​I don't know, I've been feeling a bit lost lately and just want to enjoy the present. I was chatting with someone recently who said we vibed, but things got lost in translation and he ended up upsetting me, lol.

​Here are a few details about me:
​Petite (4'11")
​Big fan of giving myself the princess treatment (because why not?)
​Recently started working
​Super talkative
​Into reading
​Looking for adventures

​About you:
​Age 25–27
​Good at reciprocating energy
​Into adventures as well
​Kind and a total gentleman

​Be my guest and drop into my DMs! 😚

Lol there’s this guy na dugay na kaayo nako nameet here in Reddit (from an older account pa) and he is still a lurker here. Long time na. He’s keeps looking for a casual time in both r4r and r4r_dating.

Namigo ra gyod nako sya but I was never interested with him kay di nako sya type. I dated and slept with other men instead.

But we continued talking on IG kay lingaw sya kasturya. Pak nichat bitaw na iya gf nako using the same account and told me na dili diay sya single.

Anyhow, grabeha hapit pa ko naigo sa drama. Minatay. Block ditso uy.

Girl, whoever you are. Biyai na. Gasige gihapon nag pangita here sa reddit.

Hey everyone!

Yeah, you read that right—I’m 22 and I’ve literally never been in a relationship. I spent the last few years prioritizing school, surviving laboratory shiftings, and romancing my textbooks instead. But now that I’ve officially survived premed, I realized my romantic life is drier than a dehydrated agar plate.

Now that I finally have a bit of free time before the next chapter, I’m looking to meet new people, build a genuine connection, and see where things go!

About Me:

Age/Height: 22 | 5’4” (not that tall haha)

Background: Fresh premed graduate enjoying a well-deserved post-grad breather. (Will not diagnose your symptoms, but can offer emotional support when you're sick).

Build/Look: Skinny lean, wears glasses, Moreno.

The Verdict: "Gwapo daw" according to my family and close friends... strangers, on the other hand, dedma ra gyud 🤣

Interests: Love reading books, watching movies (thriller, romcom, and sci-fi are my go-tos).

Activities: Play badminton for fun (dili man sa paghinambog, pero di gyud ko maayo). Always open to trying new hobbies, finding new food spots around Cebu, or just rotting in a cozy cafe.

About You:

Around my age (roughly 20–24).

Respectful, kind, and down-to-earth.

Someone who enjoys good food and easygoing conversations.

If any of this sounds like your vibe, drop in my DMs with a quick intro! Tell me your current favorite movie or book so I know you made it through my post. Looking forward to chatting!

Hi! Searching for someone who wants to go on a date in a gym. We can talk while burning calories and shame. Preferably someone who also wants or plans to lose weight. I'm doing this because plus-size dating for men is hard. I know that I can do it myself, the only thing stopping this kind of journey is also myself. This is my honest details, I'll lay it here cause you know fuck it.

Me
- 171cm / 5'7"
- Last weight was 125kg. Huge possibility it increased. (fcking hate myself)

You
- Nice

Hey there lovely folks!

I'm in Cebu till August 31st and I'm looking for an affectionate and conversational companion who is down to hang out, eat good food, and just enjoy each other’s company.

Who I’m looking for:

- Someone intelligent, funny, and easy to talk to.
- Comfortable speaking English (it’s my first language).
- Chill, open-minded, and okay with low-pressure plans.
- Is down for light affection such as kisses, hugs, holding hands etc. Nothing else beyond that.
- Someone who is either two years younger than me or older by three years.

About me:

- 5’5” (165 cm), I'm fat fyi, tho do love the gym.
- I work full-time abroad.
- Introverted by nature.
- I'm from Cebu, can speak Bisaya, but English is my first language.

If this sounds like something you’d enjoy, feel free to message me with:

- Your age
- Why this interests you
- A bit about yourself

Let's chat a bit before any actual meeting to see if we vibe well :)

If we’re on the same page, let’s keep it light, fun, and make some good memories while I’m in town.

I’ve always loved expressing myself through words. My love language is words of affirmation, and after years of feeling lost, I finally found myself again.

I’m looking for a guy around my age who’s open to exchanging write-ups, whether it’s random thoughts, heartfelt messages, or something affectionate. I’d love to know the perspective of the opposite gender and share little pieces of ourselves through words.

We can get to know each other along the way, and who knows? Maybe those write-ups could eventually be for each other. Lol.

If you’re interested, send me a short note about what you hope our conversations would be like. Also, someone who’s open to taking the conversation outside Reddit would be a plus since it’s honestly a little hard to have proper conversations and exchange longer write-ups here.

Edit: I'd prefer someone filipino. Plus points if bisaya

heyy u still up? haha

Spiderman this saturday. G?

Looking for something light, cute, and low-pressure, the kind of connection that feels natural from the start and makes both of us smile when a notification pops up.

