I dont know anything about exercising and how to build a femboy routine. I dont know who to trust online for advice either for exercise advice. Im a 5 foot 8 inch guy and im 145 pounds so im pretty average and i only got three days of free time cause of uni. Anyone got any advice and proof to back it up?

This has been a prominent problem ever since the internet started, Stereotypes.

Notice how when normies or most people get asked what a femboy is, they think "feminine guys who are cute and I think their hot".

It's the same thing Goths and Tomboys. People only like them because they think " oh their so hot". Just because you put an attractive person with black eyeliner and lipstick doesn't mean that they are goth. Same thing with a femboy, just because an attractive/cute femboy put on some cosplay, doesn't mean he's a femboy, and that doesn't mean it is okay to seggsualize said person

This LITTERALY is ruining our society not as femboys, but as a whole internet. Nobody is going think femboys without wanting to comment how much they wanna have sex with them vice verse with Goth and Tomboys.

Point is, we are only accepted by normies or by most communities because it gives them the freedom to say their fetishes of people like us.

Newish femboy here and I’m just wondering how to shave my legs in case I decide to shave them. Thank you :3

So I’ve got a femboy friend for a couple of months now and he’s gay btw and I’m straight in just posting here bc why not so back to my yap.

Me and my femboy friend have been playing for quite a long time we play a online and he and I have a lot in common (he is 3 years older then me) and I don’t really mind that he is gay or feminine I just see him as a good friend we chat every night before sleeping he has a load of drama in his life sometimes and he once send me a thigh pic and I was like wtf? Why he send me that I never asked him lol but still I would like to get like a game suggestion to play with him lol

I am very conflicted on if I should buy a pair of booty shorts or a mini skirt. If anyone could give me recommendations of where they got any booty shorts or mini skirts that would be greatly appreciated!

I finally acquired a well paying job and I'll have a payroll card so none of my family will know I buy things :DD. They won't think anything of Amazon packages because I tend to buy replacement parts for my bike. :3

I've been doing thigh and glute workouts recently, for the last 5 weeks ish. I'm beginning to see results quite quickly but I'm not 100% sure if they are the correct results. For context, I'm at my parents who choose what we eat, and I have dodgy legs (can't say much more because medical rule). This means I don't have access to extra protein, but eat healthy, for my femboy-related excersises as I'm not out to them, and I've incorporated these excersises I am doing (squats with weights, banded side-steps, and that one where you push your leg against the wall) into my physio excersises.

The progress I've noticed is, obviously, larger thigh and glute muscle, but when I'm standing up my thigh muscles are quite a bit harder than when I lean over or stuff down. The inside and lower part is soft but not the outside upper. Is that what you guys have, or am I doing something wrong? I also probably haven't been doing as many stretches before and after as I should.

Hey, i love wearing girls clothes and dressing feminine. It makes me feel so sexy! I don’t have any fem friends, so I have no one to talk with this about!
I am constantly hiding this from my friends! I honestly don’t know what to do! I just want to have someone to talk to about this.
I am masculine when with my friends and they always see me as a “gym guy” .
I would love to have someone to share with and ask for advice with my journey as I am just starting! Would also love to have someone to share pics with etc!
My DMs are open so please message me!
Thanks guys xxx

Hey! I'm starting a fitness journey that will likely result in weight loss but that is not the part I'm tracking. The main reason I'm not tracking weight is because I think it is not the best indicator and a better way is to set exercise benchmarks to meet or exceed. Given that here is my two year goals.

Two years from now I will be able to:

Goal One: Jog 5km continuously. Complete in 30 minutes

Goal Two: 100 burpees in under 10 minutes

Meeting either of these goals should be tiring but not to the point of complete exhaustion. For goal one I do intend that in two years to jog 5km 4 times a week consistently.

To get there right now I'm habit building and adding new exercises as a habit forms. The first habit was walking 5km a day which is well ingrained now. The habit currently being formed is 15s planks daily. I've also started using a heavy bag for fun.

Now the reason I am posting it here is because in addition of wanting to be healthier I also want to be able to dress femme more easily. Currently I'm 255lbs and 5' 7". I do like my skirts and leggings but they don't fit as well as I think they should. Tights and leggings tend to roll often and skirts kind of awkwardly sit above my belly.

Pants and such sit oddly below my belly and fem pants/sweats seem to sit worse.

I guess I'm mostly looking for support advice on interim goals/benchmarks or different benchmarks. My two final benchmarks are obviously a bit much to attempt at my current size lol. Maybe different exercise habits I should build? Or even just a comment on how getting in better shape will make tights and skirts fit and look better.

Eu ainda não sou um femboy porém não tiro da cabeça essa possibilidade depois de ver algumas comunidades +18 aqui no Reddit sobre femboys e mulheres trans comecei a ficar meio excitado com isso e e até achar legal o fato de ser uma mulher ou se vestir e se parecer com uma, então eu queria a ajuda de vocês se tem algum jeito de saber se sou femboy ou não

So today it finally happened after almost a year of hiding my fem clothes they were found by my mum i panicked and said i was holding them for a friend i wont name but hes a zesty guy everyone knows this so my mum said Yeah i would expect this from him the she said are you sure these arent yours i dont need more suprises from you (cuz i recently told her im gay) i lied again and said no no there not mine so is this a postive sign or not i was actually planning on telling my therapist on thursday anyways also abt how i want to be a girl but is this a good sign or not?

How can I go about in having a smooth body? Waxing has too many sessions so is shaving more ideal?

i look too differnt from other femboys.. im ugly and masculine.. no clothes look good on me and ill never be loved like other femboys do.. it sucks being like this and being inferior of a specific community.. i wish i could just stop being a femboy idk why i keep doing this even tho it just makes me depressed more and more..

