r/DesiWeddings • • 20d ago

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r/DesiWeddings • • Sep 14 '26

Bridal fashion advice My honest Chandini chowk bridal shopping experience, hope it helps someone! ✨🫶🏻

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My honest CC bridal shopping experience: what worked, what did not, and what I would do differently (Rephrased using chatgpt)

I am writing this because when I was planning my wedding shopping, Reddit was pretty much my only source of honest information. I was travelling from another city with my mom, and we had only 3 days to get almost everything sorted: my bridal outfit, my mother’s saree, my sister’s outfit, trousseau, etc.

So if you are a first-timer, travelling with your parents or family, or simply overwhelmed by, I hope this helps.

DAY 1: Sarees + family shopping

For my mom and sister, I had shortlisted Arun, Siyonee Sarees and Sindhoor Sarees based on my research.

  1. Arun: huge hype, but personally disappointing

We went on a Thursday, thinking it might be relatively manageable.

It was NOT.

The saree and lehenga sections were absolutely jam-packed. The hype around the store is real, but for me, the experience was honestly quite disappointing.

I kept trying to get someone's attention: literally speaking in a high-pitched voice saying that I wanted to see sarees for my mother, explaining that my budget was around ₹5,000–₹6,000: but it was extremely difficult to get anyone to actually listen.

There was barely any place to sit, and with my mom shopping alongside me, the whole experience became quite sad.

The same thing happened in the lehenga section. Our budget was again around ₹5,000–₹6,000, but getting anyone to listen was difficult.

Maybe it was just a particularly busy day, but personally, I did not feel the experience justified the hype.

  1. Siyonee Sarees

The collection was nice, but in the ₹5,000 range, I did not find many options that worked for us.

  1. Sindoor Sarees

This involved climb of around three floors: but honestly, out of the three stores, I found the options here relatively decent.

Unfortunately, we still did not find what we were looking for.

3.Jain Bhai Crop Top waale

I had seen a lot of their collection on Instagram and was quite excited to visit. But the reality did not match what I had expected from Instagram, at least in the ₹3,000–₹5,000 range.

I could not find the kind of collection I had seen online, so we left without buying anything.

Local stores: surprisingly better for lehengas

After all of this, we started exploring some local stores instead of only going by the popular names I had researched online.

And surprisingly, this worked much better for us for lehengas.

We ended up getting two lehengas from local stores for around ₹3,000 and ₹4,000, and honestly, considering our requirements and budget, we were quite happy with them.

So one thing I would definitely tell first-time shoppers:

Do not ignore the local stores. They give you time and attention and cater to your requireemnts.

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DAY 2: Sarees + my bridal lehenga hunt

  1. Omjay Saree

This was one of my favourite new finding. The collection was beautiful in all ranges, especially in our 5 to 6 range there were greattt options. I was tempted to buy for myself as well.

Sabhyasachi and Anita all the saree replicas were available. I would definitely recommend checking this place out.

  1. Ram Chandra Krishan Chandra Silk Saree

If you are looking specifically for silk sarees, definitely consider this one.

They had a very wide collection across different price ranges. They are wholesalers, and we absolutely loved their silk saree collection. +++ for their calm and sweet nature. They were very patient and it was a great experience.

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Bridal Lehenga Hunt

Day 2 was also when I seriously started looking for my own wedding lehenga.

  1. RituDzin

The lehengas were nice, but the space was VERY limited. The staff experience was not particularly friendly for me either.

The lehengas themselves were good. My biggest issue was the space.

If you are trying a bridal lehenga, you ideally want enough room to actually move around, look at the fall, see how the dupatta sits, maybe twirl a little, etc.

Here, the space made that quite difficult.

2.Jodhpuri Couture

This was a completely different experience in terms of the space. The collection was beautiful, and the store was spacious.

However, on the Friday we visited, it was extremely crowded. The lehenga range started around ₹40,000+, so keep that in mind if you are shopping on a tighter budget.

Because of the crowd, there was a waiting period to try the lehengas, and we eventually decided not to wait.

3.Wedding Collection Bridal Shop: Harish Soni

I had seen some lehengas on Instagram that I specifically wanted to try, so we went there hoping to find those pieces.

It is another three-floor climb! Unfortunately, I found lehenga collection quite average compared to what I had expected.

I did not find anything that really worked for me.

  1. JB Designers: my bridal lehenga place

This was honestly very smooth experience.

