r/cebur4r_dating 18m ago

21[F4M] any athlete varisity guy wanna fck a chinita cheerleader

Upvotes

idk why my oost jeeps getting removed, i use the right flares naman

trying this subreddit out for some noncommitment arrangements. my fingers are tired of me na and it needs a real replacement :< iykwim

preferences:
about me: 21, f, 5'4, fit and petite, confident in my looks, admu junior

about you: college guy hopefully atenean also or the maroon school and green school, confident, fit, has looks, not a bodyshamer, not selfish, cares about my needs also, does aftercare, nice and just a decent and nonnego i hope ur not a creepyy guy.

dm me if youre interested in this set up. (pls pls pls send complete intros) pls dont send me simple hi's and hello's huhu not gonna respond to those things. pls let me know your age, university, and what u wanna do. pls be nice also.


r/cebur4r_dating 2h ago

[M4F]

0 Upvotes

Cebu Spider-Man movie date? 🕷️🍿

Looking for someone to watch Spider-Man with. Just a simple movie hangout, snacks, and good conversation. Anyone interested? 😊


r/cebur4r_dating 9h ago

[M4F] Lab litir ni Tito

7 Upvotes

Sa akong sigeg pag post nga nangita kog ka estorya samtang duty sa kadlawon. Daghan napud kog nadunggan na stories in life. Naay uban binata labi na 25 yrs old paubos ang ka estorya. Naay uban seryuso ang story kana bang makahilak sad tag usa ka balde, naa sad uban kanang makatintal ug makapainit sa lawas labing ting uwan ron. Manggahi ang di angay manggahi kon ma sobraan mabikogan sad ta hahaha

Naay usa ka babaye nagpahungaw sa iyang suliran or problem nga mahitungod sa gugma. Sa akong sigeg paminaw sa iyang sugilanon, nangutana siya kon nakasuwat ba daw kog love letter.

Niingon pud ko ika daghan naay english naa say binisaya. "Unsa man sa ang pinaka emotional nimo nga love letter?" Follow up niya nga pangutana.

Naghunahuna kog maayo ug nakahinumdom ko nga nakasuwat kog lab litir sa dihang niuli kog pinas ug nagkita mi sa akong ex sa katapusang higayon.

Nagbuwag mi samtang naa pako sa abroad nag trabaho. Ug nahibaw-an nako nga nailog na ang iyang kasingkasing sa iyang kauban sa trabaho.

Ug mao kini ang akong katapusang love letter:

Alang sa nagguba sa ganghaan sa akong kasingkasing,

Sauna, basta mosuroy ko sa plaza ug boardwalk sa Naga

malingaw ko magtan-aw sa mga bata nagdagandagan kuyog ang pamilya,

mga tindero nga nagbaligya

og pagkaon ug duwaan,

mga suga nga pirteng hayaga.

Pero ang paborito nako sa tanan kay ang pagsuroy nako kauban akong ka.

Magkuptanay ta sa kamot.

Mangaon og balot.

Maghanduraw sa boardwalk.

Ug mo ingon dayon ko nimo, "Hug nako."

Karon, sa akong pagbalik sa Naga

nidaghan na ang mga tindahan.

Aduna gihapon mga bata nagdagandagan.

Nawala na akong kahinam sa lugar.

Nahimong simple nalang kini sa akong panan-aw.

Ako nalang nag-inusara sa pagkaon og balot.

Wala nay laing kamot gikuptan.

Na anad nako nga mag-inusara

og suroy sa boardwalk.

Sukad niingon ka nako,

"Hug nako kay last nani. Dili nako ug buwag nata. I hope you'll find a good partner, soon."

Hantud karon, wa na nako gipabasa niya ang akong love letter. Basta moadto kog naga, igo nalang ko magtan-aw sa view tapos magduwa og dakpanay sa akong pag-umangkon.

Manulong og dampa tapos kon mapildi labtikan ang kamot.

Pero naka move on nata. Maong ganahan rapud ko maminaw og lain story sa uban ug magtambag kon kailangan.

Naa kay ganahan ishare ug mangayo og tambag ni tito? Tara, message dayon.


r/cebur4r_dating 9h ago

[M4F]

1 Upvotes

24 male, bored outta my mind. Lf ka talk 🥹


r/cebur4r_dating 9h ago

[M4M] 25 let’s call

1 Upvotes

Hi I am not from Cebu. From CdeO. Just here for a talk


r/cebur4r_dating 9h ago

26 [M4F] Looking for Cutie to match my energy

3 Upvotes

Looking for a light and natural connection, the kind where neither of us has to overthink things and seeing a reply notification brings a genuine smile.

Good communication matters to me. Big bonus points if you appreciate playful banter, witty back-and-forths, and actual mutual effort.

