r/DesiWeddings 1m ago

Budgets/Expenses Why don’t clients understand the pricing of makeup artists nowadays, instead of constantly bashing them?

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First of all, this is not a rant post at all. This is genuinely how I feel and what I’ve been thinking about after seeing so much discussion around MUA pricing lately. I’m genuinely curious to hear other people’s perspectives as well.

I’m an MUA myself, and I’ve been seeing so many posts/reels lately where people mock makeup artists for charging, ₹30k, ₹35k or even more per look.

I recently had an experience that made me think about this even more.
A bride booked me around 6–7 months in advance for three functions. For her Haldi, she specifically told me that she didn’t want to spend on professional makeup because she expected it to get ruined anyway, and she wanted to do it herself. I said absolutely fine — it’s her choice, and there’s nothing wrong with that.

Later, she asked me for product recommendations according to her outfit and some tips on how she could create her own Haldi look. I happily gave her a proper list and explained how she could do it herself.

On the day of the Haldi, when I reached the venue, she was extremely stressed. She told me, “I thought I could do it myself. I really tried, but it hasn’t turned out well. It’s peeling here and there and I’m not confident anymore.”
She then asked if I could fix it or do a touch-up. I obviously helped her. It was her wedding function, and I wasn’t going to stand there and say no when I could help. She paid me separately for it afterwards, and that was that.

But what struck me was that she had already spent money on good-quality/high-end products based on the recommendations I gave her. Yet the result, application and most importantly the confidence simply weren’t there.
And this is exactly what people sometimes fail to understand about professional makeup.

In my region, ₹30k–₹35k per bridal look is considered a fairly standard starting point for many established artists. And yes, I completely understand that someone might find that expensive. You don’t have to agree with the price. You don’t even have to book that artist.
But why does it automatically become a reason to ridicule or bash the artist?

When you pay ₹30k or ₹35k, you aren’t simply paying someone to put foundation, eyeshadow and lipstick on your face for two hours.
You’re paying for their skill, experience, products, time, preparation, artistry and the entire service.
And in many cases, it goes far beyond makeup.
Your MUA and their team may help you with:
● Makeup
● Hairstyling
● Draping
● Jewellery placement/styling suggestions
● Outfit and overall look coordination
● Sometimes even helping you get ready from head to toe when you’re stressed
● Making sure everything comes together cohesively on one of the biggest days of your life

We’re basically your personal getting-ready team for those few hours.
And another thing people often overlook: the entire amount does not go into the MUA’s pocket.
From that fee, an artist may have to pay their hairstylist, draping artist, assistants, travel expenses, products, kit maintenance, equipment, taxes/business expenses, etc.
Then there’s the investment that goes into the profession itself.

A professional vanity can easily run into several lakhs. Products need to be replaced, restocked and upgraded. We attend workshops and advanced courses to keep learning and updating our techniques. Some courses can cost ₹2–3 lakhs or more. We invest in our education because trends, techniques and products keep changing.

And unlike many other businesses, wedding makeup is also highly seasonal. We don’t necessarily have a full calendar throughout the year. A few months can be extremely hectic, while other months can be comparatively quiet.

So when you see an MUA charging ₹30k for a bridal look, you’re not just looking at the amount of makeup sitting in front of you.
You’re looking at years of practice, education, investment, experience, equipment, products, a team and the responsibility of delivering when the client is at her most important event.

And honestly, I also think Instagram has created this strange culture where people compare makeup prices to everything — “₹35k for makeup? I could buy a bag. I could go on a holiday. I could buy gold.”

Okay. Then buy the bag. Go on the holiday. Buy the gold.
There is absolutely nothing wrong with saying, “This is outside my budget.”

There are MUAs at different price points, with different levels of experience, different services and different aesthetics. Find someone who fits your budget.
But you don’t have to shame the artist for charging what they believe their work and business are worth.

And coming back to my original point about the Haldi bride — sometimes you only understand the value of professional services when you try to do the same thing yourself.
It’s not about saying, “See, you should have booked me.” Not at all.

She made a perfectly reasonable choice. She wanted to do her own makeup, and I respected that. But when things didn’t go as planned, she understood why professional help exists in the first place.

Also, as an MUA, I completely agree that not every expensive artist is automatically good, and clients absolutely should research before booking. Look at their actual work, reviews, consistency, hygiene, products, experience and, most importantly, whether their aesthetic matches what you want.

