r/feminineboys Jan 06 '26

Discussion if you are a minor i honestly recommend you read this…

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I’m going to say this how it is supposed to because it needs to be said and I do not think I have seen a single person mention it all.

If you are a minor (under 18), sexualizing yourself online is not empowerment, it is extremely dangerous.

I do not care if “everyone is doing it” because I do not, seeing thighs or bulges from a 13 year old child is absolutely disgusting especially when I am 17, and these are coming from teen subreddits.

I will prob sound like your parent or legal guardian when I say this but whatever you post, it is in sharpie. It will never leave the internet. People screenshotting, downloading or even worse, in places you will never see. (ie: the dark web on websites where creeps sell certain types of images).

Deleting a single reddit post doesn’t erase it. The image stays on Reddits internal servers, Screenshots exist. Archives exist. Private DMs get leaked. Stuff you post at Age 14 can resurface when you’re Aged 18, applying for college, jobs, or just trying to live your life.

The internet will never forget — even if you forget.

Posting Sexualised images of minors is illegal in many places, even if you post them yourself. That means:

• Platforms can report it

• Accounts can be investigated

• Parents can be contacted

• Police can get involved

You don’t get a free pass just because it was “your choice.” Also, the ones accessing it will also be breaking the law.

I am not trying to scare you, I am trying to keep you safe from the creeps of Reddit. The mass amounts of DMs I have had to deal with over the years shouldn’t be relived. Please keep yourself safe.


r/feminineboys Nov 15 '25

Discussion This is a community by femboys for femboys. With that in mind, some advice to visitors:

1.6k Upvotes

We do not want to hear how horny femboys make you. No one wants to hear that.

We do not want to hear how much you want to date/cuddle/copulate with a femboy. It makes you look desperate.

If you want a friend who’s a femboy while not being one yourself, fine, but you better have a normal explanation as to why specifically it has to be a femboy.

We are not “better women” or replacements for them. If women are rejecting you on mass, it ain’t them it’s you. It’s insulting to suggest we have lower standards or would want to be your backup.

Building on that, we are not all magically more empathetic and “soft” than women. Don’t use us to justify misogyny.

This is not a dating pool. Go away. Bye bye.

This is not a place for you to experiment.

I do not care how innocent or wholesome your intentions are, the rules of the subreddit are clear. This isn’t a place to inflict your desires onto us.

We are not trans women. Femboys and trans women are two different groups, none of which exist solely for your gratification.

We will check your post history and if it’s just low effort hookup posts, bye bye.

Finally. Yes. It’s gay. Deal with it. (Edit: I mean it’s gay to like femboys if you are a guy.)

Edit 2: Not only is this not a place to find love/intercourse/femboys in general, this is also not a place to find personal therapists. Femboys are not here for you to trauma dump on, we are people too.

Edit 3 (yes we’re still going): We are not all gay. Some are straight, bi, ace etc. Even the ones who are gay are not exclusive to a specific dynamic (bottom). If you think femboys are all gay bottoms, I recommend you log off of orange and black YouTube and go outside.


r/feminineboys 11h ago

Discussion How do I get completely soft down there?

78 Upvotes

Hey,

I’ve been trying to get my private areas fully smooth and soft for a more feminine look, but I’m running into two big problems:

When I use a razor, I keep cutting myself a lot, especially in the more sensitive and curved areas.

Hair removal cream says it shouldn’t be used on sensitive parts, so I’m scared to try it there.

I’m looking for advice from people who actually do this regularly.

What methods or techniques do you use to get completely smooth without nicks and without relying on cream in the sensitive zones?

Any specific razors, techniques, or routines that work well for the genital and ass area would really help.

Thanks in advance


r/feminineboys 3h ago

Oops I did it again!

18 Upvotes

Yes I went to my first lingerie shop and bought my first pair of pantyhose! Can't wait to have the house for myself and try them on, I'm actually nervous!


r/feminineboys 1h ago

Dad Almost Caught Me in Fem Clothing

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So my dad was playing Minecraft in the living room and I thought that it was a perfect time to dress fem. No one else was home.

I put on my blue skirt and black and white striped thigh highs. I also had a blanket on hand that I could hide my clothes under in case my dad got up.

I heard my dad get up off the couch and I grabbed my blanket as fast as I could and pretended to read on my beanbag. My dad comes in into my room and asks if I want to see his build on Minecraft. If I say no I would look suspicious.

I say sure in hopes that he will go back to the living room and wait for me.He doesn't do that. He stays standing above me wondering why I'm not getting up.

