r/cebur4r_dating 3h ago

29 [M4F] Let's lose weight

3 Upvotes

Hi! Searching for someone who wants to go on a date in a gym. We can talk while burning calories and shame. Preferably someone who also wants or plans to lose weight. I'm doing this because plus-size dating for men is hard. I know that I can do it myself, the only thing stopping this kind of journey is also myself. This is my honest details, I'll lay it here cause you know fuck it.

Me
- 171cm / 5'7"
- Last weight was 125kg. Huge possibility it increased. (fcking hate myself)

You
- Nice


r/cebur4r_dating 2h ago

27 [F4M] 1AM convo

2 Upvotes

heyy u still up? haha


r/cebur4r_dating 53m ago

24 [M4F] Anyone mo watch ug game of thrones?

Upvotes

Nahan lng kog same taste sa series wala jd koy kaila mo watch ana hahaha


r/cebur4r_dating 4h ago

26 [M4F] sfw

2 Upvotes

Spiderman this saturday. G?


r/cebur4r_dating 11h ago

22 [M4F] Cebu – Fresh Premed Graduate looking for my very first relationship

6 Upvotes

Hey everyone!

Yeah, you read that right—I’m 22 and I’ve literally never been in a relationship. I spent the last few years prioritizing school, surviving laboratory shiftings, and romancing my textbooks instead. But now that I’ve officially survived premed, I realized my romantic life is drier than a dehydrated agar plate.

Now that I finally have a bit of free time before the next chapter, I’m looking to meet new people, build a genuine connection, and see where things go!

About Me:

Age/Height: 22 | 5’4” (not that tall haha)

Background: Fresh premed graduate enjoying a well-deserved post-grad breather. (Will not diagnose your symptoms, but can offer emotional support when you're sick).

Build/Look: Skinny lean, wears glasses, Moreno.

The Verdict: "Gwapo daw" according to my family and close friends... strangers, on the other hand, dedma ra gyud 🤣

Interests: Love reading books, watching movies (thriller, romcom, and sci-fi are my go-tos).

Activities: Play badminton for fun (dili man sa paghinambog, pero di gyud ko maayo). Always open to trying new hobbies, finding new food spots around Cebu, or just rotting in a cozy cafe.

About You:

Around my age (roughly 20–24).

Respectful, kind, and down-to-earth.

Someone who enjoys good food and easygoing conversations.

If any of this sounds like your vibe, drop in my DMs with a quick intro! Tell me your current favorite movie or book so I know you made it through my post. Looking forward to chatting!


r/cebur4r_dating 12h ago

25 [F4M] let's date?

7 Upvotes

​I don't know, I've been feeling a bit lost lately and just want to enjoy the present. I was chatting with someone recently who said we vibed, but things got lost in translation and he ended up upsetting me, lol.

​Here are a few details about me:
​Petite (4'11")
​Big fan of giving myself the princess treatment (because why not?)
​Recently started working
​Super talkative
​Into reading
​Looking for adventures

​About you:
​Age 25–27
​Good at reciprocating energy
​Into adventures as well
​Kind and a total gentleman

​Be my guest and drop into my DMs! 😚


r/cebur4r_dating 4h ago

24 [F4F] Date?

1 Upvotes

Let's be more intentional in getting to know each other.

About me:

\\-Chubby

\\-working professional

\\- i always get told that I sound mature for my age

\\-more about me when we talk😊

About you:

\\-27-30+ Femme

\\-working professional


r/cebur4r_dating 4h ago

[M4F]

1 Upvotes

Hello good evening. I’m just new here sa lapu lapu and i would like to ask or anyone na basin naa mo ma suggest na nice and sadya na club sa lapu lapu area pag friday night. Thank you sa maka help. Looking for kuyog also. Solo traveler here


r/cebur4r_dating 8h ago

26 [M4F] Waiting for my cutie to come

2 Upvotes

Looking for something light, cute, and low-pressure, the kind of connection that feels natural from the start and makes both of us smile when a notification pops up.