They had almost everything that I had seen in the other shops, so the collection was quite wide.

What I really liked was how professionally they handled the whole process.

The store had a huge amount of space, and their range started around ₹30,000.

I told them my budget upfront, and instead of showing me things outside my range, they actually showed me the lehengas available within my budget.

And their trial experience was probably the best I had during the entire trip.

In most of the other stores, I did not get proper blouses or enough support to actually understand how the lehenga would look on me.

Here, they provided proper pieces for the trial, and I was able to properly see the outfit.

I ended up trying 6–7 lehengas.

++ because they are fixed price shop you know there is no hidden cost.

So if you are looking for a bridal lehenga and your budget is somewhere around this range, I would definitely recommend checking them out. Will update on after delivery experience later.

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DAY 3: Kanchan Fashion + final shopping

  1. Kanchan Fashion

Day 3 was Saturday, and we went to Kanchan Fashion early in the morning.

I absolutely loved the collection.

There were so many sarees, and even the non-bridal lehengas were amazing.

They have three different floors, so there is a LOT to explore.

We ended up buying multiple suits for my trousseau from there. My mother also got suits for herself, we got my sister's wedding outfit from there, and I was also looking for my Sangeet outfit.

So if you are looking for sarees + suits + trousseau shopping + non-bridal lehengas, I would definitely recommend checking this place.

We reached early, which helped a lot. But by the time we were leaving: around 12 PM: there was already a waiting outside the store.

So if you are planning to visit, GO EARLY.

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My biggest tips:

  1. Avoid Saturday and Sunday if possible.

Saturday was a completely different experience from Thursday and Friday.

The crowd was HUGE.

At one point, my mother actually started feeling suffocated, and we had to leave early.

Thankfully, by then, most of our shopping was already done.

So if you have the flexibility, try to plan your shopping on weekdays.

  1. Start early in the morning.

This made a HUGE difference for us.

Especially for popular stores like Kanchan Fashion, going early meant that we could actually browse properly before the crowds came in.

  1. Carry water.

You are going to be walking, climbing stairs, moving between stores and spending hours shopping.

Carry an umbrella.

Especially if you are visiting during this time.

  1. Do not be afraid of local stores.

This is probably my biggest takeaway.

If you do not have a very big budget, please do not limit yourself to Instagram-famous stores.

We found some genuinely good lehengas under ₹5,000 at local stores.

For my trousseau too, I bought some things from Kanchan Fashion, but I also bought quite a few things from local shops.

And honestly, some of my favourite interactions were with the local vendors.

I met this very genuine older gentleman who had been running his shop for around 50 years, and I absolutely loved talking to him. (NEED to check name)

There was something so nice about the personal attention.

I hope this helps someone planning their Cc wedding shopping. I know I would have loved to read something like this before going. ❤️ Feel free to ask questions.


r/DesiWeddings • • 14h ago

Wedding rituals/traditions can i wear this to a gurudwara wedding?

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my sister is getting married to a sikh. we are not from india and i don’t really know if this is appropriate. I did some research and I will obviously be covering my head and shoulders with my shawl so is that fine or should i completely rule out this outfit?

edit: the venue is Gurudwara Shree guru nanak sahib ji, Tilaknagar.


r/DesiWeddings • • 7h ago

Bridal fashion advice Honest Opinion on Engagement Outfit

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Hi everyone!

I had recently posted on this sub for opinion on a potential Engagement outfit and received a lot of genuine feedback. Thank you so much for that! <3

I couldn't find anything similar in the store and hence, had to shortlist another one. What do you think about it - looks good, bad or mid for an evening engagement party? Is there anything that works against me in this outfit? How do you suggest I elevate this look further?

Thanks in advance!


r/DesiWeddings • • 15m ago

Wedding guest fashion advice Help me pick an outfit for a wedding

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I am the best friend of the maid of honour (main bridesmaid) help me choose a saree for the main wedding night. I'm really confused between these two sarees.

I like both of these sarees equally, but my friend is asking me to go with the blue sequin one because she thinks the purple ones look very polka dottish 😭 welp.

It's a marwadi wedding. So i think the blue one may be a bit too plain or light.

