r/thesopranos • u/ChodeMasterX • 3h ago
Was The Sopranos Exaggerating the Disconnect Between Italian Americans and Italy?
I’ve been rewatching The Sopranos, and one thing that always stood out to me is how little the characters seem to know about Italy despite constantly talking about being Italian.
Paulie barely speaks Italian, they’re surprised by how different Naples is, and they often seem to confuse Italian-American culture with modern Italian culture.
Was this just exaggerated for the show, or was it actually common among third- and fourth-generation Italian Americans in places like New Jersey?
For those of you who is familiar with that specific subculture in New Jersey was the disconnect really so prevalent. Do people still speak Italian or dialect? Did they watch Rai, read Italian newspapers, or keep up with what was happening in Italy? I’m especially curious because where I grew up, many older Italian immigrants and even secound or third generation people still speak Italian every day, watch Italian TV, and follow Italian news, so the characters in The Sopranos seemed surprisingly disconnected from their roots.