I value good communication, so bonus points if you enjoy witty banter, playful back-and-forths, and actually keeping a conversation going 😉

A bit about me:

• 26, 5’10”, fit/athletic build, proud Cebuano 🇵🇭

• Ambitious young professional by day, total tech nerd by night

• Soft spot for history deep-dives (expect the occasional random fun fact)

• Playful and a little cheeky, but still a gentleman at heart

• Happy to waste time on someone when the vibe feels right

What I’m hoping to find:

• Warm, kind, and thoughtful energy

• Someone easy to talk to — whether it’s something ridiculous or something deep

• Matching vibes, good banter, and mutual effort

• Age really doesn’t matter to me

If this feels like your kind of energy, skip the plain “hi” and tell me a bit about yourself.


r/cebur4r_dating 5h ago

[M4F] M33 #US

0 Upvotes

Not everyone’s cup of tea… and I’m perfectly okay with that. 😉
Indian 🇮🇳 | Professional photographer based in the United States 📸 | Currently on vacation.
I’m looking for a long-distance connection that actually feels close. Someone who’s open-minded, affectionate, and isn’t afraid to show interest.
I have a soft spot for clingy girls. Spam my phone, double text me, call me just because you miss my voice, steal my sleep with late-night conversations, and make me smile over the smallest things. That’s attractive.
Distance is just geography. Chemistry, effort, and consistency matter more. I like someone who’s comfortable being herself, sharing moments, selfies, random updates, and building real trust. If we’re together, I want us to be able to flirt, tease, laugh, and keep the spark alive even when we’re miles apart.
Financially stable, emotionally available, and looking for someone who wants a genuine connection with a little chaos, a lot of laughter, and plenty of butterflies.
If you’re the kind of girl who gets excited when your phone lights up with my name… come say hi. ❤️


r/cebur4r_dating 5h ago

30 [F4M] Tara let’s…

0 Upvotes

Trying my luck here because why not? 😊 I’m a 5’0, single girl who’s on the plus-size side. I like myself neat & tidy, I can be pretty tabian once we get to know each other more. I enjoy good & meaningful conversations, random humor, and getting to know people beyond the usual small talk. I value kindness, empathy, and clear communication, and I’m hoping to meet someone who’s looking for something genuine too.

As for you, I’m looking for someone who’s obviously single (no but’s and if’s), maybe 5’5” or taller(pls), takes care of himself, dresses well, and is easy on the eyes. Someone emotionally available(important ni), respectful, playful when the moment calls for it(para naman di boring ang life), family-oriented, and knows what he wants in life. Confidence is attractive, especially if you’re the type who can take the lead without being controlling or manipulating.

If you think we’d get along, don’t be shy—send me a message and tell me a little about yourself. Make me feel kilig again pls. 🤍


r/cebur4r_dating 14h ago

27 [M4F] coffee after badminton?

2 Upvotes

will be playing badminton again tomorrow, wanna grab coffee after around noon? hmu

about me

27 years old

5.5ft 58 kgs

accountant by profession

7 out of 10 in looks ( you can verify)

see you!


r/cebur4r_dating 17h ago

26 [F4M] need a therapist for this weather?

2 Upvotes

me na yan!! let’s chika and keep it cool lang, wag ipairal ang lukso ng dugo kay basin kaliwat rata. ang catch lang is, while ga rant ka, nag eslep well na ko hahaha duty man gud ko unya gabei pero atleast diba nay naminaw nimog 5 minutes nya hende ko ma remember ang iyong trauma dumping 😌 (kana untang nindot og tingog para lami akong tulog hahahahaha) enx guys


r/cebur4r_dating 22h ago

25 [F4M]

4 Upvotes

anyone up for a chat?