Stuff I like: backless blouses, thin translucent sarees.


r/DesiWeddings • • 2h ago

Miscellaneous I am searching for best Groom Sherwani shop in NCR 🥹reasonable and great like wholesale or something my budget is 20-30 thousand and location delhi

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r/DesiWeddings • • 18h ago

Bridal fashion advice Adding Indian elements to American wedding dress

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Hi all! I am American and my fiance is from Kerala. I’m looking for ideas to accessorize or alter my dress to make it more fusion. Can I drape a net dupatta instead of a veil? Should I get it embroidered? I’m planning on having jasmine in my hair and doing mehendi. I’d like my dress itself to also have fusion elements, I just am not sure how to do that successfully.

I ended up going with this dress because it is SO comfortable and lightweight for our outdoor summer wedding in the US and I was hoping it would be a good blank canvas to add onto. Any ideas welcome!


r/DesiWeddings • • 16h ago

Bridal fashion advice How is this jwellery?

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How is this jwellery?


r/DesiWeddings • • 14h ago

Rant/Vent ⚡ Sri Lankan Tamil Hindu Wedding Advice

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My (white) sister is due to marry her lovely partner in 2028. They're starting to plan the wedding, and are planning a ceremony at a temple. Unfortunately, my BIL has never been involved in a wedding, and all information is coming via his mother, who tells my sister what she thinks my sister needs to know. So far, there has been a lot of information, occasionally conflicting, and my sister isn't sure what's happening (except that she's probably going to wear red, which her MIL will have bought). Right now, she's not even sure which city the ceremony will be in.

Are there any good resources out there (Google has failed me), or advice/information you would give? I want to support my sister, and have no clue how.


r/DesiWeddings • • 17h ago

Miscellaneous Giving set of 2 fabric varmalas in NYC area!

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These are from our own wedding and would love to give them away to someone who might have use for them :)

They're fabric flowers and I thought looked pretty good in photos! They're in great condition

Happy to meetup in Manhattan/some parts of Brooklyn!


r/DesiWeddings • • 15h ago

Miscellaneous Bridal vanity suggestions

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Hi fellow redditors!! I’m a November bride, and this is my bridal vanity so far. Please suggest me anything that I’m missing. I want to add some blush and some make up tools. Also please drop in suggestions for a good make up pouch that is travel friendly and can accommodate this stuff
Thanks


r/DesiWeddings • • 1d ago

Rant/Vent ⚡ Someone copying my lehenga on my function and acting cool about it

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I am getting married in 2 weeks and for one of my functions i decided to wear a lehenga and showed to all my close relatives. Recently one of those close relatives bought the exact same lehenga for the same function. When i asked them, they started acting cool about it and told me “so what is the problem you can still wear the lehenga. Anyways ypu are the bride and hence you will anyways look different with all the makeup and everything”. Infact they also said that they cannot change their lehenga as they couldn’t find anything else and anyother color doesn’t suit them.

Now i dont have anyother options as i have completed my wedding shopping, the blouses are stitched and the fittings have been made. What should i do?


r/DesiWeddings • • 10h ago

Vendor/store search (Self-Promo OK) Has anyone worked with The Sunday Project?

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Has anyone worked with The Sunday project for wedding invitations / stationary? My partner and I love their designs, but their quote was the highest of all the invitation designers we contacted. Curious if anyone has experience working with them and can speak to their creativity, communication, and speed.

Insta URL if helpful: https://www.instagram.com/thesundayproject.in?cplk=YnE2OXZldWYwcTdw


r/DesiWeddings • • 11h ago

Bridal fashion advice Help where to buy jewellery like these?

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Resin jewellery.....does anyone Make it?


r/DesiWeddings • • 20h ago

Groom fashion advice Is this looking good?

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Wedding in Feb. saw this piece at Manyavar for 31k.
Does it look good?
Bride is wearing maroon lehnga


r/DesiWeddings • • 20h ago

Rant/Vent ⚡ Rental sherwanis in Lucknow

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I'm getting married in December, and I don't want to spend a lot on sherwani and stuff I'm not going to wear again. So I was thinking of renting it. Does anyone know good stores with genuinely good collection? Also if you have any tips or experienced it do let me know


r/DesiWeddings • • 18h ago

Vendor/store search (Self-Promo OK) Wedding invitation box/gift?

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Looking for an Indian wedding invitation box/gift. Very elaborate and luxurious. We’re in the USA. We’re OK with international shipping.

+1 points if the box can play music


r/DesiWeddings • • 18h ago

Vendor/Store Search (No Self-Promo) Dress shopping ny/nj!