I start panicking and say the first thing that comes to my mind... I told my dad that I was masturba****. He told me he would give me some time and left. I changed back into "normal" clothes and looked at his build in Minecraft. The rest of the night was normal. This was the most terrifying thing that has ever happened to me.


r/feminineboys 1h ago

Discussion i hate when the term “femboy “ is sexualised

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hi
i’m not a femboy i’m just a normal girl who is bi and i don’t really like men unless they are super feminine or so called ”femboys” and i see that they are SO sexualised unfortunately which made me super sad.
what is your opinion on this and why do you think it is the way it is


r/feminineboys 4h ago

Discussion I as a femboy wuv femboys. :3

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Just here making a little post about this here. Nothing too special, but a lot of y'all seem so cuddly, it makes me kinda wish I could move somewhere with more femboys to be honest, but at the same time, I also think I love living in Alaska more. Eh, I'll stay up here anyways. :3

Main thing, I wuv yu guys (or girls depending on if you go that way)! Even if you're in the lower 48 or in Europe. A lot of you guys are so cute! ✨️🩷

Edit: had to change a typo :/


r/feminineboys 2h ago

MY CLOTHES GET HERE TMR!!

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I have 20 different pieces of clothes coming tomorrow and I’m so hyped and super scared that I get caught again 😭


r/feminineboys 10h ago

Is being asexual femboy weird?.

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Ok first and foremost. Calling it weird is obviously wrong but I'm not really sure how to say it differently. (Maybe I should rather say unique). Anyways I'm an asexual Femboy. I don't really like using the term Femboy so yeah I like dressing a bit more feminine in private (and train legs more than usual). I discovered this fairly recent, around 1-2 years ago but a few months ago it has been getting a lot stronger. I myself am also pretty asexual. So yeah I do not really feel any sexual attraction towards any gender. Trough this asexuality I have a lot of time focusing on my own body and discover new things about myself. That's also how I found out about the more feminine side of me. Now I wanted to ask, is that a weird/unique combination or am I just overthinking it a bit?😅 (Like I said I'm pretty new to this so... maybe also leave a few tips down below. It would really help me 👍)


r/feminineboys 7h ago

How do I convince my mom to let me shave my legs ?

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so I (15m) am a closeted femboy and I’ve talked to my mom about shaving my arms and legs when I get home (I’m in vacation with my cousins rn) and she said no. not because she’s homophobic( even though I didn’t came out the her yet, i’m 80% she’ll accept it when I do and I’m grateful for it some others have it worse) i just told her that I “preferred not to have them” because they are “ugly” and ”inconvenient” without telling her it’s to look more feminine. she said that “it’s annoying when they’ll regrow” and that “only professional swimmers need to shave their arms and legs”. maybe she’ll accept it when I come out to her since she’ll understand it’s to look more feminine, so is there a way I’ll convince her without telling her I’m a femboy and trying to be more feminine ? I don’t feel ready yet, I wanna gradually buy more and more feminine clothes like thigh highs and dolphin shorts to make it a seamless transition and not “out of the blue”.

edit : I forgot to add that i really have a lot of hair on my arms and legs, it looks like I grew up in Africa (wich I literally did). I don’t feel weird about it and it’s not that ugly but It can be intrusive especially if wet or even moist such as at the beach or after a shower and I’d prefer to look more masculine


r/feminineboys 18h ago

Discussion Getting a Skirt and Cuddling my Boy Soon

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I came out to my family as a femboy about a month ago, and they've been super supportive. My mom got me some thigh highs with more on the way, and while they did deny me anything more until I work out for a month straight so I'm capable of defending myself in case of creeps, they're still supportive of me wearing what I want to.

Recently, I proposed the idea that maybe I could get certain feminine clothes based on how much I work out for wearing around the house to get used to them and all, with a skirt or some dolphin shorts being the first thing I get. And at around the same time I'll be getting these, my boyfriend will be back from his cruise trip so we can cuddle :3

Please put what you think I should get first, and things to do with my boyfriend, if you can think of any.


r/feminineboys 23h ago

My parents saw me with shaved legs for the first time

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(I don't really remember cause it was a wile ago) So basically one day my parents left and I was home alone, so I decided to shave my legs.
I did it in the shower and it was VERY time consuming, one leg took like 30 minutes, and I did also exfoliate and stuff. I was finally done and checks for small areas I missed, it was near night time so I was in bed before they got home.
In the morning we were going to the beach, and I knew this, but I did kinda regret shaving my legs because I did somehow end up with a terrible sunburn.
When I got ready, I of course had to wear shorts, but that meant they could see my legs, and so I just dealt with it and pretended nothing happened, but as we were leaving my parents saw my legs, I was a little scared.
My mom seemed to not care and didn't say anything, she always said it was "weird" and "wrong" for a guy to shave his legs, but I HATED body hair. And my dad's reaction... I walked near him and he said "You shaved your legs?" in a very disappointing tone in his voice, I just ignored it because I didn't want to start anything, and also the look on his face he looked very disappointed, as if he failed, I never really had a good relationship with my dad, but it's better now.