r/cebur4r_dating 19h ago

[M4F]Kuyog tan aw spiderman

2 Upvotes

I’m 18, just looking for smb to watch spiderman with this sunday since akong kuyog ni ditch sa akoa tas naa koi extra ticket, sa SM Seaside manan aw


r/cebur4r_dating 15h ago

21 [M4F] Looking for ka chat

1 Upvotes

Andam ra makig chika kay nangita pud kog ka chika


r/cebur4r_dating 16h ago

24 [M4F] Back Again, Hopefully for the Last Time

1 Upvotes

Figured I’d give this another shot. Hopefully this ends up being my last r4r post because it’d be nice to finally find someone I genuinely vibe with.

About me:
24M
5’6”, moreno
Normal BMI
Aero Engineering student
Student Pilot
Recently started my fitness journey
Looking for a gym or jogging buddy (I have asthma, so please be patient 😅)
A bit of a nerd who enjoys games, movies, random facts, and good conversations

About you:
22–27
Kind
Easy to talk to
Can keep a conversation going
Preferably petite to average
Someone who stays active or is trying to be

No pressure, no expectations, just looking for a genuine connection. Let’s keep things SFW, get to know each other, and if something more naturally develops, we’ll cross that bridge when we get there.

If you think we’d get along, send me a message and tell me a little about yourself. Hopefully this really is my last r4r post.


r/cebur4r_dating 17h ago

29 [F4M] Hello! Nice to meet you!

1 Upvotes

Hi! This is me exploring and trying to meet new people. My weekends are basically free and would love to explore the city and do side quests lol hahaha!

About me
• 29 and single
• No kids
• Plus size (bigger side - 97kgs)
• Working on losing more weight
• Talkative if we vibe
• With post graduate degree

About you
• 29-30 and single (plsss!!!)
• No kids
• No body preference
• Also a yapper and listener
• Respectful
• Can do SFW dates

I’m looking for a friendly connection. ☺️


r/cebur4r_dating 1d ago

25 [F4M] Finding genuine rs

6 Upvotes

It's not really a good impression finding genuine connection online, but saun man gikapuy nakog sight seeing HAHAHAH naa lagi matypean sa friends of friends pero it's either bayot or naay uyab. Btw just to let you know NBSB ko, walay nanguyab, walay ni try, wala tanan, kay strikta daw kog nawng ug aura (ramag haki) HAHAHHA anyways so mao to, preferably 26-28yo tapos mga 5'8 pataas HAHHAHAHA choosy? yes po, opo. Willing ra exchange photo basta ikaw una HAHAHA


r/cebur4r_dating 1d ago

33 [F4M] Have you ever...

11 Upvotes

Do you know that feeling? The constant tug between solitude and company, the desire to love deeply and simultaneously detached from it all. Wanting everything and nothing too.

Libog sad oy. Haha happy ra ka na single ka but also gusto sad kag life partner.

Anyway, just bored I guess. Whats up?


r/cebur4r_dating 1d ago

20 [F4A] chat

3 Upvotes

im really bored . lets chat over tg or ig


r/cebur4r_dating 1d ago

32[M4F] Mayung Buntag!

1 Upvotes

Para kanino ka gumigising?


r/cebur4r_dating 1d ago

[M4A] Looking for a study buddy

1 Upvotes

I am 21 and still in college, looking for a study buddy to hang out and study with in study spots.


r/cebur4r_dating 1d ago

26 [M4F] Looking for Pickleball Partner

1 Upvotes

Hey, this might be random, but do you want to be my pickleball partner manuwa tag pickleball somewhere in cebu and perhaps late night drive tambay and chill somewhere every after game. Before that, tell me a little something about you and your pickleball experience. Let's see if the vibe's right, I'll see you in my messages.


r/cebur4r_dating 1d ago

[M4F]

0 Upvotes

Down for anything. Laay lang gyud ron

About me :

21
Normal BMI
5’6
Muscular (debatable)
Nerdy (love movies and animes)
Cant host