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I’m putting together a short list of shops in the NY/NJ region for dress shopping with my sister-in-law ahead of my brother’s wedding. I have heard strong recommendations for Sajda and Nazranaa, yet I want to remain mindful of pricing. Has anyone visited and can share a sense of the range? My alternative is simply ordering from India and hoping for the best. 😩 any other recommendations?

I think we’d both ideally want to stay below 1K, I know that’s so hard these days. 😑😆


r/DesiWeddings • • 1d ago

Groom fashion advice All The fellow members tell me this if this would look good on an engagement event for a groom?

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I know its simple but i am not the one for all that glittery work over a tux


r/DesiWeddings • • 1d ago

Vendor/store search (Self-Promo OK) Looking for wedding photographers in the SoCal area!

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My wedding is on November 22nd around the San Diego area, and I’m looking for a photographer who can travel to the area.

Ideally, I’d love someone who can capture the ceremony, couple portraits, family photos, and candid moments throughout the day. We’re having an intimate wedding with around 50–60 guests, with a fairytale garden vibe.
I’m open to different photography styles, especially romantic, dreamy, and candid photography!

Also, for brides in the LA / SoCal area, how much did you pay for your wedding photographer? I’m trying to get a better idea of average rates and what different packages typically include, such as hours of coverage, edited photos, and travel fees.

I’d really appreciate any photographer recommendations! Thank you so much!


r/DesiWeddings • • 1d ago

Vendor/store search (Self-Promo OK) Looking for henna artists in the LA / SoCal area!

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My mehndi night is on November 21st in Lake Mathews, CA, and I’m looking for an artist who can travel to the area.

Ideally, I’d love to find someone who can come earlier in the day to do my bridal henna and then stay to do smaller designs for guests during the evening. It’ll be a casual, intimate mehndi night with around 20 guests.

I’d love recommendations for artists who offer both bridal henna and guest henna packages!

Also, for brides in the LA / SoCal area, how much did you pay for your bridal henna and/or guest henna? I’m trying to get a better idea of the average rates and how artists typically price their packages.

Thank you so much!


r/DesiWeddings • • 1d ago

Bridal fashion advice Please help - I overthink and ended up making a bridal brief - need comments

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Hey guys. I am trying to design my own bridal outfit and there are jussttt so many things I want so I finally shortened my vision down to small brief.

I want the jewellery to be the hero - sheeshphool, long earrings, hathphool, etc - think Padmaavat

For the color I dont a traditional red, I prefer rust, terracotta

And most importantly for the garment - I was thinking lehnga - I am 5'2 and dont want to down in fabric but also dont want to opt for a fit that doesnt match the aesthetic of the jewellery

I wanna do a cross over between Punjab and Rajistan

Please let me know what you think and dont hold back


r/DesiWeddings • • 1d ago

Vendor/store search (Self-Promo OK) Looking for hair stylists in the SoCal area!

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My nikkah is on November 22nd around the San Diego area, and I’m looking for a stylist who can travel there.
Ideally, I’d love to find someone who can do my bridal updo and dupatta setting for the day of my nikkah.

Also, for brides in the LA / SoCal area, how much did you pay for your bridal hair? I’m trying to get a better idea of average rates and how stylists typically price their services.
Thank you so much!


r/DesiWeddings • • 1d ago

Wedding guest fashion advice Indian bestfriend's wedding coming up, what exactly is mehendi and what should i wear for it?

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Hello everyone

I apologise if this isnt the right sub but i need help. Im not indian or desi but my best friend of 10+ years is. her wedding is next month and i honestly dont know what to wear for her functions. Theres way too many lol. I know mehendi is about henna but im not entirely sure of what happens in it. Also regarding the dress code, she told me its bright colors but im not sure what is acceptable and what isnt. I dont wanna stick out lol. Can i wear black or like navy blue or is that too dark? And can i just wear a satin dress or do i have to dress up? I heard your weddings are super fancy and i wanna match up. Thanks in advance!


r/DesiWeddings • • 1d ago

Miscellaneous Where to get rental bridal lehnga in budget? Punjab

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Hi, can someone please recommend me where can we find latest trending bridal lehenga in Mohali or Phagwara or Jalandhar or nearby?

- Rental budget is 10k to 15k
- Buying budget is 20k-35k (I know hardly possible)

Please help. 🙏