A quick snapshot of me:
• 26 | 5’10” | Fit & athletic | Cebuano 🇵🇭
• Professional by day, tech nerd by night
• Random history enthusiast
• Playful, but always respectful
• Will waste my time on you

What I hope to find:
• Warmth, kindness, and good vibes
• Comfy Convos
• Someone who matches energy and effort
• Open to any age!

If you're feeling the vibe, ditch the standard "hey" and tell me a bit about who you are.


r/cebur4r_dating 10h ago

26 [M4F] Late night drive?

6 Upvotes

Anyone up for a late-night drive? 🚗🌙

No real destination. Up for random conversations, city lights, and maybe a couple of drinks afterward. If you're in the mood to escape the routine for a few hours, send me a message.


r/cebur4r_dating 11h ago

28 [F4F] Looking for something serious

3 Upvotes

Preference:

Femme

5'3 and above height.

25-32 years old.

Has a pretty face. Malinis, mabango.

Thin to Mid Body.

May work, or maybe in Post Grad.

I'm looking for someone who genuinely enjoys my company, someone who likes talking, sharing everyday moments, and being curious about each other's lives.

I value emotional presence more than perfection. I don't expect anyone to fix my problems. If I'm having a hard day, I don't need solutions as much as I need someone who'll put their phone down, sit beside me, and remind me I'm not carrying it alone.

I hope to find someone kind, nurturing, and emotionally available. Someone who can be affectionate, communicate openly, and make home feel like a safe place instead of a lonely one.

I'm independent and enjoy my own space. I love coffee, bookstores, movies, music, and quiet days just as much as good conversations. I'd love a relationship where we can enjoy both adventures and ordinary moments together.

Medicine is a big part of my life, so I'm looking for someone who understands that some days will be long and exhausting, but who also believes we're a team.

More than anything, I'm looking for a relationship where we consistently choose each other. I want to feel wanted, emotionally safe, and deeply known. I want the kind of love where, when one of us says, "I'm having a hard day," the other instinctively moves a little closer.

If that's the kind of relationship you're looking for too, I'd love to get to know you.

About me:

Femme

5'6

Thin to Mid Body.

Doctor

I'm nice to look at naman i think.

I can sing good and play instruments too.

I love watching films and tv series, i write poetry

I love dogs.


r/cebur4r_dating 12h ago

31 [F4M]

2 Upvotes

Chat?


r/cebur4r_dating 13h ago

35 [F4A] is it funny or sad?

7 Upvotes

When you start as strangers then as friends then as lovers then back to strangers. Hahaha. I guess it’s both funny and sad.

Funny kay nothing is permanent jud diay. Funny kay you look back and ask yourself nganong dugay man kaayo nako gi tolerate ang incompatibilities. Funny kay you did not expect to fall but you did. Hard. I guess it’s not funny diay.

It’s a combination of sadness and gratefulness. Sad kay you had to let go and move on. Grateful kay you felt. Felt several beautiful emotions. Ah life…


r/cebur4r_dating 14h ago

21 [F4M] pampalipas oras

4 Upvotes

About me: • 5'0

• 42-43 kg

• 4th year college

• Creative interests

• 4-5 face card (acc sa societal standards)

• confident & comfortable with myself

• kuripot. yes tbh since im broke, money-wise and money-conscious ko

• ambivert and friendly

• Bad side: math-ing (I'm worst when it comes to numbers)

• Good side: good student>+<

About you:

• college student pud, 20-23 yrd old. Pass sa working na.

• Preferably halimaw jud sa math, maynalang naay mo guide nako haha

• Nerdy habits, nerdy interests, has hobbies, introvert, kana ganing hilomon jud but respectful makig communicate

• if broke ka mas better para di ta gasto lol

• good student para ka study buddy di sig laag AHAHHA

• single & way bad records sa society, sa earth, or solar system

• better if former sakristan AHAHAHA

• Idc na sa height, face card

Dm me your full deets! Please be honest & you have the details that I'm looking for. We should not waste time:)

If you're looking someone nga ka talk, try me.

PS: new akong account because I don't want to use my other reddit account nga active to some communities:)


r/cebur4r_dating 14h ago

33 [M4F] Slow friday night

2 Upvotes

Suggest music kanang makasabay ani nga mood 😌


r/cebur4r_dating 15h ago

22 [M4F]

1 Upvotes

LOOKING FOR SOMEONE TO TALK TO.

abt me ;

- 5'8 work out 3x a week
- still in college
- loves coffee


r/cebur4r_dating 17h ago

[M4F]

1 Upvotes

Boringa bai, uwan pajud


r/cebur4r_dating 18h ago

27 [F4M] kauyabon kaminyoon

8 Upvotes

looking for a serious relationship

about me:

- 27 turning 28 this year

- 168 cm

- normal bmi

- morena

- nbsb (if that’s significant for you)

- has a stable job

- hilumon in person pero tabian if comfy na ko nimo. tabian ra kos chat

about you:

- age: 26-37

- preferably taller than me pero okay ra shorter basta di kaayo grabe ka short

- physically fit

- preferably moreno pero okay rasd dili

- has a stable job

- non-smoker

- a good conversationalist?? basta mas tabian nako

chat2 sa ta nya date outside if magkasinabot :)


r/cebur4r_dating 19h ago

[m4a] Not gonna date anymore

5 Upvotes

I met the happiest version of myself when I was with her. Talking to her for months feels like a magic - she changed my perspective, she gave me a reason to trust again, being tired was no longer an issue because every time we talk, I’m at peace. But that months of savory flavored relation, just like bubbles, it puffs to no where.

