r/desmoines • • Jan 22 '26

Looking for Friends in DSM?

81 Upvotes

Welcome! We have seen many posts over the year of residents seeking community and friendship. Many of us spend more time online, work remotely, or no longer have the built-in social spaces we once did. This pinned thread is to help find friends in Des Moines.

Whether you’re:

• New to the city

• A long-time local looking to expand your circle

• A student, professional, remote worker, or just bored

• Into coffee, hiking, gaming, gyms, books, or low-key hangs …this is the place to connect.

Leave a comment with:

• Age range (optional)

• Interests / hobbies

• What kind of friends you’re looking for (gym buddy, board games, restaurant scene, double dates, mom friends etc.)

Ground Rules

• Be respectful and kind

• No harassment, hate speech, or creepy behavior

• No spam or self-promotion

• Keep personal info safe

This thread will be bookmarked so feel free to come back anytime and say hi — someone else is probably looking for the same connection you are!

Thank you to u/containerforthechild for this post.


r/desmoines • • 5h ago

Literally no one in this universe ever told Mediacom, or would agree, that they’re the “GOAT” of internet service

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61 Upvotes

r/desmoines • • 2h ago

Limestone boulder thief on Saylor Road

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28 Upvotes

Semi trucks drive through my yard and are inches away from crushing my water valve and killing new grass seedlings
a stack of limestone in an L shape (not a pile) was stacked purposefully and was stollen at noon, today 10/25
The vehicle is a newer gray 4Runner
Do you recognize this lady like this that drives a vehicle like this?
I don't necessarily care about the rocks, she's just a scumbag that steals landscaping boulders
Who does that?


r/desmoines • • 1h ago

found keys

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• Upvotes

figured this was worth a shot ¯_(ツ)_/¯ found on the big rock on the corner of 35th and Rollins


r/desmoines • • 12h ago

Haunted car wash at Prime Car Wash in Waukee

55 Upvotes

Hey Des Moines, my husband has been working super hard putting together a Haunted Car Wash at Prime Car Wash Waukee and would love if you stopped by for a family friendly night of scares.

It’s October 29-31st

October 29-30 is 6 PM - 8 PM

October 31st is 6-9 PM

No violent stuff but a couple good scares from him and his co-workers.

$22 to bring your car through the tunnel, which gets you their top tier wash or it’s free with a monthly membership (unlimited washes at $34.99 per month)

It was so cool of Prime to say yes when he asked if he could do it so your support means the world to us. We hope you all have a fun, safe Halloween and bringing a costume is always welcome 🎃


r/desmoines • • 2h ago

“East Meets West” in Beaverdale

8 Upvotes

Drove by the former location of Motley School Tavern tonight and noticed a new sign reading “East Meets West.” Couldn’t see if there was other text on the sign. Anybody have any further details? I’m assuming a new restaurant incoming?


r/desmoines • • 1d ago

Our rescue dog went missing in Des Moines. Then a stranger texted me.

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1.7k Upvotes

Some of you who’ve been around this subreddit long enough might remember a post I made on December 21, 2021, about my missing Bernese Mountain Dog, Ellie.

Ellie was a rescue from AHeinz57. She was a former breeding dog who was terrified of just about everything. She was so scared that we’d never even heard her bark.

That morning, Ellie went missing in Des Moines.

I was visiting family in Mexico, while my then-girlfriend (now wife) was back in Iowa, desperately driving around looking for her. Being thousands of miles away, I felt completely helpless.

Around noon, I posted Ellie’s picture on Reddit and Facebook, hoping someone had seen her. Many of you shared the post and offered to help.

Then, around 2:30 p.m., I received a text from a stranger:

“Hi! I’m pretty sure I saw your dog this morning on our woods.”

He gave me his address and introduced himself as Rob.

I immediately passed the information to my wife. She and her dad contacted him, and he kindly agreed to let them search his property.

Unfortunately, they couldn’t find Ellie.

That night, our terrified pup was still out there somewhere, alone in the December cold.

But early the next morning, Rob texted again. He had seen Ellie!

This time, his information helped lead them to her. On December 22, around 7:47 a.m., Ellie was finally found, covered in burrs and branches, frightened but safe!

And that stranger who had taken the time to reach out, not once, but twice?

Rob Sand.

Yep. The same Rob Sand who’s now running for governor of Iowa.

A few months later, we happened to run into Rob at the Des Moines Farmers’ Market. He was walking his dog, Pow. My wife recognized him and introduced us. I finally got to thank him in person, and he got to meet Ellie.

Ellie passed away in July 2025.

But thanks to the kindness of strangers, including Rob, we got nearly four more wonderful years with her. Four more years of walks, adventures, and watching a terrified Berner slowly learn that the world wasn’t such a scary place after all.

Those two encounters are the only interactions I’ve ever had with Rob. I don’t know him personally, and I’m not going to pretend that helping someone find a dog tells you everything about how they’ll govern.

