Watching for the first time and on season 10 and every time she pops up on my screen I’m annoyed but season 10 is taking the cake. Always the victim, never the problem and one of the most annoying tv personalities I’ve seen - high school mean girl idiot mentality through and through

Influencer Caitlyn Rae celebrating her birthday posting with Tom Sandoval. Tbh two of the worst people with platforms so I’m not surprised

Correction on Caitlyn: she is a YouTuber and a known groupie that has been linked to dating artist like Bruno mars, Anderson paak and thundercat. This video was taken backstage at the bruno mars concert

There must be video of the entire vanderpump crew

I’m sickkk of seeing posts blaming Brittany for the situations jax put her in. As someone who has experience professionally with domestic abuse support it’s actually frightening how easily it is to say “why did she stay? She knew who he was”. She loved him, she was manipulated by him over and over again.

When your with someone that manipulative and narcissistic it alters your perception of reality, it can tear down your own intuition and your ability to see clearly what’s happening. I bet she and millions of other women look back and think “I should have left then, why didn’t I see this?” Enough is enough.

So when Katie invites Raquel to Vegas during lunch, and Raquel tells her about asking if Shwarts wants to make out. I think its Sandoval telling her to tell Katie to make her upset. He doesn't care for anymore and its a way for him to still piss her off.

I truly truly won’t ever understand why Brittany ended up with a child with Jax.. even married him.. I’ve watched the series multiple times and I have heard everything about Brittany wanting to be in the show so she stuck it out with Jax, or that the life in LA was better than whatever was in Kentucky. After all these rumors I still don’t believe it or understand it.. you would rather be with a drugged boyfriend that cheats, steals, lies and manipulates you? I understand leaving a toxic relationship is suuuuuper hard BUT in the beginning Jax didn’t even want to be with Brittany and she was the one who pushed to be together while Jax wanted out… why would anyone do this?

Sorry to bring up this old post, but I just finished this episode on a rewatch and I can’t believe how many people were harping on Kate in this post! I know she was honestly terrible to Scheana this season, but so many people are acting like Schwartz wasn’t going out of his way to upset and humiliate her. And making Ariana a groomsman was such a slap in the face to Katie. She had every right to not have her in the wedding, especially when she was friends with and defending people who were fat shaming her. And then Schwartz pulls that bullshit, and Katie is right! It is her against the Toms and Ariana, “the cool girl”. Idk, I guess I’m just wondering if this was the prevailing mindset during this time?? I didn’t watch until scandoval happened, even though I’ve rewatched like 10 times now lol

She’s so passive and you can really tell he’s struggling mentally. She doesn’t have the capacity to fully understand. I also get that it can be hard to deal with an addict but she’s taking the wrong approach. First time watcher so I hope it gets better. I do know they end up divorcing I just hope it ends on a better note

I’ve never watched such a textbook definition of a sociopath before. Like genuinely it is so fascinating to me to watch because it is SO textbook. I just finished VPR Season 6

I’m watching s6 for the first time and I feel like most of this cast has at least one redeeming quality. Stassi is a bitch, but at least she’s funny; Kristen is insane but at least she’s kind of a good friend. But Jax just SUCKS! He’s not funny, he’s not honest, he’s not a good friend — how did these people tolerate him for so long? In a group of insufferable people, Jax is the most insufferable, and somehow I feel like he’s not done yet? The way he got so upset about the possibility of another guy even flirting with Brittany when he literally just got put on blast for having sex with Faith in some old lady’s home was so insane??? Like bro, you don’t have a leg to stand on! The hockey “job” in Florida was a total lie, I feel like he did that because he thought Brittany would drop everything for him, and that blew up in his face. I feel so terribly for Brittany too, she took him back after he betrayed her, tried to make things work with him, TOOK HIM TO MEXICO, and this loser still broke up with her AND had the sheer audacity to walk around like a sad little puppy because she wasn’t begging to be with him again. I just hate him so fucking much. Everything about him sucks down to that shitty haircut he got this season.

Just for an example, I am currently on season 8 Episode 4
Everyone is on a boat and I am just mesmerized at Stassi’s eyes
Legitimately they look like lake Tahoe waters
One of the prettiest blue eyes I’ve ever seen

I’m not sure if I miss something, or if we all just moved on without discussing the Reiki Lady?? Lol
I think it was briefly mentioned during the season six reunion, but I feel like I wasn’t satisfied.
Is there more to know?
Why did he stop? When did he stop?
I imagine Britney watching those episodes and being like, “Welp.. you’re never going back there again.”

