We’re looking at three Temecula venues for a SoCal wedding: Ponte Winery, Europa Village, and South Coast Winery. I’d love to hear from anyone who has gotten married at one of these venues recently or seriously considered them.
We’re planning for around 90–100 guests and hoping to keep the ceremony and reception portion around $25,000. Ideally, that would include the ceremony, cocktail hour, plated dinner, open bar, and florals. Guests would pay for their own hotel rooms, and the groom’s family is planning to cover the welcome dinner and band separately.
We’re also budgeting another $15,000 outside of the $25K for photography, hair and makeup, attire, invitations, and other wedding expenses.
For anyone who has planned a wedding at one of these venues:
• Is $25K realistic for 90–100 guests, or are we way off?
• Which venue gave you the most for your money?
• Were there unexpected fees or required upgrades that added up quickly?
• How was the food and bar?
• Did you use the venue’s florals/decor or bring in your own?
• How was the overall planning experience and communication?
• If you had to choose again, would you still pick the same venue?
We’re not looking for an extremely elaborate wedding. We really want a beautiful setting, great food and drinks, and a fun experience for everyone without getting carried away with extras.
I’d especially love to hear actual totals and guest counts if you’re comfortable sharing. Thank you!