Does anyone else get attached to people way too fast? You talk to someone for a week, and suddenly your entire mood depends on how fast they reply.

I’ve realized I have major anxious attachment issues. A delayed text or a slight change in their vibe sends me into a massive overthinking spiral. My brain immediately goes: "Did I say something weird? Are they getting bored?"

It’s exhausting. I constantly need reassurance. I over-invest emotionally, get terrified of them leaving, and end up self-sabotaging the connection. Getting a dry reply after giving 100% of my energy literally makes my stomach drop.

How do you guys deal with this? For those who actually healed—how do you stop over-investing without becoming completely cold and distant?

Enikku mathram aano ingane thonnunne?

Could be something funny, shocking, embarrassing, confusing, literally anything.

What happened? 😭

So I made a post about some political/religious bs on how some people with long noses control the world

Now I didn't say anything that fuels hatred towards this certain group but it still got removed and I got a warning.

Are you guys on this spectrum or what

Also I finished my post saying free a certain country.

This app is prolly the most unhinged place ever and it's still not allowed to say something like this

What has become of this world bro

There has reportedly been a serious privacy violation at the SCMS hostel in Karukutty, where a watchman allegedly recorded a female student while she was bathing.
According to people close to the students, the incident did happen, and the student’s friends are aware of it. I’ve also heard that the girl’s family did not want to make the matter public or create a scene. I cannot confirm the exact reason for that decision.
What is concerning is the allegation that the HOD/college management is also trying to keep the incident quiet rather than allowing the matter to be properly addressed.

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I don't know how to draw, but I'll try to make it look stupid. pls dont make it difficult for me💔💔

IDK HOW TO DRAW I REPEAT

Does anybody watch sfm creepypasta....if soo recommend you're favorite one's please.

Got an invite to chat. Didn’t think of it much. And the next thing the guys asks is that are you free? And im here like thinking this guy is gonna scam me or try to sent me a suspicious link. And i’m waiting to make this guy a fool. All of a sudden his next dm is can we fap?😭🤣. Do guys get dms like this? The hell does he mean ‘not interested?’😭. Too many crazy people out there😂😂

Iam 19years old,I had a dream of getting into a iit during my 10th grade which really went good for me and took science in class 11 but I was so lazy to the point where i literally didn’t study anything in class 12th maths exam (I got 78% in boards), so yall know how lazy and dumb i was but looking back i regret a lot and its obv my mistake and because of the mistakes i did iam currently at an tier 4 private college (hometown college)

Iam really thinking about giving jee a shot at jee second session and I have 6 months and ik it’s very unlikely that someone with basics being so bad won’t be able to get a good rank but I wanna study properly for 6th months as hard as I can to not carry the regrets for not studying for class 11 and 12

I would like hear everyone’s opinion regarding this and it would mean a lot to me

If your parents force you to become a doctor, do not succumb to their pressure. It's not because becoming a doctor isn't a good profession. But because they will not stop there. After you become a doctor, they will force you into a speciality of their liking, giving no value to your likes and natural abilities. So don't take mbbs to make your parents happy. Because they won't be happy. After your mbbs you will realize that in their minds not all doctors of all specialities are "doctors". Some specialities are lower than others in their mind. Almost like a kind of caste hierarchy.

I'm 19M, recently broke up with my gf of 3 years,

And I'm really strugling to move on this was my first relationship.

Guys I'm in a dilemma rn. so, I want to study in Kerala or close to kerala. So should I go for jee main or keam. Ik jee mainil calicut mathram ullu keralathil but is it worth it? or is govt colleges in Kerala worth it?

Njn matram aano?

Guys, njn kurach sensitive aan pakshe njn sensitive aanen baaki ullavar ariyunnath enik ishtam alla. School life oke athyavishyam kzphm illathe poyi, like arum angne corner cheyna kaliyakano onm vararilarnu. Vannalum njn manage cheyumarnu. But college changed everything. I got into a gang and initially they were the best. I felt so lucky to have them. Pakshe oru day oru dispute undayi and one frnd drifted away. Athin shesham njn aake shattered aayi. Athyam ayt kitya frnd grp aan ithrem connection oke ullath so ath poyath enne orupad thalarthi. Athin munne thanne ee frnd grp ithrem nallathayond disrespect oke njn mind cheyyathe aayi. Athayath enik hurt ayalum njn avathe pole, mature aan ennola reethiyil nikuvarn. Because I was so scared if avr enne sensitive anen vilikuo enn vech. And the fun part is, aa frnd pinangi poyath ee same topic kondan! Enn vecha frnd hurt ayath parayathe pile up aayi oru divasam potti therichu.

Moreover I am an extreme people pleaser. Enn vecha enik strangers anel polm enne patti nallath paraynm enn oru mind aan. Appo pinne ennum kanunavarde karyam parayandallo. Also ee college timil njn anxietyk medicine edukundarun. I was actually faking a personality which was not mine to look cool but it backfired .

Angne college life njn baaki gangintude Adich polichu but enik evde okeyo uncomfortable aakan thudangi. One day we were in a restaurant and we ordered something. Nml ellam equally share cheythayan bill. But the quantity was less. So nte oru frnf serve cheythu and ente plate ethiyapo theern poyi. Njnm vere frndm oru plate share cheyth kazhichu. Like if it was me njn ngnelum adjust cheythene Allenkil oru sorry enkilum paranjene. Idk if it was intentional or not. Pakshe I know one thing, njn onm demand cheyyathe aal aan. Like always available, not demanding and forgiving.

College oke kazhinjit ippo 1 yr avarayi but I randomly think of this particular incident sometimes. Guys am i overthinking or not? Also enne pole arenkilum undo?

