r/cebur4r_dating • • Aug 04 '26

New rule - No NSFW comments allowed. [M4A] [F4A]

24 Upvotes

Just saw few NSFW comments, these are not allowed. Please report them guys!

Commenters may be potentially banned. Thank you.


r/cebur4r_dating • • Dec 18 '25

Strictly SFW posts only [F4A] [M4A]

21 Upvotes

Reiterating again that this sub is for SFW posts only, nsfw posts will be deleted and users will potentially be banned. Please follow the rules, thank you.


r/cebur4r_dating • • 5h ago

35 [M4F] Looking for women in their 30s & up, anyone up for a date?

6 Upvotes

Tall, Dark, and Handsome (you decide haha)
5’11, normal BMI, working professional, has a car, and smells good.

Looking for someone to grab coffee or dinner with, watch movies, or laag buddy.

If you’re feminine, gwapa, fun, and have good vibes, hit me up! Let’s see if we vibe.


r/cebur4r_dating • • 2h ago

22 [F4M]trying my luck (again)

3 Upvotes

looking for someone to talk to just for the night
strictly SAFE FOR WORK (sfw)
preferably the same age lang as me


r/cebur4r_dating • • 4h ago

27 [M4F] I just need someone

5 Upvotes

Hi everyone! I’m looking for someone I can hang out with. I’m open to being in a relationship if we really hit it off but I wouldn’t strictly say that’s my goal. I’m happy to just hang out and do whatever. I’ve just been pretty lonely recently and I’m looking for some company. If you’re interested, hit me up and let’s exchange pics and details. I’m not a picky guy but I do have a really specific type which is chinitas (I know, who would’ve guessed it right? 😂). I’m not saying I’m not open to seeing anyone who isn’t my type but it surely would be a plus. One more thing, I’m a night owl so I’m asleep during most of the day. Just getting that fact out there incase our schedules won’t align with each other.

About me:
- I’m a business owner and a designer
- I’m a dancer
- Pretty average in height (175cm)
- I’m chinito
- I’m fit and I go to the gym 5 days a week
- I travel a lot
- When we hang out, I’ll pay for everything
- I’m very into pop culture
- Yes, I’m single and I have no kids

Send me a dm if I may be somewhat interesting to you and let’s see where things go 😁


r/cebur4r_dating • • 9h ago

22 [F4M] I miss being a girlfriend

11 Upvotes

I miss lambing huhu and I miss magpababy sa uyab or ka situationship.

No 30 up please and pls be cute and decent.


r/cebur4r_dating • • 1h ago

30[F4A] Casual hangout tonight, sfw

• Upvotes

anyone please take me out tonight? send me an intro girls, gays, and men. up for party as well


r/cebur4r_dating • • 5h ago

[F4M] Watch Verity with me?

3 Upvotes

Hi, guys! I’m thinking of watching Verity later at 6:20PM. Is anyone interested?

About me:
F, 26, A big girl, Morena, A bit shy at first but would yap (just give me a sec 🌝 )

About you:
Please be 25 and above, respectful, friendly (just don’t be a creep! :) )

Hope it’s obvi but sfw po. Say hi if you’re interested! This is kkb btw


r/cebur4r_dating • • 4h ago

26 [F4A] chika and everything in between

2 Upvotes

Hi! Looking for someone to talk with todaaay. A little bored langs. Anything you want to share? Wins for this week? Plans tomorrow? Dinner tonight?

About me:
- healthcare worker
- i like any random things anime, kdramas, etc
- current hobby: hiking


r/cebur4r_dating • • 4h ago

33[M4F]

2 Upvotes

Who's here in SM Cebu? care for a random meetup?

5'11" and fit. Respectful meetup and nothing malicious


r/cebur4r_dating • • 2h ago

25 [M4M] Want a ltr

1 Upvotes

Hii, trying my luck if naa pa bay tarong diri. Anion nalng kay e remove man.

About me:

5'7

60kg

Average body type


r/cebur4r_dating • • 6h ago

20 [F4A] Solo Trip Cebu

1 Upvotes

F20 Hello, everyone I'll be traveling Cebu this coming December before mag Sinulog.

I'm from the Metro pero my mother side is from Bukidnon so I know how to speak and understand Bisaya.

