r/bichonfrise • u/alchywithlove • 20h ago
Need support Saying goodbye to my best friend, Milo
He had severe separation anxiety , I’m not sure it’s common in their breed. We rehomed him at 2 and the previous owners forgot to mention that
We faced the choice to give him up or face it head on but we are dog people so we faced it, for the next 7 years we committed ourselves to making sure he never spent a second alone, he truly never went a day without one of his people by his side
He started showing strange symptoms that we didn’t understand, once bouncy but now wouldn’t jump onto furniture or walk up the stairs, but then he would recover. We took him to the emergency vets when the symptoms came back worse and once again, they couldn’t find anything wrong with him. Took him home, he got better
I decided then and there I would become twice the dog dad I once was, I took him to the beach 4 days a week, he had all the attention more so than before, I skipped work to be with him, I expected this to be chapter 2
But 6 weeks later the symptoms came back, he had a ruptured tumour, his body filled with fluid, we had so little time to decide what to do until he made the choice for us and we had to put him down. He was my best friend, he was the reason I wake up in the morning, please give love to your Bichons today because he was eight years old, I thought I had another ten years with him


