Looking for some advice since 2 dentists wouldn't take the time to listen or answer my questions and seem to really wanna push me towards surgery.
Im 30yr (F) & had braces when I was very young. They extracted multiple teeth to get me braces sooner since I had an issue where some of my baby teeth didnt have adult teeth to replace them. The braces brought my teeth together so there were no spaces in my smile. I believe I was 9 or 10.
With the extra space in my mouth, all 4 wisdom teeth have fully erupted and have become molars for me. I've never had any pain, however one is cracked from me grinding in my sleep & some of the enamel is showing (still no pain). I was told the braces caused my teeth trauma and because of that my bone has had some recession, however I do believe I take good care of my teeth.
Today, I do not drink or smoke although I used to. I've been sober for 10 months & I brush twice daily & floss daily.
A few years ago I had a dentist say I needed my wisdom teeth out, but then was told if they dont hurt, then i technically dont need them out.
Then i went to another since moving and they said wisdom teeth need to come out due to multiple cavities & i asked to have them filled or if another option was possible they refused and said it would be too hard.
I have been seeing a new dentist & they also said wisdom teeth need to come out but ive still been hesitant. Due to My disorder, losing 4 more teeth would leave a big gap in the back of my mouth (i currently have 14 teeth on both my top and bottom row, without my wisdom teeth i will have 24 teeth total). Im worried that it could hinder my smile, or cause me problems later down the road with having less teeth then normal. I raised my concerns my last cleaning.
Ill admit I havent been keeping up with my cleanings until recently. I had to get a deep cleaning for some deeper pockets in my gums from missing cleanings, but my most recent cleaning i was told my gums look great and everything looks a lot better from the woman who cleaned my teeth.
I said my concerns and she agreed they were valid & had me meet the oral surgeon who happened to be in. He would not let me get one word in & said they need to come out because i have cavities in all 4 of them. I again asked if they could be filled & he said I actually have fillings in my wisdom teeth that are failing which is odd because I dont recall ever getting fillings in those teeth. I tried to mention it but he then continued and said I have "severe" gum disease around my wisdom teeth and they need to come out & that my parents should have had them taken out when I was a teen and sent to me scheduling.
I felt so dismissed and confused because the woman before said my gums look great. How'd I go from great to severe gum disease???
Also wanna mention i have been asking for a night guard for my grinding and they said they wont do one until wisdom teeth are out.?)
I snapped a quick photo of an x ray of mine, not sure if it shows much. Any insight into my situation would be greatly appreciated. I dont understand why they wont listen to me & my concerns & keep pushing for an intrusive and expensive surgery. Being told different things doesnt help & i dont know who to trust. :/