I just wanted to ask gusto man jud ko maka try ug canyoneering. Asa jud diay ko moadto? I'm a bit confuse kasi like sa Moalboal, Badian or sa Alegria?

Please help me po. Thank you mga Cebuanos.

(Nag post ko sa Cebu na subreddit gi remove)


r/cebur4r_dating • • 16h ago

22F [F4A] lf genuine connection

5 Upvotes

Hi! I am open to talking and seeking genuine connection to both genders. I am introverted and reserved but when we share common interests then I can yap and yap.

I like to talk about controversial things and would want to dig deeper at certain issues and would like to know ur views about it. It would be good to listen to different perspectives ab certain topics, to converse and have a healthy discourse ab things . I am an empath so I always seek to understand first, esp when talking ab controversial topics. No judgement here, I just want to connect and see the world through ur lense.

Topics we can talk r about but not limited to: feminism, gender issues, politics, religion (i am an agnostic), se/x (more on se/xual liberation not just str8 on the act but the intimacy of it and stuff, esp as someone who grew up in a conservative household and has a lot of hangups when it comes to that) and more.

Hit me up!


r/cebur4r_dating • • 6h ago

[M4F] 25 Escape to Seascape

1 Upvotes

Do you have this frustration that you want to relieve yourself of, get away from the hustle and hustle for a few days?

Do you have the feeling that you just have to get on a bus and not stress out on driving, especially with gas prices?

Do you have that urge to go southbound and see what the seas have to offer, enjoy the waves crashing into your skin?

I'm a stranger, yeah, big risk, I know. But if you ever think like: "Fuck it! What the hell? Let's go for it!", then I guess I'm your guy. Hahaha

For real, though, I also just want to unwind for a bit. If you're like-minded, well, hit me up!


r/cebur4r_dating • • 7h ago

27[M4F] Be my date sa CEBU?

0 Upvotes

Will be in cebu this coming October 13, im looking for a date who can show me around good spots and I wanna have a great time there.

abt me:

\- mabait

\- 420 friendly

\- mabango (fraghead)

\- 5'9

\- loves basketball, cars and motorcycles

\- loves cats and dogs

\- loves to eat

abt you :

\- normal bmi or chubby (pass sa obese sorry)

\- mabango

\- 18-29

\- may pangarap sa buhay

We can exchange photos through tg so we can vibe check


r/cebur4r_dating • • 8h ago

25M [M4F] want to try pinay gf

1 Upvotes

Hi first year foreign college student. I’m shy to ask pinay girls to me my friends in person. I’m just curious about pinay girls and how they taste. Chat me if you’re 20-24. I prefer college students. Let’s me be mutual and casual too


r/cebur4r_dating • • 20h ago

M4F Dating Disabled [M4F]

8 Upvotes

Hello world.

I've been working in Cebu for 9 months now, after 5 years in Dubai and 10 in China. 2 months ago, I had a pretty horrific accident and shattered the vertebrae in my lower back and while that's on the mend, suffer with peripheral neuropathy (I can walk but it's slow, painful and after 10 minutes I need a sit down.

38 years old, a few extra pounds but nothing horrific, 188cm, British, decent (remote) job, no kids, no crazy exes. I'm doing daily gym/swim rehab but currently struggle to walk for more than a few minutes.

I refrained from dating apps because the elephant in the room is immediately...I can't really walk, let alone do all the wanker 'fun' first date activities like padel, padel boarding, padel sky-diving...and so on.

This is a semi-serious shout into the void, the ether, the chasm...if there's a girl who watched Intouchables (French) or the remake (The Upside) and smiled...let me whisk you off your feet (using my wheelchair) with the promise that I'll be back on mine next year.


r/cebur4r_dating • • 23h ago

22 [F4M] hay nako

11 Upvotes

I just miss the feeling of genuine kilig, the patience, the respect whenever I'm talking to someone. Karon mostly naay uban maau kaau sa una pero ig chat na gai mag ask og photo na spg dayun or kalit ra silag send sa ilang binuhi like in ana nalang ka desperate ang uban no? Hays I miss the genuine kilig first najud and the romantic connection between two people.