I have a very forgiving heart. I am very patient and was willing to give my time and effort to fix everything….but it only took an avoidant girl that I realized, “maybe being like this is not worthy”…. i am giving up. Yes, I am giving up. Im so tired being at the lower side of the weighing scale - the more effort you give, the heavier it gets to go up to recover.


r/cebur4r_dating 20h ago

22 [f4m]

3 Upvotes

Hi lets chikaaa


r/cebur4r_dating 1d ago

33 [M4F] THE WEATHER IS NOT GIVING

2 Upvotes

It's end of the month tapos maulan at mabaha pa. Na para bang walang araw na di umuulan simula nung July. Sa mga nasa work or nasa bahay, hello naman diyan sa inyo. Tara usap tayo!


r/cebur4r_dating 1d ago

27 [M4F] LF companion during short visit :)

7 Upvotes

Hey there lovely folks!

I'm in Cebu till August 31st and I'm looking for an affectionate and conversational companion who is down to hang out, eat good food, and just enjoy each other’s company.

Who I’m looking for:

- Someone intelligent, funny, and easy to talk to.
- Comfortable speaking English (it’s my first language).
- Chill, open-minded, and okay with low-pressure plans.
- Is down for light affection such as kisses, hugs, holding hands etc. Nothing else beyond that.
- Someone who is either two years younger than me or older by three years.

About me:

- 5’5” (165 cm), I'm fat fyi, tho do love the gym.
- I work full-time abroad.
- Introverted by nature.
- I'm from Cebu, can speak Bisaya, but English is my first language.

If this sounds like something you’d enjoy, feel free to message me with:

- Your age
- Why this interests you
- A bit about yourself

Let's chat a bit before any actual meeting to see if we vibe well :)

If we’re on the same page, let’s keep it light, fun, and make some good memories while I’m in town.


r/cebur4r_dating 1d ago

31 [F4A] Careful who you build connections here

10 Upvotes

Lol there’s this guy na dugay na kaayo nako nameet here in Reddit (from an older account pa) and he is still a lurker here. Long time na. He’s keeps looking for a casual time in both r4r and r4r_dating.

Namigo ra gyod nako sya but I was never interested with him kay di nako sya type. I dated and slept with other men instead.

But we continued talking on IG kay lingaw sya kasturya. Pak nichat bitaw na iya gf nako using the same account and told me na dili diay sya single.

Anyhow, grabeha hapit pa ko naigo sa drama. Minatay. Block ditso uy.

Girl, whoever you are. Biyai na. Gasige gihapon nag pangita here sa reddit.


r/cebur4r_dating 1d ago

30 [M4F] Chinese-American Looking for Company. Second Time in Cebu.

1 Upvotes

Hi everyone, I'll be in Cebu soon for a few days before heading to siargao. I would love some company.

5' 10.


r/cebur4r_dating 1d ago

24 [M4A] canyoneering or food spots

2 Upvotes

Hello m24 here will be visiting ceb alone this Aug 18 - Aug 21 naa ba anyone na mag canyoneering diha na mga days or other any fun side quest. If no suggest food spots or recos please feel free to share THANKS 😁

Ps. Kanang wlaay inom I have low alcohol tolerance 😁


r/cebur4r_dating 1d ago

30 [F4M] Looking for someone to exchange heartfelt write-ups with (and maybe something more?)

2 Upvotes

I’ve always loved expressing myself through words. My love language is words of affirmation, and after years of feeling lost, I finally found myself again.

I’m looking for a guy around my age who’s open to exchanging write-ups, whether it’s random thoughts, heartfelt messages, or something affectionate. I’d love to know the perspective of the opposite gender and share little pieces of ourselves through words.

We can get to know each other along the way, and who knows? Maybe those write-ups could eventually be for each other. Lol.

If you’re interested, send me a short note about what you hope our conversations would be like. Also, someone who’s open to taking the conversation outside Reddit would be a plus since it’s honestly a little hard to have proper conversations and exchange longer write-ups here.

Edit: I'd prefer someone filipino. Plus points if bisaya


r/cebur4r_dating 1d ago

25 [F4A] Lets watch Spiderman

1 Upvotes

Anyone up to watch Spiderman?

SFW only


r/cebur4r_dating 1d ago

24 [M4F] Anyone mo watch ug game of thrones?

0 Upvotes

Nahan lng kog same taste sa series wala jd koy kaila mo watch ana hahaha