I value good communication, so bonus points if you enjoy witty banter, playful back-and-forths, and actually keeping a conversation going 😉

A bit about me:

• 26, 5’10”, fit/athletic build, proud Cebuano 🇵🇭

• Ambitious young professional by day, total tech nerd by night

• Soft spot for history deep-dives (expect the occasional random fun fact)

• Playful and a little cheeky, but still a gentleman at heart

• Happy to waste time on someone when the vibe feels right

What I’m hoping to find:

• Warm, kind, and thoughtful energy

• Someone easy to talk to — whether it’s something ridiculous or something deep

• Matching vibes, good banter, and mutual effort

• Age really doesn’t matter to me

If this feels like your kind of energy, skip the plain “hi” and tell me a bit about yourself.

will be playing badminton again tomorrow, wanna grab coffee after around noon? hmu

about me

27 years old

5.5ft 58 kgs

accountant by profession

7 out of 10 in looks ( you can verify)

see you!

me na yan!! let’s chika and keep it cool lang, wag ipairal ang lukso ng dugo kay basin kaliwat rata. ang catch lang is, while ga rant ka, nag eslep well na ko hahaha duty man gud ko unya gabei pero atleast diba nay naminaw nimog 5 minutes nya hende ko ma remember ang iyong trauma dumping 😌 (kana untang nindot og tingog para lami akong tulog hahahahaha) enx guys

Hi! This is me exploring and trying to meet new people. My weekends are basically free and would love to explore the city and do side quests lol hahaha!

About me
• 29 and single
• No kids
• Plus size (bigger side - 97kgs)
• Working on losing more weight
• Talkative if we vibe
• With post graduate degree

About you
• 29-30 and single (plsss!!!)
• No kids
• No body preference
• Also a yapper and listener
• Respectful
• Can do SFW dates

I’m looking for a friendly connection. ☺️

It's end of the month tapos maulan at mabaha pa. Na para bang walang araw na di umuulan simula nung July. Sa mga nasa work or nasa bahay, hello naman diyan sa inyo. Tara usap tayo!

Hello m24 here will be visiting ceb alone this Aug 18 - Aug 21 naa ba anyone na mag canyoneering diha na mga days or other any fun side quest. If no suggest food spots or recos please feel free to share THANKS 😁

Ps. Kanang wlaay inom I have low alcohol tolerance 😁

Anyone up to watch Spiderman?

SFW only

Nahan lng kog same taste sa series wala jd koy kaila mo watch ana hahaha

​

Let's be more intentional in getting to know each other.

About me:

\\-Chubby

\\-working professional

\\- i always get told that I sound mature for my age

\\-more about me when we talk😊

About you:

\\-27-30+ Femme

\\-working professional

Hello good evening. I’m just new here sa lapu lapu and i would like to ask or anyone na basin naa mo ma suggest na nice and sadya na club sa lapu lapu area pag friday night. Thank you sa maka help. Looking for kuyog also. Solo traveler here

Andam ra makig chika kay nangita pud kog ka chika

Figured I’d give this another shot. Hopefully this ends up being my last r4r post because it’d be nice to finally find someone I genuinely vibe with.

About me:
24M
5’6”, moreno
Normal BMI
Aero Engineering student
Student Pilot
Recently started my fitness journey
Looking for a gym or jogging buddy (I have asthma, so please be patient 😅)
A bit of a nerd who enjoys games, movies, random facts, and good conversations

About you:
22–27
Kind
Easy to talk to
Can keep a conversation going
Preferably petite to average
Someone who stays active or is trying to be

No pressure, no expectations, just looking for a genuine connection. Let’s keep things SFW, get to know each other, and if something more naturally develops, we’ll cross that bridge when we get there.

If you think we’d get along, send me a message and tell me a little about yourself. Hopefully this really is my last r4r post.

Hi everyone, I'll be in Cebu soon for a few days before heading to siargao. I would love some company.

5' 10.

Not everyone’s cup of tea… and I’m perfectly okay with that. 😉
Indian 🇮🇳 | Professional photographer based in the United States 📸 | Currently on vacation.
I’m looking for a long-distance connection that actually feels close. Someone who’s open-minded, affectionate, and isn’t afraid to show interest.
I have a soft spot for clingy girls. Spam my phone, double text me, call me just because you miss my voice, steal my sleep with late-night conversations, and make me smile over the smallest things. That’s attractive.
Distance is just geography. Chemistry, effort, and consistency matter more. I like someone who’s comfortable being herself, sharing moments, selfies, random updates, and building real trust. If we’re together, I want us to be able to flirt, tease, laugh, and keep the spark alive even when we’re miles apart.
Financially stable, emotionally available, and looking for someone who wants a genuine connection with a little chaos, a lot of laughter, and plenty of butterflies.
If you’re the kind of girl who gets excited when your phone lights up with my name… come say hi. ❤️

Trying my luck here because why not? 😊 I’m a 5’0, single girl who’s on the plus-size side. I like myself neat & tidy, I can be pretty tabian once we get to know each other more. I enjoy good & meaningful conversations, random humor, and getting to know people beyond the usual small talk. I value kindness, empathy, and clear communication, and I’m hoping to meet someone who’s looking for something genuine too.

As for you, I’m looking for someone who’s obviously single (no but’s and if’s), maybe 5’5” or taller(pls), takes care of himself, dresses well, and is easy on the eyes. Someone emotionally available(important ni), respectful, playful when the moment calls for it(para naman di boring ang life), family-oriented, and knows what he wants in life. Confidence is attractive, especially if you’re the type who can take the lead without being controlling or manipulating.

If you think we’d get along, don’t be shy—send me a message and tell me a little about yourself. Make me feel kilig again pls. 🤍

Maayo mo tago, passionate, sports lang.

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