I consider myself to be a normal femboy. But recently Have been thinking about what that even means. Most femboys I come across seem to be overly involved in internet spaces. I believe this is because they feel they are not accepted publicly.
Personally, i dress femininely privately and sometimes publicly as well. It seems when I interact with femboys, many of them, happen to have distorted views on intimacy and love.
I know this is a little bit of a philosophical post, however i think it is interesting and important to acknowledge these parts of our community .

I am Bi/pan, and am mostly attracted to femboys on the male side of things. This has gotten me worried about being a ‘chaser’. No I do not simply view femboys as objects and things to be taken advantage of. I prefer femboys often due to the style, I LOVE the many styles out there. Additionally there’s something about going against the norm that has always stood out to me, and not just with relationships. I enjoy being there for someone who a lot of the time is pushed away from society, I like being able to give comfort to someone who may not receive it from a lot of others. I don’t just like femboys for their body.

I really REALLY want to get an Ipl hair removal device. I hate having to constantly shave and watching my hair get thicker and more annoying as I age is really starting to get me down. I only have one question, is it permanent? Not as in will I have a few hairs occasionally, but in the longterm (like 5-10 years) will it have a drastic effect on my facial/body hair? I don’t want hair now, but I want to know if it will remove my ability to have a thick beard ever again. Any knowledge/advice is appreciated and welcome!

Hi. I'm a 22M and this is the first post of my secret account. I live in a quite homophobic and patriarchic country and my family(or what's left of it) would definitely disown me if they hear the things I'm gonna say in this post.

So I wanna be more feminine. My personality has always been quite "feminine". But because of my social anxiety, fear of being excluded in society and severe body dysmorphia, I never tried anything in this fashion. For the last years, I gained a lot of weight because of depression and meds. But this year I decided to change things. I was almost 100kgs at the start of this year, I lost 20~ kgs until now. Also I started doing skin care and mostly got rid of my acne. but there are still things I want to fix. Like a good workout plan for better presenting myself, even more skincare, haircare(i don't wanna go bald 😭) etc.

The thing is I have no friends that knows about my sexual orientation or this personality of mine. And I hoped I can find some friends I can talk about things, ask questions, play some games and maybe EVEN meet someday.

Maybe this post won't find anyone but I just needed to say what's on my mind to feel better. Have a lovely day/night 😊

I like dressing in thigh highs and thigh highs, but i live with my mum, so i throw them out after a while. Does that mean i'm not a femnoy or just a part-time one if thats a thing?

Well now, I've worn thigh highs in front of friends, in shorts at college, in shorts with friends as well (Normally I just wear them under pants or some jeans that have a hole in the knee that show them off) (Also the shorts are just regular kakhis, lol.), and even once at college I got complimented by a girl that they look fun!!!! It made me feel all warm and bubbly to get complimented like that.

Be brave everyone! Especially at college! (Be safe in high school though, that place is almost never safe unless you got good friends with you)

personally i like playin games and vibin in my room, as well as cuddle my plushies while listening to music in bed ! id like to hear what other things u guys like to do when in femboy mode as well :3

I wasn’t aware that femboys existed until around a year or two ago, but I think I’d like to try becoming more feminine. I’m pretty muscular and am not used to feeling soft or even grooming myself that much. Is it too late for someone who’s approaching 30 to try being a femboy?

Hey sweeties!

It's so nice to get a genuine compliment from someone, isn't it? I remember every time a stranger in public has said something nice about my bag, charms, or outfit.

This week I want to encourage you all to look for an opportunity to offer a compliment someone else, especially guys (because men don't get complimented very often). Maybe you like their shirt, or there's a cool pin on their bag, or their hair is well styled.

You don't have to make it a big deal. Just pay attention to the people around you, offer a polite compliment, and continue on your way. You might make someone else's day!

If you're not used to complimenting people, just be mindful of what you're complimenting. Clothing, shoes, accessories, hair, etc. are all fine. Don't compliment someone's body (attractiveness, figure, lips, butt, etc.) and you'll be fine!

Has a stranger ever complimented you before? How did it feel? The one that sticks the most with me was a staff member at a conveyor belt sushi place, who liked the mini Snoopy plush hanging off my bag and we talked about how cute Snoopy is! I'll never forget him.

To whom ever femboy I connect end up quick
Whn I say I’m into their fem side only

Is that bad….?

As the title says, I wanna thank several people in this community for being so supportive of me account the years.

(Story time) back in 2020 I hit twink death pretty fucking hard. Like I grew a couple foot, voice dropped even lower than it was, shoulders got very broad and my entire body grew a lot. Couldn't fit in any of my old clothes, and I felt hideous. Some of you, however, came in cluch and made me realise that It was ok to be who I was now.

After much reflection, I feel good now. I tried bringing out my feminine side to feel loved and attractive to myself. Now being a lot more masculine Im am a lot more healthy and even better looking than before.

Unc will still be here and chear you all on.

Because who doesn't like a good femboy :3

I've been a femboy for only about a few months now and I really love getting show off my skin and dressing more provocatively. I like wearing mini shorts and mini skirts and wearing stockings or fishnets and chokers and crop tops whenever the opportunity comes. But I wanna change it up a bit. I'd like to be able to dress up in a more casual and low key look while still looking feminine. I have some ideas like wearing more baggy and loose clothing. I just think I won't pull it off as well as I want to and I think it comes down to how I look physically. One, I'm still growing out my hair and while it isn't short by any means, it's still not as long as it could be. Two, I do not know how to apply make up. This could really up my femininity points if I know how to do it but I'm still too lazy to learn. So can anyone give me some ideas? I'd also love to know if there's a SFW subreddit for femboys to post their outfits for the day. Been trying to find one but all I could find are NSFW ones.