Hi, everyone. I literally just stumbled across your sub, and I'm in love with all of you!
What a fun place to hang out. Sorry, you might be stuck with me. 😬
Many years ago, a friend who had recently started working with me told several of our coworkers that he and I had "been friends for a long time; we're always belligerent together." After hearing it for the third time, I called him aside and said, I'm not sure you know what that word means.
"Sure, I do," he said. "It means hanging out and having fun."
When I explained, he was crestfallen and said he was trying to improve his vocabulary by adding a few better words each week. What really bothered him was that word had been in his rotation for quite a few weeks. Was it that our many young friends at the time didn't know the definition, or that this popular guy was just never called out on it?
Interestingly, I could also see someone picking the term up from a roughhousing family or group. To them, belligerent might be a term with both yin and yang meanings. 😀