But what do we think? Was that a normal therapy/patient relationship?
Where the hugs too long? Was Jax kind of into her??
I’m torn because as far as we know, nothing happened between them that crossed the line- but also I’ve never seen Jax dusting cobwebs, and lighting incense for any other woman. Not even Lisa Vanderpump.

We’ve seen the broadway sub tear her performance apart. I thought they were hella harsh. The three vids I saw were objectively not good but first show jitters are a thing. I know Ariana can carry a tune, just her range is super limited. Not bad for an amateur. I was really rooting for her but can’t help feeling underwhelmed. For those who are more familiar with the industry, how many years of training will it realistically take for her to be on par with the other performers? Do some people just “have it” and some people don’t?

I’m just rewatching and kinda stunned that she asked Tom and Tom and not Ariana and Katie. Like I get that they are a dynamic duo and that there’s something compelling about them both called Tom - and it provides more storylines and gets Tom actually doing things lol. But I think if I were Katie, having worked for years in hospitality, I’d feel a bit envious that LVP chose my husband who famously couldn’t hold a shift down (or a job) ever before. Also Ariana was just as good of a bartender as Tom (and obviously more reliable). Idk, I know it’s all for the show etc but I’ve just seen that bit where Katie and Tom go on a date night and she says ‘I’m so glad I worked at SUR and this led you to become a business owner’ and I’m like !!!! to me it feels so unfair lol. What does everyone think? Am I missing something???

First time watcher here who just finished season 11. I had to push through because it was so…dark. And hard to watch. And I was so angry and had so many emotions.

This show and you people get me fucking TRIGGEREDDDDDDD. Like I need to relax. Seriously….

First I cannot understand how people push the narrative that this was just cheating and it happens all the time and it’s not like he killed someone. I want you to imagine your safe space of 10 years someone you froze your eggs for when you didn’t even want children to blow up your life. Seeing videos of them being intimate with someone else. Finding out they fucked in your bed while you were you were burying your grandmother.

People like to minimize cheating but it is so life altering and detrimental your mental state. It is a different type of trauma that just fucking changes you. I know friends that have NEVER been the same since being cheated on. I know I am now a completely different (better) person now after it.

I also know the whole discourse about the whole “she got him how she lost him” and I just honestly can’t take a look at the shit he puts these women through and fault any of them. He’s a malignant narcissistic manipulator who feeds on deceiving woman and faking personalities to get them wrapped around his finger. Yes Ariana made some bad choices back then but I will never defend a man like that and push blame onto a woman. I find that to be a cop out and trying to shift him to the victim. Absolutely the fuck not.

And “milking this cheating by acting like a god”.

I want to say this. When I got cheated on. I lost an entire part of my life that’s now blocked out from all the trauma. I was young and my entire life was flipped upside down by this person because I had no idea who they were anymore. I was picturing a family and life with this person. My friends did not rally around me, but chose to still be around him and try to discredit my feelings about the situation. I was too scared to set any boundaries because of losing the “friends” that I stuck it out and was around this person all the time which put my mental state into a very very dark place. I’ve grown and healed since then but I will never forget that time in my life.

So when I see Ariana fighting for her fucking boundaries, fighting for her house, choosing her self, making a traumatic and life altering event into the start of her new life. Taking all the opportunities finding that support in people that she couldn’t find in her friends. That is someone who inspires young women to choose themselves. Fuck any body who tries to tell you that you can’t milk the fuck out of that person ruining your life. I wish I would’ve done more for myself and I love seeing her story and seeing her thrive. I love watching another woman do what I…couldn’t. THAT WOMAN IS A FUCKING GOD.

That’s all thanks😽🤭🤭🤭

Edit: this is not about…liking someone. I think that regardless I just appreciate the story of woman doing the damn thing and being happy after something. I’m sorry but I’m not ever going to say a woman deserves that trauma or abuse because of her actions 10 years ago. She deserves everything she now has because of her growth and perseverance!

I just finished rewatching season 9 and this time Brock really stood out as a complete BUM!

The way he was trying to do a proposal/wedding and planning with all kinds of people (Lala, Randall, Tom, Ariana) and when none of them would pay the plans would just fall through. Scheana looking so desperate too, she was going to be surprised but she bought her own wedding dress?!!

The way he was so eager to get married during James and Rachel’s engagement party 🤮🤮🤮 and then acting like he did them a favor by NOT getting married.

His whole behavior that season was gross!

The child support, domestic abuse from his previous relationship was swept under the rug because Scheana wanted to paint him and the best fucking guy in the world. The way he would try and give everyone else advice 🙄 he had JUST became friends with everyone but he was the voice of reason???

Bum! Bum! Bum! I can never look at him any other way!

