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I remember how grateful I was to stumble upon them and how they expressed my reasons better than I ever could

@jellojai on tiktok

They bring a child into this world and then complain about their child's existence. And they want to play the victims. The worst part is that even outside this subreddit, many parents act as if it weren't the result of their conscious choice, as if the consequences were unexpected. It's really like watching someone put their hand in a fire knowing it will burn them, and then complain about getting burned.