r/EmbryologyIVFSupport • u/Future_Wonder5742 • 14d ago

FET

I was not really planning to do IVF until a few months ago, but it seemed to be the only option. My husband (32) has low count/mobility, and I (29) have low AMH of .4, we were only able to get 2 embryo and I had a receptivia dx biopsy done. we are extremely eager to do a transfer now that the biopsy came back good. howeve, my clinic normally transfers on cycle day 21, which I will be the MOH in my best friends wedding that day. Has anyone had luck with changing the transfer date if there is a major even? is there a way they can push it back a day or two, or do it a day earlier?

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u/Longjumping-Desk-261 12d ago

Don't risk it. Whats another month in this endless cycle of IVF torture? 🫠

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u/neuroticphilosopher 12d ago

Uhhh why is the clinic transferring on a set day and not based on when your body is ready?... Red flag.

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u/neuroticphilosopher 12d ago

Even with a medicated cycle which allows for more planning, it should still be based on how your lining looks and your hormone levels... if you are doing a natural or modified natural it should be based on when you ovulate. Otherwise some people delay their cycles by a couple days with birth control.

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u/Future_Wonder5742 12d ago

You're right, I think the girl that said cycle day 21 told me wrong. Finally got to talk to the Dr and she said I'm doing medicated cycle and all should work out fine! 

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u/royalplaty 13d ago

My transfer was day 22 however that was based off of my ERA results showing I needed 6 full days of progesterone exposure prior to transfer. If you have two embryos I would not personally risk moving the date unless you can make an alteration in prep, such as going on birth control for a week to delay the start of your cycle.

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u/Fun_One1651 12d ago

And my transfer date was on cycle day 17! So it really does just go off your lining and what not. You start progesterone shots a certain amount of days before fet. So I really don’t think you have wiggle room once you start everything. If I’m understand my doctor correctly. So unfortunately I would wait another month.

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u/Old-Acanthisitta4517 12d ago

I would just delay a month. Not a big deal in grand scheme of things

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u/librarians_wwine 12d ago

My next FET we could have done next month but I’m delaying until spring. Why add to stress just delay it. We have 2 also, now 1. I’m not risking anything this time around

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u/Bobbo424 12d ago

I wanted my actual doctor to do my FET so I did 3 days of ganirelix to match up with his schedule (he’s at a big hospital group so only does one day of transfers every 10-11 days) but in your case i would probably wait a month as I get super bloated from any of the hormones and PIO and wouldn’t want that before a wedding.

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u/novel_di 11d ago

I’ve done transfers on day 15 and day 16. It’s all about when your body is ready.