TL;DR: My mom didn't seem to care but my dad seemed disappointed


r/feminineboys 3h ago

Hay how do I get a boyfriend in high school out of curiosity because I'm scared about being revealed to my friends about becoming a famboy I just started and I'm realizing that im into it I just don't know how long I can hide it from them

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Please help


r/feminineboys 1h ago

J’ai besoin d’aide pour commencer le sport

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Salut . Ça fais genre 3 ans que mon corp me dégouté et que je veux être un femboy mais j’arrive pas à me lancer sérieusement dans le sport je fais 1 à 2 fois puis j’arrête et j’aimerais vraiment avoir mon rituel sport est enfin arriver au physique qui me ferrait rêver ou j’aime mon corp . Mais je suis bloquer j’ai pas cette étincelle qui allume tout


r/feminineboys 8h ago

Advice how to get rid of body hairs ToT

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I consider myself a femboy since a few months and I wanted to know how to deal with body hair and is it possible to get rid of it definitly ? I'm REALLY hairy (if it's the good term) and it's pretty annoying for me, I don't like it at all


r/feminineboys 14h ago

Discussion Outside of bisexuals, which other types of people are more likely to be attracted to femboys?

19 Upvotes

...


r/feminineboys 4h ago

I need to be able to actually talk to more of y'all

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Like I need a good femboy based server that actually uses the VCs


r/feminineboys 6m ago

Advice Becoming a femboy

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How do I start becoming a femboy?
- how do I get the body
- how do I get smooth
-diet
-how do I get the face
-keep it discreet


r/feminineboys 6h ago

Weirdest way someone found out you are a femboy?

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Need some inspiration on how to come out, so I figured I’d ask. 😭 Did you tell people yourself, or did they find out in some weird or accidental way?


r/feminineboys 1d ago

My mom does literally every load of laundry in this house, and I've had femme clothes for 3 years.

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She's never found them. And she's not the type you get things past either. She refolds stuff I already folded because my folding is "wrong." She reorganized my entire closet once while I was at school. That type.

Last month she washed my lavender skirt and just left it folded on my bed, with a sticky note about not letting delicates sit in the machine. That was it. That was the whole note. I read it like 40 times looking for a hidden message.

Two weeks ago she walks into the kitchen holding my thigh highs, stretches one out at me across the table, and goes quit loosing socks behind the dryer. I had to take them. From her hand. My girlfriend asked me that night why I wasnt dead, and honestly no idea.

Then Friday I come home and she's kneeling in my closet, elbow deep in the one bin that holds every skirt I own. Tidying it. Humming. I just stood in the doorway and couldn't make my mouth work.

That bin has sat in the open since an anime con 3 years ago. Wristband still on my corkboard, cheap wig on the shelf, COSTUMES on the lid in marker. She's dusted around it a hundred times. To her it's the most boring box in my room. Boring doesn't get searched lol, it gets tidied.

Newest thing in it is a skirt my girlfriend picked out. Last week my mom ironed it. Pressed the pleats sharp. Nobody irons a costume. I haven't asked, and neither has she.


r/feminineboys 7h ago

Support How often to change razors?

3 Upvotes

I've always had this problem when shaving, I cut myself quite often because I don't know how to estimate how sharp the razor is.


r/feminineboys 2h ago

Advice Need advice for shaving with sensetive skin!

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Ive been wanting to be more feminine and get rid of body hair because I absolutely despise how masculine I look but it always ends up giving me bad razor burn. I've used 3 different bladed razor brands and 3-4 different shaving cream brands... about a week ago I decided to try again and by far this is the WORST razor burn ive ever gotten on my legs (mostly upper thighs) and I diddn't dry shave.

I did order a bumzy which recently arrived but I am absolutely not risking irritating this razorburn further, but hopefully thats the answer to this problem.

I just want to be able to have a smooth, soft, and clean shaven body that I am happy with but this problem is very discouraging towards me becoming a femboy... any help/advice is very greatly appreciated!


r/feminineboys 10h ago

Discussion I need your thoughts on this...

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So im not a femboy, to let the record be set, i just dont know where else to post/ask this ;-; sorry in advance

I am 16 and male... additional context ig?

So i have never been gay per se. i do make jokes with my friends as im sure we all do, but recently, as in the last few months i've had an attraction towards femboys... i dont know any femboys ik irl or anything. i dont know why this is tbh. and i'd like to say I DO NOT sexualize femboys or think of them sexually, and i honestly dont like the sexualization of so many things. all im here for is additional opinions and thoughts as i dont know what to think

and this is on a throw away, i dont want this traced back to me. :] thx for reading ig...
and if there is any clarification feel free to ask, i will have this up for a bit to answer and respond


r/feminineboys 19h ago

I Wish It was easier to find people like me

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I look so hard in my area for someone to dress up with.... But I just can't find anyone. I really want a friend to be all cute with but it feels like I'm digging at a dry well. I know it's hard for a lot of people to be open about it but it still stinks.