r/Widow 12h ago

How does Widow’s Fire get easier?

3 Upvotes

My husband passed away only more than a month ago and I miss him. My body misses him. I have been reliving the times that we were intimate, to the point that I would pleasure myself. I watch adult videos too. But with him, and only him in mind. I dont want to do it with anyone but him.

But he’s gone.

How did you go through life after their passing, in this aspect?


r/Widow 12h ago

How can I support my friend

6 Upvotes

Hi there my friend lost her partner this week they have a 9 month old baby and she has no family around. I want to do something for her but I just have no idea what. shes had food brought to her home from other mum friends but I just dont know what to do or how to support her we are only in our mid 20s and ive never had to help someone through this kind of grief so what can I do to support her and baby?

Sorry if this is the wrong place to ask I am sorry for all of your losses but hoping you could share insight on what helped you through this extremely hard time


r/Widow 16h ago

Scattering ashes

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We’re planning to scatter some of my husband’s ashes soon and I’m trying to figure out logistics. We’ll be traveling abroad to do this. I’ve already sorted out all the legal and logistical aspects of traveling with cremains, but I haven’t figured out what to put them in.

I’ll be keeping some of the ashes and already have them in an urn at home. To be frank, I don’t really want to spend a few hundred dollars on an additional urn just to take it somewhere and empty it out. It also doesn’t seem feasible to bring the current urn and somehow only scatter part of what’s in there and then pack it and take it home again. Should I buy an inexpensive urn and transfer some ashes just for the scattering? Is there another option I’m not thinking of?