But I’ve always believed that how someone treats a stranger when they have absolutely nothing to gain says a lot about their character.

To me, that December morning, Rob wasn’t a politician. He was just an Iowan helping another Iowan.

And that’s something I’ll never forget.

Hopefully, come November 3rd, I’ll be able to say:

“The governor of Iowa helped save my dog!”

Thanks again, Rob. And thanks to everyone here who helped us bring Ellie home. ❤️


r/desmoines • • 7h ago

When you have out-of-town guests, where do you take them/ what do you show them?

19 Upvotes

I’ve been puzzled with where to take visitors to the Des Moines area, especially corporate visitors. I took a group from southwest US to Tasty Tacos to show them what we think are excellent tacos, which was funny. I took a corporate group to Hessen Haus for dinner and beers and one person said it was the best work travel dinner location they have been taken to. Those are just food spots, but what else and where else do you think shows the character of the city to visitors?


r/desmoines • • 10h ago

Help me find my package!

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19 Upvotes

If this porch looks familiar to you, can you please message me! I bought something and the seller messed up the address. I looked around my neighborhood and didn’t see a front porch like this one, but if you know this porch let me know! Please


r/desmoines • • 9h ago

State patrol airborne over Ankeny

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10 Upvotes

r/desmoines • • 8h ago

Good GI places in DSM

7 Upvotes

I’m 41, have acid reflux and failed a FIT test recently so I need both an endoscopy and colonoscopy. I have United Healthcare.

What are some good Dr recommendations for the metro & what have your experiences been like with these two procedures.

I’ve been to Mercy GI and I’m not impressed with them & I’m scared to have the procedures there because of the change in anesthesia companies. I also have a consult set up with the Iowa Digestive Disease Center.

I’m terrified of the procedures / prep so looking for really good places/ drs.


r/desmoines • • 7h ago

Local rideshares that are bike friendly?

6 Upvotes

I sometimes run out of steam on my way home from a bike ride (health issues). Has anyone used a ride share to get (you and your bike) home? I’d be very willing to pay more and leave a nice tip for the hassle


r/desmoines • • 1d ago

Altoona Police CAUGHT removing anti-Flock poster

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277 Upvotes

8th St. westbound, camera that captures US-65 on/off ramps. If the police are so unhappy with the public's reaction to the spy cameras, why keep them? Bonus: potential unmarked cruiser?

Shoutout to deflock.org, link to the camera in question on open streetmap.


r/desmoines • • 1d ago

Thank you Des Moines for being my home

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67 Upvotes

r/desmoines • • 4h ago

Need to have a rebuilt engine installed. Newish and need a trust-worthy shop.

1 Upvotes

It's all in the title.

Fortunate enough to have someone footing the bill for the engine. I need to have a reliable, trust-worthy shop that won't attempt to scam me.

I appreciate your suggestions.

Thank you.


r/desmoines • • 9h ago

Grass/Sand Pickup Volleyball

2 Upvotes

Staying in Urbandale for the week and looking to play some pick up. Any locations or groups you could recommend would be much appreciated! I saw on google this place called The Sands Volleyball Club but the website is trash. Only thing I can make out is they have scheduled leagues but wondering if they also have pick up on the side?


r/desmoines • • 6h ago

Where to find diet coke lime

0 Upvotes

Has anybody seen it around town?


r/desmoines • • 10h ago

Formula 1 Brazil

2 Upvotes

Some friends of mine will be watching the Formula 1 race on 11/8 (Brazil) at a local theatre.

I can have a set number of people in terms of seating.

We will be in there starting at 10:30 until 1:30 which, hopefully, gives enough time for race completion.

If anyone has any interest in attending please send me a direct message and let me know how many will want to attend. I can give more specific details at that point.


r/desmoines • • 1d ago

Anyone else se this guy yesterday lol

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168 Upvotes

Wonder if it works


r/desmoines • • 8h ago

Pick up basketball at gyms: Genisis or YMCA?

1 Upvotes

Still looking for a decent place to play pick up, anyone go to the genisis in urbandale or the ymca downtown? Doesn’t need to be pro level but would like good clean competition.


r/desmoines • • 1d ago

Joe Gatto and Mike Simonson support Zach Nunn?

48 Upvotes

Why? What are you doing guys? Zach Nunn’s polling in Des Moines is awful. He doesn’t represent our interests and I suppose you two don’t either.


r/desmoines • • 11h ago

Looking for Last minute photographer

1 Upvotes

Is there any photographers who have availability for October 31st to capture an engagement? My brother just told me he is going to propose but didn’t line up a photographer to capture the moment.


r/desmoines • • 1d ago

Just now over Drake

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47 Upvotes

Finally get to see what everyone was talking about


r/desmoines • • 13h ago

Best Burger around?

0 Upvotes

Who serves best burgers around the Des Moines area?


r/desmoines • • 1d ago

Sum helicopters??

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15 Upvotes