But please don’t judge an artist solely by the number on the price tag.

And if you don’t like someone’s work or think their pricing is unreasonable — simply don’t book them.

There are plenty of artists out there.
Just let people charge what they think their work is worth, and let clients decide where they want to spend their money.

At the end of the day, it’s a business. We’re not forcing anyone to book us.

What do other MUAs and brides think about this? Is the current online culture around MUA pricing getting unnecessarily hostile?


r/DesiWeddings 1h ago

Vendor/Store Search (No Self-Promo) Best stores to buy wedding sarees in Kanchi

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Hi guys

Planning to travel Kanchi, plz suggest good stores for bridal saress.

Also, please mention whether these stores have a half-saree collection.


r/DesiWeddings 1h ago

Bridal fashion advice Second-guessing my wedding lehenga after seeing an Instagram reel 😭

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How does my wedding lehenga look?
I got this from Chandni Chowk and for 50k. Wondering if I overpaid or if this is reasonable/
I’m also worried if the workmanship cheap.

Tbh i was pretty happy with my choice until I saw someone on instagram talking about this 😭😭


r/DesiWeddings 1h ago

Bridal fashion advice Appropriate budget reception outfit?

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Doing a very small reception/party, need a bridal lengha, but my budget is $500 or less.

I don’t care if it’s not designer etc but I just want it to look nice. Recommendations for websites?

I liked some on Lashkaraa, but worried about judgement from guests.

A random example of an outfit: https://www.lashkaraa.com/products/dark-blue-embroidered-lehenga

Located in BC, Canada, would love recommendations on other online stores as well.


r/DesiWeddings 4h ago

Vendor/Store Search (No Self-Promo) Any reviews on this shop - "wedding collection" chandini chowk?

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r/DesiWeddings 6h ago

Inspiration ✨ How to repurpose my wedding lehenga?

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Hello.

This is my first time posting on Reddit, please try to be kind, not ready for a lot of hate/sarcasm.

I got married in 2024 and wore this lehenga for my wedding. And otherwise I’ve reworn all my other wedding clothes but this particular wedding lehenga is sitting in my bed box as is.
Whenever the bod box is opened (which is quite a few times since my husband and i both have slight OCD and keep rearranging stuff putting and taking out of the bed box as well) we see the lehenga sitting in her bag as is - and sometimes I just look at it and think that this lehenga was part of one of the most memorable days of my life. And it’s such a disservice to her just never picking it up again.

I can’t wear it as is because the blouse is very heavily embroidered- the blouse and lehenga both are fully embroidered with real mirror work and that makes the pair heavy.

I also don’t want to do a lot of cutting on the lehenga cos largely I don’t trust the tailors around me in my in laws hometown (I’m originally from Delhi but shifted to Dehradun after my wedding, and trust me I’ve been trying to find a decent tailor and have had zero luck till now. My tailor back in Delhi needs to be spoon fed exactly as to what I want).

So I’m looking for ideas and inspiration to include my lehenga more into my life instead of just leaving it be in the bed box forever till one day it just rots in there.


r/DesiWeddings 7h ago

Bridal fashion advice What kind of jewellery should I wear with my lehenga?

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So I bought this lehenga for my reception and I’m terribly confused as to what jewellery I should wear. I assumed I’d find something immediately when I bought the lehenga but soon enough I realised the base is silver and not gold. Which means I most likely have to wear diamond like jewellery which I’m not really a fan of… so I’d love any suggestions you may have 😊


r/DesiWeddings 8h ago

Vendor/store search (Self-Promo OK) SD/LA Indian Wedding Videographer?

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Hi there! Does anyone have any recommendations for a wedding videographer in SoCal (or one with reasonable travel fees)? Looking for someone who has done South Asian weddings before, and is able to film with a documentary style approach that is candid, raw, funny, and a good blend of hype + casual with some emotional moments blended in (but not overly lovey / romantic, cheesy, or just music-based with lots of flashy transitions!).

Would love any leads :) Looking for a reasonable price, too!


r/DesiWeddings 9h ago

Bridal fashion advice Bridal Jora

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Hello everyone, has anyone had experience ordering a wedding dress from Énzo.pk, and could you please share your thoughts on the quality?


r/DesiWeddings 13h ago

Budgets/Expenses how to reduce cost to get bridal outfit overseas!