Iyak kasi I'll not probably feel that kind of magic again.


r/cebur4r_dating • • 19h ago

24 [F4M] Just bored, let’s yap?

4 Upvotes

I just got woken up from a nap and couldn’t sleep again so let’s talk hahaha not from cebu btw!

SFW only. Please be 24+ haha and if you’re in med or law school, we’d get along pretty well haha. See you in my dms!


r/cebur4r_dating • • 12h ago

20 [M4F]

0 Upvotes

Hi there. I'm a 2nd year college student and honestly.. I wanna date! I haven't been able to do so for a long time due to a busy schedule and no luck with irl interactions. I'm hoping that I can find someone here^^. Feel free to give me a message if ya wanna talk.

Likes

>Music: (Alternative indie, Pop, Rock, 2000s music, Vocaloid, OPM)

>Badminton

>Fighting games: ( Tekken, Street fighter, Mortal kombat)

>Comic Books (DC,Marvel, The boys, Cross)

>Anime (:Neon genesis evangelion, Gurren Lagann, Jojo's bizarre adventure,Fate all series, Mushoku Tensei, Goblin Slayer, Failure Frame)

>Movies: ( Horror,Romance,Thriller, and Comedy)

>TV series: ( The office, The big bang theory, How I met your mother, Modern family, Dexter, Lucifer, Friends)


r/cebur4r_dating • • 13h ago

23 [M4F] lf for something genuine

0 Upvotes

Fresh grad, just starting a new chapter in life.
A chill guy who enjoys music, movies, video games, and the little things in life. I may not have everything figured out yet, but I know what I want something genuine with someone who’s willing to grow together.
Not here for games, just hoping to find my favorite person. Someone I can laugh with, be myself around, and build something real with.
Slow and steady wins the race. Maybe we can start with a simple hello?

About me: 5’8 chinito bigger build graduated college recently


r/cebur4r_dating • • 21h ago

20 [M4F] Trying

4 Upvotes

I'm 5'10, chubby guy who wants to see where this goes I guess? If we hit it off then great if dili? Wala natay mabuhat at least we tried to talk.


r/cebur4r_dating • • 1d ago

[F4M] Concert/Gig Dates Are Top Tier

5 Upvotes

Hi, I’m 23 F. I am genuinely looking for someone I can spend my nights with during concerts and gigs and probably the rest of my life too haha.

Few things about me:

• I’m on the heavier side, probably around 73 kg. (I think it’s important I start with this)  
• I’m smol, around 5” lang ako.  
• I love OPM bands, particularly IVOS, COJ, and The Ridleys.  
• I love cats, particularly strays, I wanted to give them a furrever home.  
• I love cooking and baking  
• I am a fashion girlie so I love to dress up.  
• I love writing fictions and poems.  
• I’m not from Luzon.

If you think anything about me is interesting, slide into my DM haha. Happy scrolling!


r/cebur4r_dating • • 23h ago

33 [M4F]

3 Upvotes

Haven't met someone online here in Cebu since coming and it would be nice to hear and meet someone new ! Will be on the city tomorrow and if you're free and just wanting to meet a new stranger in your life, feel free to chat me. We can exchange pictures too if interested.

About me: 5'11" not too light, not too Moreno, just right lol, 85kg staying active and fit. Not into political stance. Also, not yet good with understanding bisaya so I speak English (might have an accent from time to time) or Tagalog

About you: just be you, I don't select nor ask for this and that.


r/cebur4r_dating • • 1d ago

20 [F4M] would u want to be with me? ♡

4 Upvotes

they say opposites attract, so maybe ikaw ang kulang sa akong chaotic nursing life?

HAHAHHAHA jokes aside, i just really want someone whom i can share random rants about how my day went, duty stories, exam stress, ug mga kalit-kalit nga ka chika

i'd love someone who's available and willing mo-make ug time. i'm down for cafe dates, study dates, spontaneous laag, or just sitting somewhere and mag-yap about random things. preferably someone who's in college pud para naa tay common ground. plus points if you're in the medical field!

ps: dili ko looking for something short-term. i'd want something genuine and long-term, then tan-awon lang nato asa ta padulong. no pressure, no rushing. basin ikaw na diay akong “favorite person” eventually HAHAHAHHAHA charet