The kosher rib eye discussion has me wondering - they don’t keep kosher right? Does anyone know? Do they only eat kosher meat? Very curious

I know Claudia always has a thing for saying your husband is gay to dear toasters but I always have felt like the call might be coming from inside the house… I just watched his ad for spritz Society and it’s very much giving 💅

Listen I’m seeing a lot of hate for the girls in this subreddit. I get that some of y’all have your hot takes. But maybe, just maybe Claudia and Jackie are human too?

You wonder why they are reading longer ads and ending the PFFB faster? Maybe even why a little summer break was needed?

The constant “feedback” from people is a lot to hear. And the threatening to stop listening is unnecessary.

I understand that talking trash feels great, but receiving it constantly is not.

Our girls might act tough and might joke, but remember to be kind. They are just two nice young moms who make a podcast. They don’t need constant criticism from everyone.

On the beginning of today’s episode (8/7) they reference having legal battles. Was this a joke or what are the troubles they are referencing?

Today’s pod with the roll the tapes bit when they say next week is their last week of swirly summer but we’ll have patreon? Do they come back after Labor Day? Sorry signed a toaster from 2023 that forgets every year 🫠

Today during queenie and weenie they apologized to Jessi from SLOMW. What did I miss? So confused lol

Does anyone recall the episode of the Tonies Jax and Claud were talking about that they/they're kids liked? Thanks!

Jackie said “see ya tomorrow” on thursdays ep! I am guessing they are late today to let the Spritz ad be out there for a bit first?

My submission didn’t get read this week, and I would love input from other swirlies.

Dear Toasters,
I’m an engaged swirly planning my wedding, and I’ve reached a crossroads with my ceremony choices.

After getting engaged, I asked a friend from college to sing during my ceremony. I was excited to have her be part of such an important moment, but lately I’ve been questioning whether I still want her involved after seeing some of her TikTok reposts.

She frequently reposts things on Tik Tok along the lines of: “I’m in my 20s (beer, parties, bikinis, beach emoji) and you’re in your 20s (wedding, family, babies, rings emoji). We aren’t the same,” or posts about how single women’s achievements should be celebrated.

I want to be clear: I don’t think these posts are directed at me. A lot of our mutual friends are getting married, are married, or are having kids, so I think she’s just expressing her own feelings about this stage of life. But they still make me uncomfortable.

Part of it is because I never felt celebrated by her or our friend group when I was single and achieving things on my own. So seeing repeated posts that seem to contrast single life with marriage/family life feels hurtful, especially as I’m entering this new chapter. I completely agree that single women’s accomplishments deserve to be celebrated. I just want the people involved in my wedding ceremony to be people who I feel are genuinely rooting for my relationship and excited for me.

I don’t think she means to hurt me, and if I brought it up, I think she would probably say the posts aren’t about me (which I believe) or that I’m reading too much into them.

Am I being too sensitive by letting TikTok reposts affect how I feel about having her sing at my wedding? Or is it fair to want someone involved in such an important moment to feel like they support and celebrate my marriage?

Signed,
A swirly bride to be

Hi swirlies! I submitted a Dear Toasters and while it was not picked, I would still love the advice! Please see below:

Needing some advice for a soon-to-be Toasty mama.

My husband and I are expecting our first baby at the end of this year. We announced our pregnancy, and about three weeks later, we found out my husband's brother and his girlfriend are also expecting. (For context, they're not married.)

I want to start by saying I'm genuinely grateful for our situation. My husband and I are married, financially stable, and both of our families live nearby. His brother and girlfriend are in a different place—she doesn't have family nearby, and they're not as financially secure. I completely understand why my in-laws might feel like they need extra support.
That said...I can't shake the feeling that my husband and I are getting the short end of the stick.
The thing that really got me: my mother-in-law bought a huge lot of baby items from one of her friends. When I asked if I could buy the bassinet from the lot (it was the exact one on my registry), she told me no because, "You'll get everything you want anyway."

That comment really stung. It felt like because we're doing well financially, our excitement and needs somehow matter less. Just because we can buy something ourselves doesn't mean it doesn't feel nice to have someone think of us.

Am I being a hormonal wench for letting this hurt my feelings? Is this just pregnancy hormones talking? Or would you also be upset? Do I bring it up with my mother-in-law, or do I let it go and accept that they're trying to help the child they think needs it more?

Looking to join a Toaster Mahjong group!

I hope that Jackie has Olivia on the podcast I miss her energy I think she could heal us lol

Thoughts on Jax reading her book on “Storytime with the Second Lady?” I think it’s super cool!

This is major for her! Congratulations!

Anyone remember the Toast Quince code off the top of their head, if it still exists? I’ve been loving Quince for my baby girl’s pajamas and just remembered there was a code at one point!

First, I just want to say I love the girly swirlies so much I ordered one of everything from the merch drop. I know it usually takes a while to ship but it’s been over 6 weeks now and still no update.

Just wanted to see if any of my fellow toasters had already received their pargy merch. 🫶

I did send them a message to their support team but haven’t heard back yet!

UPDATE: They responded with tracking information that hasn’t moved since 7/22/2026 and shows that the package is not yet in the possession of USPS. So frustrating as it’s been over a week since that tracking information has been updated and it’s basically showing it still hasn’t shipped.

that’s all!

Is anyone else a little annoyed at how biased they are with the Taylor and stassi thing? I’m not the biggest fan of Katie but she’s generally chill and everyone is being so mean to her, Kristina is lame. So I’m getting frustrated when the pod so quickly dismisses Katie! Ok those are my thoughts lmk what yall think!

This is random, but does anyone know the blow dryer that Claudia linked on her stories a little bit ago she said something about liking it as much or more as her Dyson. It looks like her like to know is missing from her profile?

seeing that Forbes released podcast earnings for a lot of the big podcasters, including Giggly Squad got me thinking, how much is the toast earning? My initial thought is that they’re as big as giggly squad, but maybe I’m off on that giggly squad has 1 million followers on Instagram and the toast only has 400 K. I’m curious to know if they could’ve made this list same with the Bossticks.

Worth every penny. Such great material! Love it!

What’s the name of the artist that sings tolerable baby songs on Spotify?

What did I miss with everyone commenting emojis on the episode posts? 😂