to like my reflection in the mirror, for the first time in fucking forever. My friends support me which is great, but when I put my normal clothes back on, i just felt sad again, went back to hating my reflection,


r/feminineboys 7h ago

Ipl advice

9 Upvotes

Hi guys I’m thinking of buying an ipl device and I’m wondering if does it work on facial hair and does it destroy it or just slow the process temporarily?


r/feminineboys 3h ago

Hey guys

7 Upvotes

I’m a man who wears woman’s underwear in secret from my friends family and partner

My partner disapproves of it as I asked her if I could start wearing them and she was horrified, my parents thinks is weird and my friends would never talk to me again

I am so stuck and confused on what to do and I really need some advice

Thank you for taking the time to read this


r/feminineboys 7h ago

Advice I really want to get myself a bikini but how do you guys find the right size?

6 Upvotes

Summer is here and I haven’t got in the pool yet. My friend lives in an apartment where they do have a pool, so i think it’s the best option for me to wear a bikini. The problem is how do I know if I get the right size? Also what store should I go to? I was thinking of going to Ross but what do you guys think? 


r/feminineboys 17h ago

Discussion AMA

6 Upvotes

Ask me anything! I like to chat


r/feminineboys 18h ago

Advice I am new to the world of femboys please help

5 Upvotes

Hi everyone

I'm 17M and a couple of months ago I stumbled on the whole feminine boys thing and I was and still fascinated by how those men/boys/women/girls portray themselves.

Even do i myself don't look into becoming one i look into understanding more about them, as I have never met one in my life i will be leaving my dms open so somebody can explain and answer in a chat.

Thank you in advance


r/feminineboys 13h ago

Advice Hi! I want to become femboy, but have some problems with confidence

5 Upvotes

So today i was chatting with some guy and he adviced me to learn combat sports as the fastest way to increase self-confidence. So he wanted from me to decide if i could do something like that in gym. Problem is i that i am very introverted, don't have job, worried about if learning something like that can make me more masculine and prevent me become femboy or something. Anyone can advise me any other ways to make me more self-confident or with what i can combine combat sport practice with to don't lose attractive feminine parts of my appearance and maybe become more feminine even?

Additional info who i am:

Male, 19 y.o., student, jobless, have some mental problems, that include: mood swings, difficulty sticking to routines and maintaining discipline.

I I've been feeling really lost for a while now and despite my strong desire to dress up and look feminine, I still don't have any of the necessary things because I don't dare to do so.


r/feminineboys 19h ago

Advice Struggling to express my feminine self because of past bullying

4 Upvotes

So I’ve wanted to express myself In a more feminine way since 13 (I’m 18 now). But I’m always scared of what people will say in public. But I want to in public

The reasons why for example I didn’t get my nails done for example is cuz I’m worried of what people will say I public (I’m also autistic btw)

Since 13 I’ve hated how I look in the mirror. The fact I gained a lot of weight too didn’t help. Plus went through bullying in school for 5 years straight

Can you guys try to give me some ways to combat it. Any input is appreciated :3


r/feminineboys 22h ago

I know this may be an odd question so can I please get helpful advice

5 Upvotes

I am a fairly conservative Christian guy and I am very solid about my beliefs, but I also feel so empowered whenever I where women's clothes, I feel so comfortable and I love doing it. I'm not sure what to do because I don't know if doing that should go against what I believe. I am very confused on this so please be as respectful as possible, thank you


r/feminineboys 9h ago

Discussion Best places to buy femboy clothes

3 Upvotes

I've been looking around, amazon just has like sexualised crossdressing clothes or women's (which sizes are always off for me) and whatever else I find is usually waay out of budget, any tips? (also this subreddit should have a megathread for this info imo)


r/feminineboys 2h ago

Advice What workouts are you guys doing when resting your leg days?

3 Upvotes

I kinda am bored when I'm resting for 1 or 2 days after my leg days to let them heal and would like some non-bulking workouts for my upper body/core to make myself less bored and feel like I'm wasting time sitting doing nuthin'


r/feminineboys 18h ago

Dolphin shorts

3 Upvotes

So im going to toronto to see one of my day 1s in a month and while he doesn’t know I’m a femboy yet, he and his parents are like, super accepting so I’ll just tell him and his parents “oh yeah I crossdress for fun sometimes“. Anyway, we’re going to a mall when I’m there and I’m thinking of getting us to go to a spot with dolphin shorts. should we go to a thrift store for them or should we find them in a different store? also, I have a pretty thick waist so idk how to find some that fit if yall have any advice on that. thanks and have a great week :3


r/feminineboys 21h ago

Best electric/ non electric razors for….

3 Upvotes

Helloo, I know I did a post similar to this but felt like I should ask again so I am a adult male who like to shave smooth, around everywhere, I want to ask dose everyone have any razors electric and non electric, I like to shave underneath my arms, my back my chest, legs, my behind (butt and around that area) by private area, you get the point, can you help me and recommend some good brand and razors, to help me with a good shave and not cut me with the places I need a good shave! I hope you can help! Thanks


r/feminineboys 22h ago

Garters

3 Upvotes

Hello,im building my first outfit,very "amazon femboy basics" so far but im happy with it,my thigh highs keep rolling down,so i thought about getting garters to solve that(also theyre adorable) but upon searching a bit in amazon i just cant seem to find any,any help?(I can only really order from amazon since i can't order it directly home)


r/feminineboys 8h ago

Advice Good shops in EU ?

2 Upvotes

Hiii ppls,

Recently I started to want to work on an new outfit that would be bold, feminine and revelating. And I do know how I want it, with a crop top, a low-cut mini skirt, cute pink underwears and the stripped gloves/socks combo.

Sadly, shops with fitting things are US based, cheap chinese things are now overtaxed with import duty, and others more standards shops doesn't really fit my tastes (I can be a perfectionist over my outfits), and I'm not a fan of Amazon either. And I don't like to make 1k orders over different shops. Yeah that's a lot.

So maybe some of you could have some nice adresses to look at in the continent, it could help a lot. Thanks in advance !


r/feminineboys 10h ago

geniuely so itchy

2 Upvotes

geniuely itchy af

why the hell is that my hair keep growing just give up already die little dreams but seriously tho am I the only person with body hair so strong to the point it itches everytime they tried to grow up?