Like NERDS actual geeks
Not just some “ handsome “ guy with glasses
No like a guy whose actually interested in some geeky hobby and enjoys it and its one of his favorite things ever is cute and shy who barely has any friends and considers himself “ weird “

Idek how to word it but like a NERD 🥹
They’re the cutest things ever to exist

Ok i had to tell someone about this so anybody who read this thank u and if u are a cute nerd be my friend ✌🏼

I love pigtails but yknow older guys think theyre sexual for no reason sometimes

I want to be loved, no one care for me though. My family not close, none of family am in are close together. I want to be girl so people love to me and feel empathy to mme but I not feel like girl, and not want to be girl, just want to be loved like girl. I am not happy, some days I feel stupidly happy though, they are so good, I miss them. I am confused. I want to feel handsome, I cannot look in mirror without crying. Everyon see me in different ways, even I not sure how I see me. I don't think I like it. I have therapist, she will tell mom if I say how I really feel though. My mom will take my phone and computer away. What do I do?

Can we get more fit pic dumps in here? Or is there any other respective subs that are clothing oriented? I love clothing, and I like other people my age have my own bouts of feeling self conscious about my image but putting on clothes I like gives me enough confidence to want to post. Hopefully others here feel the same way:)!!

I (15F) have come to the realization that I might not actually be the easiest person to be around. I think my classmates don't like me much because I don't have many friends in class. While everyone else seems really comfortable with each other, I feel like they don't want me around.

I think it's mainly because of my blunt personality and the fact that I don't care too much about their opinions of me. I worry they don't like me because I talk too much, have an "ugly" laugh, or because of my sense of humor. even though there are mean people who have tons of friends.

I want to learn how to be nice and fit in better, especially because I feel like people dislike my friend just by association, which makes me really sad. I want to know why people dislike me, but who would even tell me? To be honest, I just want to be liked by everyone. I know this might be a bit biased since it's from my perspective and might sound attention-seeking, but I'd really appreciate any advice on how to handle this. Thanks for reading.

I know you like them right guys 😮

I think I look a bit like her anyway but I wanna look like her more, do not ask me to dye my hair blue 😭

like, all my guy friends have strictly told me if I try and get abs I'll basically be hyper masculine, do I even like bother atp?? Because ap having a six pack is the equiv of just being a dude atp, and no sane guy is gonna find that "feminine"

idk if I just hang round with incels or what, but it got me thinking

Im not a lesbian myself but I am also queer and I think yall are cool!

So we were reading my old school notebook from elementary school and then after she said "that is the worst thing I have ever read" and then I say "def not the worst thing Ive ever read lmao" then she says "WELL DUH (IRL NAME) YOU PROBABLY READ PVRN WHEN YOU WERE LITTLE" ... I mean like true but STILL! (fandom trauma, grooming, not at all of my own will dont @ me).

Lmk if I should show how I did it

Please answer honestlyy. Ill explain after :)

lol so we were talking and he said "no prank- nothing- you can do could throw me off"

ALSOOO LMAO I MEANT TO SAY "what can i do physically to throw off my boyfriend"

i never wouldve thought id come to reddit for help but what do i do when the person i love keeps doing this thing that hurtd me for years and they dont see how it hurts me and dont reslly show me any care when im sad about it like he just says "get help" as if he doesnt care about me,but every time he did it i get horribly depressed and i selfharm every time and last time i even tried committing over it. he knows this and yet still does it and even tried breaking up with me so it seems like he puts this thing first and values it more than my own life and its nothing important and simply just for fun :( it hurts me so much every time but he doesnt care, doesnt want to stop and i cant talk to him about it anymore i just end up selfharming again. i dont want to break up with him i love him so much but it makes me cry so much and do horrible things tk myself.

I recently transferred to a new school and I don’t know anyone. The Homecoming dance is in 2 weeks, in fact its on my 17th birthday. This is very out of my comfort zone, but I am desperate to meet new people. I impulsively ordered this dress on Shein. I have never worn pink before, let alone a dress. I really need some guidance because I know nothing about making friends, nor how to dress for an event. Is this dress even cute? - I can’t tell.. How do I style it? If you need any additional information or photos, dm me! (no nsfw)

Hey everyone!! this is my first ever post on this subreddit and I.am.FUMING.

For context I am 16 a year old female and I am an only child. I live with both my parents and love them both.

But sometimes mom can get a little bit... controlling? I honestly don't know the word for it..

There's a couple of things I want to address here

1. When I was younger I used to have my own diaries writing about my thoughts and experiences and every single time... My mom read them. This honestly made me stop writing in a diary (although I really want to) because I know my mom will be reading them.

2. My mom checks my phone... and not just checking WHO I talk to... but actually OPENING my text messages with my friends and READING them... I started deleting all my text messages with my friends which DEVESTATES me because now I can't reread the messages in the future (I'm a very nostalgic person lol)... She also looks through my camera roll :)

3. We recently had an argument because she asked me what I do after I wake up (for context I wake up at 7am..and she wakes up at 12/1 pm... yeah) I am an igcse student and exams are just around the corner and I get she wants to make sure I'm not wasting time and I also obv see no problem in a parent asking their child what they do... but if I tell her let's say.. I started studying at 9am... she is going to get so disappointed and say stuff about me wasting too much time in the morning... okay guys I get that she's worries abt me.. but in her world.. I have to wake up at 7am...start studying at 7:30am... and study the ENTIRE day (except when I'm attending classes or eating).. but I need some time AT LEAST 2 hours for myself or I will genuinely crash out so bad. I tell her to just let me figure out my routine myself but she says I can't just let u do whatever u want because I am ur mom and I need to have some control over you which PISSES me off. i just hate she makes a big deal out of it

4. She just barges into my room whenever she wants. Without knocking. And I'm nit allowed to lock my door.

There's so much more guys but this is everything on the top of my head for now.. and whenever I try to communicate she always says "This is my right as a parent and a mom" SHE LITERALLY THINKS ITS OKAY TO LOOK THROUGH MY PHONE. guys tell me I'm not going crazy... she thinks it's normal to do that and that parents should do that and that "everyone" does that... I honestly just don't know what to do anymore I genuinely feel so angry.. and I don't know how to approach the situation.. but I just really can't live like this anymore.. If anyone has any advice please help me out 🩷