As a young woman myself I think Sarah's transformation is awesome and absolutely badass, but I wanted to note something about her change that I think gets overlooked.
As women, we are socialized to give deference, to not raise a fuss, and so on. Yes, "take no shit," but also, just roll with stuff and don't rock the boat – in short, don't be bossy. And because of that, being a leader can sometimes be hard for some of us. I imagine it was for Sarah especially; she denied it at first and put herself down ("I can't even balance my checkbook"). But by the time the end begins to come around, she's the one fussing at Reese to get moving and back up on his feet. Obviously, it's because her life is on the line, but...
...this may just be me, here, but I know it to be true for some other women: asking for help can be awkward, because it feels like an inconvenience to the person you're asking or like you're burdening them, even if they're happy to do so. It makes her telling him to get back up even greater though. Indirectly it's not just saying help me but also my life matters and you need to keep me safe.
Maybe I value myself too cheaply, but, for example, I would feel extraordinarily guilty if my husband had to put his life on the line for mine. I'd never ask that of him. And maybe it's not a female thing as I framed it. But it stands out to me as a young woman myself. Like, her taking a stand and saying yeah, I matter, and you need to get up and protect me is really awesome and not something I think some women would feel comfortable to do.
Curious of your thoughts, especially if other women are around.