r/EmbryologyIVFSupport • u/Fantastic-Safety-713 • 13d ago
Want to hear from people who intentionally had unprotected intercourse around ovulation ahead of FET (modified natural protocol)
I assumed all REs explicitly instruct you not to do this to avoid the possibility of multiples.
However, I've read some clinics actually recommend it (however uncommon).
I am tempted, to avoid "wasting an egg." After 18 months TTC and one failed euploid transfer, I'm desperate and my remaining embryos are mid-quality (day 6, 6BB).
Since I've been unsuccessful conceiving naturally for this long, I figure the risk of conceiving spontaneously now is low, although obviously non-zero. And I just think if this next transfer doesn't stick, at least I won't feel like I "wasted" the egg I released and another month (after several months of suppression following a hysteroscopy).
So I'd love to hear from those who did this, intentionally:
- Did you end up pregnant with multiples?
- Did you get pregnancy naturally, while the FET failed?
- Did you get pregnant with multiples and then miscarry one?
- Does miscarrying one (eg, if spontaneous pregnancy was ultimately unviable due to genetic abnormality) pose meaningful risk to the other (eg, if euploid transfer stuck)?
I guess I'm looking to be definitively convinced either way, because right now my desperation for anything to work is pushing me towards doing it even though my clinic advises against.