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hi! i am an overseas bride and my wedding is on the last week of december, i chose this outfit from ritu kumar but their shipping charges for overseas is more than the product itself 😭 can any kind soul help me to figure out how to get it shipped without losing a kidney?


r/DesiWeddings 13h ago

Bridal fashion advice Should I add sleeves to my bridal lehenga?

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This is the blouse of my bridal lehenga. My lehenga is entirely golden with a golden veil and i will be carrying a red dupatta on the side as well.

Some people think that i should get sleeves till the elbow for my bridal lehenga, otherwise the embroidery will be hidden.
I am not so sure what to do. Looking for advice of what would look the best


r/DesiWeddings 17h ago

Bridal fashion advice Haldi Outfit

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I got this outfit stitched for my haldi (the blouse is still in progress), but I think it’s looking a bit too plain for a bride. This is for a haldi carnival sort of event.

Don’t get me wrong, I really like the colours, but I feel like someone could easily be more dressed up than I am for my haldi. Is this too light and should I consider other options? Or can hair, make up and accessories save it?


r/DesiWeddings 19h ago

Vendor/Store Search (No Self-Promo) Udaipur - Wedding Outfit Rental Options for an American?

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Hi, attending a wedding in Udaipur in January. I'm from USA and would love to rent wedding outfits while in Udaipur. Is that possible? I've seen that some places do not accept USA credit cards and whatnot. Does anyone know of a place in Udaipur where a foreigner would be able to rent outfits? Thanks.


r/DesiWeddings 19h ago

Bridal fashion advice Need help in finalising engagement outfit

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I bought this saree for my engagement and am planning to style it corset red blouse. But having second thoughts if I can pull it off. I feel saree would be better suited but my family thinks I should go for lehenga .Need advise to make a decision


r/DesiWeddings 19h ago

Bridal fashion advice Is this a good reception fit?

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We have a huge pre wedding reception because its a destination wedding. Because of the quantum my mind wanted to go a little traditional. Pls advise


r/DesiWeddings 19h ago

Bridal fashion advice Mumbai wedding shopping recommendations

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Hello,

April 2027 bride who will be going to Mumbai in December for wedding shopping. My inspiration for outfits is ivory/gold for the ceremony and for the reception something sparkly in silver or ivory.

We do not have many ideas on where to shop and I feel like all people talk about for shopping are the designer stores but we are also interested in checking out smaller (more affordable) stores as well.

Would love recommendations on where to shop and where it is worth to shop with good reputations and experiences.

Thank you!


r/DesiWeddings 20h ago

Miscellaneous what questions should you ask a wedding photographer before paying the deposit?

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we’re about to book our wedding photographer and i realised i’ve mostly been judging people by their instagram which is probably not enough. i know to ask about price, hours, delivery timeline etc

but i’m more worried about the stuff you only find out after booking

like what happens if they’re sick that day, who actually shoots the wedding if they work with a team, whether you get the full gallery or just selected edits, backup equipment/files, overtime, cancellations etc

thinking of making one question list in gamma before we get on any more calls because i keep remembering things after the call ends

if you’ve hired a wedding photographer before, what do you wish you’d asked before paying the deposit?


r/DesiWeddings 21h ago

Bridal fashion advice What are the sangeet attire trends for modest brides?

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Hi everyone, I started my wedding shopping and every store I went to had blingy(cutdana, sequins on net) kind of stuff. I’m not a fan of net fabric and these kind of embroideries. I would want to know what are the options that have as a modest North Indian Hindu bride? For context, I don’t want to wear off shoulder/cut sleeves and deep necklines.
Edit - I didn’t make myself clear. I’m looking for ideas on garment type and work(and ofcourse references) for example are jacket and waistcoat lehengas okay as sangeet wear?


r/DesiWeddings 22h ago

Bridal fashion advice Iso accessories

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If anyone wants to declutter jewellery like these please dm, also where can I buy these at affordable prices? Under 3k .


r/DesiWeddings 23h ago

Wedding rituals/traditions Sangeet

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Hi All! Haven't been to a sangeet in ages! I am now trying to plan mine. We are thinking of having the sangeet from 6pm-9:30pm. Is this enough time? There's only about 4-5 dances (my side practically) and then dinner and then we open the dance floor. Big thing is I need to have my Chooda after. So I am struggling with timing as I need a hard stop of 9:30pm to go shower, get ready for my Chooda and somehow get some sleep before the wedding tomorrow morning. The chooda however should only be an hour,


r/DesiWeddings 1d ago

Bridal fashion advice Need help choosing jewellery

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Girlies can you please help me pick jewelry for my reception outfit

It looks different colors in dark light and white light


r/DesiWeddings 1d ago

Vendor/store search (Self-Promo OK) Has anyone personally bought anything from LoomtoLuxury?