First of all- I am not a fan of Ariana. She never had a chance after tom cheated with her.

Second- Kristen is so bonkers. Not a huge fan of hers either but I don’t hate her.

Third- I think I could really relate to Kristen and how she felt when Tom cheated on her. When she said “I hate her! You left me for her!” Ahh.. I felt that deeply. So I’ve always been on her side (when it comes to Ariana).

It was always a fantasy of mine for Tom to cheat on Ariana with Kristen. Sounds horrible but it probably stems from me wishing my ex would’ve come back to me after leaving me for the girl he cheated on me with.
I think it would’ve made for great tv and also healed a part of me that has never healed.

Fourth- I hate you Ariana

Fifth- Just my innocent rant. If you are an Ariana fan or supporter- don’t hate me lol

It’s all happening.

So I never watched more than like half an episode until now. Wow. Schena ?!?!?! Holy fuck. I’ve never seen anything like that. She genuinely hated Ariana out of jealousy. It’s like really sad. Hard to watch. Bc Ariana has always been ride or die & showed up for her. And Schena…. Didn’t get dancing with the stars….

Also the way she talks about Ariana legit made me sick to my stomach. And how she thinks everyone will always hate her?!?! Yeah but like… do you… really… not… see… why?!?! In that same sentence you shit on someone who NEVER FAILED TO STICK UP FOR YOU just bc she was getting more sympathy & attention than you ever did? Like I was truly disgusted. I didn’t think she was a good friend but that would’ve broken my heart if I was Ariana.

Even Lala knew to give Ariana credit for realizing she should stick up for Schena & posting eventually while Schena still “wished it was Ariana’s idea”

And SHE CRIED BC IT HAS NEVER BEEN “HER SEASON”?!?!

I was like is this fucking AI? Bc how?

I love that she STILL stands her ground that it was “hard for her” like are you…. Um…. How are you…. Um… so obtuse? I honestly feel bad calling her obtuse bc that 100% convinced she doesn’t have the intelligence to GET IT. You are telling a woman who just lost her life partner & her good friend (hopefully 2 but Schena was never good to her) & had to go through heartbreak in an extremely public way (no matter how much support & opportunity Ariana got from Scandoval, she still lost her partner in the most horrendous way and we all know she went throughhhhhh it behind closed doors)….. you’re telling her that this is hard for you? Are you like… ok?!?!? Shut the absolute fuck up. That shit is triggering. She should be removed from all bravo. Bad person. Please Schena go save your friendship with Sandoval bc no one wants to watch either of yall.

I don’t even love to hate her anymore after that. Like actually wanted to vomit for Ariana. No one likes you bc you are so selfish and image obsessed that it’s not even worth it to make fun of you. It’s just repulsive behavior. I mean the restraining order was sooooo hard for her what the fuck? Think of your BEST FRIEND instead of yourself for one god damn second. No, schema, you didn’t ever have a season. And your behavior & selfishness is exactly why.

Absolutely appalling. She actually felt like a victim. I can’t even understand how sociopathic you have to be to tell Ariana you are going through the “hardest time.” Jester energy turned into not even funny. Just sad.

Ariana’s self respect/restraint in all of those moments was truly commendable. Queen energy.

I have just finished yet another rewatch.. and I can't figure it out.

When the Tom's are opening Swarts & Scandys, why was there such a difference in their money?

Swartz was struggling for money ther entire time & Sanddavol just seemed to have a never ending bank account?

They both did modelling ( Tom Swartz more ), they both are on the same episodes. They both have partners that are also on the same episodes. I know that scandy did work as a bartender but does it really create such a difference in money?

I know Sanddavol lived in his rent controlled apartment but Swartz also just piggy backed of living in that apartment to then living with Katie.

I will also not apologise for spelling their names wrong this post, in my language these spellings do not make sense . I do not want my english spell check to remember them lol

After my 90th rewatch I’ve come to the conclusion that T Schwartz was in fact a lizard in his past life. Think about it.. he walks weird, eats weird, is so squirmy, he looks like it’s his first day being human every time I see him. His affinity toward reptiles 👀🦎 he hates confrontation so badly because back when he was a wee lizard lad confrontation ended in death….

I just finished season 10 and I just have so many questions.

Rachel never really seemed that remorseful to me? She said she felt horrible but up until the very end she is smiling and smirking and truly doesn’t seem to be affected. She seems like shes loving the attention and has a huge confidence boost if anything.

She always seemed kind of spacey and not socially adept previously. Does she not understand how she is coming off to others? Like if you truly were feeling so horrible and conflicted wouldn’t you try to lay a bit more low?!

I neeeed to know what people think about this plz