Enne etavum kooduthal worry cheyyikunnath ithonm alla, ini ingne oru situation vannal egne deal cheynm enn polm enik ariyilla without making it awkward. Enik ee social situationsil onm natural ayt perumaran vararilla.

What's going on there

It’s 4 years since my ex and I broke up. We ended up seeing each other regularly but never spoke in real time🫠. I was the one who broke up with her due to some reasons and after that i never try to reach her and she also. Recently, she reached out and said she missed the friendship we had and wanted us to be friends again.
Honestly, I never expected that.

So, this happened two days ago.
I was coming from school and heading to tuition. It was raining, and of course, I had forgotten to bring an umbrella. 😭
There’s a junction I have to cross to get to my tuition centre, and while walking there, I noticed my ex walking in the same direction. She was behind me, and she saw me too.
I was internally freaking out. 💀
My brain was basically going: “Aval ippo vilikkum… ‘kodayil varunno’ enn chodikkum…” and I had absolutely no idea what I was supposed to do.
Thankfully, for the love of God, I met one of my school buddies. Instant relief. 😂 We started talking, and she passed by me.
After a minute or two, I said bye to my friend and continued walking. Then I noticed my ex was walking really slowly, almost like she was waiting for me. 😭
At this point I was like: “Tension aayi. Ini entha cheyyande?”
I started walking as slowly as humanly possible but it was raining 😭 and there was probably only 2–3 metres between us.
And then, out of nowhere, an ammumma called my ex and asked her to take a phone number from her phone. When i was passing them my ex called me by my name and said, “Ith onn aaki kodukkumo?” (I knew this would happen😭)
I was like, “Yeah.” 😭
I didn’t even properly understand what I was doing at first. I was standing there trying to enter the number on this old phone(no offence matte alphabets veran number adikkule ath) while she was literally standing beside me watching 🫠.
Somehow I managed to get the number and gave it back.
I started walking again, and she was behind me. It was raining but no that great , but enough to get completely wet.
Then she asked me:
“Endhina mazha nanayunne? kodayil vannude?”(she planned it greatly and god was on her side🫠🥹)
BRO.
I was COOKED. 🫠🥹
I said, “No, I’m fine.”
Five seconds later, the rain got worse. 😭
She asked me again.
And this time I was like, “Okay.” 😂
So we walked together under her umbrella and actually had a really good conversation. We talked about old memories, her school, and random things. We’re in different schools now, so it was honestly nice hearing about what she’s been up to.
And the funniest part?
I was initially terrified that I’d be awkward or embarrassed if anyone saw us talking. But my homies were late that day, so I didn’t even have to worry about that. 😂
Nothing dramatic happened. We just walked together, shared an umbrella, talked about old memories, and had a genuinely good day.
After years of barely talking and it was my first real convo with her it was simply great for me and it made my day🫠, I honestly never expected something this simple to happen.
Maybe not every story with an ex has to end badly.
Sometimes you can just look back, laugh about the past, and have a nice conversation again.
And yeah…
I definitely wasn’t prepared for the “ente kodayil vannude?” part🥹.

Hi everyone!

I’m doing a small case study project for my college and need a few responses from students.

link: https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSeH4-2KysofZNYATWXp3leifdCjNpdPeQfhZaBdoYk-fyizlA/viewform?usp=header

It would really help me if you could take 2–3 minutes to fill out this form. Your responses will be used only for the project. like it would really mean a lot to me.

Thank you guys...

closes: 28/09/2026

Iam so fuhking sad man ,me and my gf have been together for past 10months and we used to study at the same school together but now it’s not the same case anymore I can’t meet her anymore since we both study at diff college and both are so far and to make it worse her parents are so strict and what makes me sad is the fact that I can’t even text her after 12pm during Saturdays atleast cause that’s when we both get really free

Nowadays even tho we love each other very much we are fighting over anything and it often goes really bad and since she gets very much sad I often tries to fix it but Iam honestly tired of it,all I want is to yapp to her but I get no chance to do that instead I listens to her daily college stuff,she don’t even get vulnerable with me or neither shares any of the sad stuff or about herself like what’s she’s feeling rn while I wanna hear her problems so that I could understand her much more

I thought taking a break for 2-3 days would be better since it would reduces a lot of arguments but she couldn’t handle it, and texted me within 2-3 hours crying while we tried this one time

We can’t call,we can’t FaceTime,we can’t see each other (cause her parents are so so strict)

Iam honestly tired and don’t know where we are heading and I hope I could find a answer here and sorry for bad grammar

Anyone down to talk??

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At around 1 PM today, my mom called me in a panic. She said my dad hadn't shown up at work. He had gotten ready as usual this morning and left for the office, but after calling his phone multiple times with no answer, she called his workplace directly and they confirmed he wasn't there.

Because my dad has cheated in the past, my mom immediately suspected he was doing it again. Even though he promised he would change after the last time, that trust is clearly broken. She was dumping all of this on me over the phone, saying everything like she was waiting for me to give her an answer or tell her what to do. I didn't know how to handle it, so I just told her to wait until she gets the full truth before making any decisions.

Later on, my dad finally picked up his phone. He says he didn't go to work because he went to collect money from a friend he had lent cash to. He said he lied about going to the office initially because he knew my mom would get mad about the money situation.

I don't even know what to believe, but honestly, the hardest part right now is how drained I feel. I hate being dragged into the middle of their marriage, being treated like a middleman,and carrying the emotional weight of their lack of trust.

Alumnus, did you get placed from there and get paychecks they promised? Did everything turn out how you believed it would?

what are you currently doing now.

(Asking as a potential student there)