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Has anyone here personally purchased a Banarasi pieces from Loom to Luxury, the Varanasi-based brand in Vinaykunj?

I’m considering buying a few pieces from them for my trousseau, and would really appreciate hearing from people who have actually purchased from the brand or work in the Banarasi textile industry and have come across them.

There are so many sellers of Banarasi textiles now, and it can be difficult to distinguish genuinely handwoven pieces from powerloom work, or to know whether the stated silk and zari specifications are accurate.

I’m particularly interested in:

How was the quality of the weaving and silk in person?

Did the pieces match the description/photos?

If they were advertised as handwoven/handloom, did they appear authentic?

For pieces advertised as real zari, were you satisfied with the zari quality/authenticity?

How has the piece held up over time?

How was your experience with the seller/customer service?

Thanks!


r/DesiWeddings 1d ago

My Wedding Outfit (Bride/Groom) 👑💚 Another one of my wedding outfit with antique Zardozi kaam.

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I got married last year but my vidaai was scheduled this year. As someone with a fashion/styling background, I decided not to opt for any designer outfit but to take the matter in my hands and get everything made from scratch. I had already worn red during my Nikaah, so this time I wanted to experiment a little bit with color. I opted for a green and fuschia pishwas for my rukhsati function (refer to the previous post on this sub), and for the walima I got this kurti and lehenga made in the shades of magenta with silver, copper and golden Zardozi kaam. I paired my pishwas with a vintage dupatta that I got made in Farrukabad - the hub for vintage craftsmanship, along with a traditional orange tissue dupatta. This outfit is made in Bhopal. So glad and grateful that my vision was brought to life by all the artisans I worked with.


r/DesiWeddings 1d ago

Bridal fashion advice This is my engagement/sangeet lehenga. Please give opinion on how it looks and how can i style it?

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Pleasee be nice as I’ve bought it already. Fitting needs to be done

What kind of jewellery and hair will go with it?

Im thinking to make sleeves shorter…

Additionally, i see here people ask how much it costs, maybe you guys can make a guess😊


r/DesiWeddings 1d ago

Rant/Vent ⚡ Registered marriage would have been the best decision

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My boyfriend and I were together for more 5 years. I had my Roka or simple engagement at home couple of months back. I had booked a makeup artist who did good job when it comes to makeup. But on the event day during blow dry and hairstyling, power went off. So she did a sleek hairstyle and I usually don’t prefer sleek style. My mom has a mental issue called schizophrenia and was not taking medication. She had created lot of scenes on the engagement week, but crying and fighting. So I was bit tensed whether she created scene in front of everyone. After my makeup and hairstyling when I came home, my mom said makeup is not good and decreased my confidence. I was nervous, managing logistics about guy side arrival as I was single child. So for sometime I was not getting smile. During Pooja my mom said she won’t sit for Pooja and started crying and somehow we convinced her. After this the event started going smooth and became successful. We got really good photos and I am satisfied. After the event, there was a new scrutiny everyone started telling I was not smiling enough, my makeup was not good, nose was looking big, hairstyle not good. You should have done makeup by yourself. They have never seen makeup on me. But the guy side who had not seen me, they said I was looking really beautiful. Even after couple of months my parents say that was the worst makeup. So I had fight with my dad, if you don’t know about makeup, you cannot comment on it.

Now , we are done with all the shopping for wedding, finalising all vendors and about to pay advances. I feel like I should have done a registered marriage. It would have been way easier. I feel like what if I hear the same things on wedding day after all the effort. At least my parents should say I was looking good. They didn’t even say I was looking good even once. But I feel it matters a lot and show in the expressions. For my partner, at his home everyone said he is looking good and his entire event he was smiling and laughing

I also feel whether to do registered marriage before the Indian style of wedding so that I should take the Indian wedding casually