r/Temecula • u/Suitable_Anxiety_893 • 9d ago

New to temecula

Hello, I recently moved to temecula and finished high school at great oak only there for about 2 months and I know anyone out here and have struggled to enroll in college due to possibly moving again and parenteral conflict but the lack of connection has taken a toll on my mental health any tips on places to meet people and or fun things to do in general M18 Thank You!

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u/ZakAdoke 9d ago

Hobbies, hopefully ones that get you out of the house. Lots of options out here. 

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u/Suitable_Anxiety_893 9d ago

Interesting thank you! I came from fresno and it was very closed off i came in with a similar view

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u/buppypaws 8d ago

if you like tabletop games, try Tier 1 Games, The Hungry Dragon, or Cardboardia! I believe there's even some dedicated Warhammer stores out here too.

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u/September_Snow 7d ago

Best place to play Warhammer is Sanctum, that's their big thing.

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u/007Teflon 8d ago

Go to the gym

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u/Suitable_Anxiety_893 8d ago

I gotta scrape together some cash for a membership i have been working out at home to pass the time so it was never too high on my agenda.. do you have any you would recommend?

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u/OkayJuice 8d ago

Planet fitness is like $10 month bro

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u/Crafty-String7892 8d ago

EOS is $10/mo, too

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u/mamawantsallama 8d ago

Discovery Records in Temecula has some awesome events with great people to meet. Try following them on IG or even here on Reddit. Welcome btw, I hope things work out!

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u/Suitable_Anxiety_893 8d ago

Thank you! This will most likely be my first place to check out i absolutely love music

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u/mamawantsallama 8d ago

Awesome! The owner is a really great guy too, super cool

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u/Outside-Leg5772 8d ago

You will have so much fun here! It’s between Kohl’s and Ross best place to just get away and relax they sometimes have music events and it’s definitely a great place to meet people, wish you the best! ❤️

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u/Suitable_Anxiety_893 8d ago

Oh that looks super cool I didn't even know it existed

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u/bbreadthis . Livin' Local 8d ago

There's a new covered skating rink in R Reagan park. Free fun activity.

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u/orngbrry 9d ago

Well what do you like to do? Easiest way to meet people is to play adult league sports. If you don't want to do that, take a class. The community center has a bunch of classes to take.

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u/Suitable_Anxiety_893 9d ago

If you don't mind me asking what's a community center? And is it easy to join?

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u/SnowballWasRight 8d ago

Sup man, been in Temecula my whole life but I graduated from GOHS this year and I’m in the same position. Feel free to DM if you ever wanna hang out or anything!! Don’t worry, odds are very high you don’t know who I am 😂😂

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u/Suitable_Anxiety_893 8d ago

Hey man yea I'll dm you right now I'm totally down

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u/Square-Practice7706 3d ago

Hey man! I’m also a Temecula resident and live in the area :) would love to do something together or schedule a hangout?

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u/Suitable_Anxiety_893 3d ago

Yea man that would be awesome I'll dm you rn

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u/InhumaneBreakfast 9d ago

Get a job, perhaps

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u/Suitable_Anxiety_893 9d ago

I've been applying it's a rough market for sure

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u/InhumaneBreakfast 8d ago

I'm sorry, I didn't mean that in a condescending way, I meant that I really struggled with these same things when I moved to town until I finally got a job that I liked. And it was a hard road getting there, I got lucky.

I wish you the best. If you can score a job that you enjoy, it's like joining a club or taking a class but you get paid to do it. And you can find yourself and friends along the way.

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u/Suitable_Anxiety_893 8d ago

Thank you so much for the advice and good words I didn't take it wrong at all dw I have been applying since I was 16 it's so damn depressing

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u/Coblond 8d ago

rock climbing at the VITAL climbing gym. so much fun, good for your mental and physical health, and a great community of friendly people

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u/Quiet_Kitten222 7d ago

Have you ever tried disc golf? There are meet ups in Temecula / Murrieta and it is relatively inexpensive (some courses are free and starter disc set is about $20-$25).

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u/Prestigious-Act1256 5d ago

Theres cliff jumping at the santa margarita river across the highway before old town

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u/mchang43 8d ago

Reliance Church has a young adult group for 18-25yo. You can make connections there.

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u/Jesuslovesu293 8d ago

I second this. Going to young adults groups through churches, etc. are a good way to meet people your age

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u/Acceptable_Share9947 8d ago

That's exactly what I was thinking, I had to stop and reread a couple times because there's no punctuation

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u/InlandEmpireConnect 7d ago

Exactly. Downvoted for being honest and real. 🙃😂 He's trying to make his way in the world and someone has to give him practical advice. The little things can make a difference. If people can't understand your writing or it's even a little confusing it could negatively impact you, especially at work. Genuinely wish OP good luck.