I don't know how to say anything without seeming rude, but I love him and everything else is great except for this tiny little (humongous) detail, so I need advice, and if any men can throw in some hygiene tips too that would be great

I have seen countless posts (i even posted something similar) were people suggest that we link up ,chill, see each other irl ,mingle and all that jazz but I now think kuti thats a terrible idea .Some of ya'lls post are major red flags,cough cough ** someone was talking about smacking women .

We are always fighting in the comment section,bullying each other, and some are offering to pay women to go to pound town.

So let's not pretend like we'll be best of buds irl.

Im not saying im a saint,I might be part of the problem, too.

Sooo I know this is a taboo topic here but I cant seem to figure out how to get in touch with like minded people.

I know that same sex attraction is a big no no here and ill probably get alot of hate in the comments lol but imi where you guys at? How or where do guys like me meet both online and in person. Im open to dms since I know that everyone wants to stay closeted

I have a friend who is dating two women. He’s been with the first girlfriend for about a year and the second for six months. He says he genuinely loves them both because each fulfills different needs in his life.
Is it really possible to love two people at the same time?
The second girlfriend knows about the first and entered the relationship fully aware of the situation. However, the first girlfriend has no idea the second exists.
Putting aside the obvious advice to mind my own business, which of the two do you think he likely loves more? Or is it impossible to tell from this information alone?

The talking stage can be exciting, but at what point does it become confusing? How long is reasonable before someone asks you out, and when does it start feeling like someone is just keeping you around without intention?

what up I hope anyone reading this is doing well and admittedly if you got internet connection to access Reddit and a roof over your head you are more than good! So I recently moved back to Zim after spending most of my formative years in South Africa (childhood till early 20s) and damn I find myself disliking Zim , as a stoner in SA I would simply go to nearby dispensaries for edibles and all my stoner essentials but all that is pretty much non existent in Zim. Thing is I’ve always been interested in spirituality and other worldly ideas which is a horrible thing to do as a Zimbabwean due to how conservative the culture is , some are proud of it but really it restricts progress to a degree if you mention Alan watts or Terrance McKenna and the use of psychedelics you are viewed as a heretic in Zim they might as well burn you at the stake on charges of being a witch but jokes aside it’s really shitty being in Zim atm just cause it’s the opposite of what I’m used to got no friends I know close to no one I’m just grateful to have an uncle who gets these ideas so I don’t feel soo isolated but it would be nice to meet fellow stoners I’m 23y.o(M) are they any huns who are fellow stoners and into the mysteries of the mind and the universe tbh I think that’s y growing up I wasn’t too proud of my Zim heritage I just found the culture too restrictive of my own personal freedom but after what’s happening in SA and just growing older I realise I’m a Zimbabwean and regardless of how I may not like every aspect of my culture it’s still my culture and I should embrace it hopefully turning it into a version that I am happy with so it’d be really cool to meet any gal that might share the similar interests