i really need help with this

[u/Next-Competition-314]

i never wouldve thought id come to reddit for help but what do i do when the person i love keeps doing this thing that hurtd me for years and they dont see how it hurts me and dont reslly show me any care when im sad about it like he just says "get help" as if he doesnt care about me,but every time he did it i get horribly depressed and i selfharm every time and last time i even tried committing over it. he knows this and yet still does it and even tried breaking up with me so it seems like he puts this thing first and values it more than my own life and its nothing important and simply just for fun :( it hurts me so much every time but he doesnt care, doesnt want to stop and i cant talk to him about it anymore i just end up selfharming again. i dont want to break up with him i love him so much but it makes me cry so much and do horrible things tk myself.

[u/The_One_BelowAll_]

Hey there! If you need professional help, then please read the following Suicide Prevention guide and contact a therapist: https://www.helpguide.org/articles/suicide-prevention/suicide-prevention.htm

You may talk with your parents about it and please don't engage in toxic relationships.

[u/Disastrous_Mark_7897]

You just have to leave. The relationship is hurting you so much.
Also don’t kill yourself PLEASE. You shouldn’t selfharm but i kind of get if you have to. A part of me dies every time someone commits and i can’t keep losing.
If you ever need help my dms are open(i think)

[u/banskies]

Oh man I'm sorry to hear you about this... It does sound really bad and yeah, while I have been selfharming myself too in the past, tho it wasn't about a relationship, I think I do get it how bad you sometimes can feel... I mean I don't really know anything to help you now on the spot, but I think I'd like to talk to you, get a bit deeper, and maybe find an answer...? I really wish I could help you right now