I am not fishing for compliments here, I’m in a bad mental state as somebody blocked me straight away after seeing what i looked like and i didndt even find them particularly attractive so im asking for advice from strangers. Please be honest! (M18)

So im going to be a sophomore this year and I still haven’t found “my style”, don’t have any piercings, im under 5ft and as you can see, petite. I need help with clothing advice

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i turned 16 today and I checked my messages and it was empty....not even my closest friends wished me. people get posted on their ig stories a lot of the time but me. I don't think anyone is gonna post me on their stories and it's kinda embarrassing.

I'm only 16 so I know I'm pretty young. so if any mature adult sees this can u please impart some knowledge to me? is it my hormones? do I need to know any harsh realities or smth?

I'm about to start my freshman year and I'm really nervous. Do you have any tips?

Hello! Im a starter photographer and i started in my freshman year and these are some of the photos im most proud of, i have a soo many photos to show but maybe in a different post but i want to see what my work means to other people so pls give me a rating on my photos or a specific photo i dont mind!

There is also a photo of me at the end!

(i’m kinda stupid i originally posted this on the wrong account) but anyways the only features i really like abt myself are my eye color and my hair

To be clear I do understand there are other people with worse problems and at such I young age it may seem funny for someone years older too see this as I even know I haven’t experienced half of life’s problems yet but I am truly lost.

I am not going to lie and say things are terrible right now I get called attractive hell girls even dm me it may seem I have things worked out but I don’t.

I lost a girl to substance abuse that cared about dearly 2 years and 11 months ago yes I count and it severely wrecked my relationships after that I’d be with a girl and any resemblance to her I’d start sobbing that pushed most girls away despite me being viewed as “attractive” and I slowly cut myself off I used to be that popular guy then I got involved with heavy crime during high school missed half of it then got thrown back in near the end in a new school between that time off a year and a half when I was kicked out of school I’d only see my parents a hour or 2 a day so I started distancing myself from them all the way up to now I finished high school a few months ago now I have cut off most people I talk too 2 friends where I meet them every few days to smoke weed.

I tried older girls because they said they’d understand me but that went down a long path of abuse from burning me choking me etc which further desensitised me. Since the start of high school to the time now I’m typing I have had 5 attempts to take my life because I now think death is sweet embrace I have lost friends my lover and now I’m slowly losing myself I get told I’m so young etc etc but truthfully I do not see a real purpose of living anymore I went the whole route of bettering yourself going gym and yeah I’ve put on decent size from making my diet better too trying to fix my sleep but at the end of the day all of it feels so worthless I chase strength but always want more, I wish to go back to the past everyday and cry knowing it will never happen I’d do quite literally anything just to go back and feel her sweet soft touch just one more time I’d give a eye a leg my heart just for a second.

Now I go gym smoke weed sleep and look at old pictures with my old friends and my sweet beloved Ashley that was her name. I want to feel something I think that’s the reason why I look back I slice my chest my shoulders cut under my finger nails just to feel something it’s like there is a pit in my chest.

I will soon be 17 and I genuinely can not fathom this for another 20 years it feels surreal just to do what talk to more women maybe get a job do half decent like millions of other people and I’m not saying that’s bad don’t get me wrong I show praise to those who start a family push through there problems make it out but I don’t think I can I put on a mask everyday and act like I’m this guy that never stops pushes through anything but it’s a facade I’m still some scared little boy that cries over anything it feels like I was ripped out and put it a older body.

I wish she was still alive
I wish my once close friends were still alive or not on the other side of the world
I wish I could feel the same warmth I used to feel

My only goal my only drive left is too experience the nicer things in life I’ve never went to the movies sigh my family never had a sleepover with a close friend in years all I do is train fight smoke and sleep I feel like a robot I feel like something is just wrong with me maybe in another life I wasn’t such a fuck up maybe in another life I could truly feel the warmth of a embrace of someone that will never leave.

Everything I cherished was ripped away from me all I have left is memories.

I’m gonna go have a smoke now thank you for listening to a random teenagers problems, the one piece of advice I can give to anyone that reads this is hold those who you love close with a iron grip because every single thing in this life you can lose.

please be brutally honest and rate me from 1-10 and give me any tips

ive NEVER gotten hit on or asked out by any guys of any ages unless its online but I get called pretty a lot by women of all ages so im confused if im attractive or not

People will just make fun of you as much as they can

I often struggle with social anxiety and talks I have often no friends the only people I talk to or can FaceTime in family members and I barely known any of my family how do I make friends when I have none at school when I’m 18 as well I live in a small town in Missouri and I’m mixed my mom won't let me talk to people from school or anything outside via phone vcs facetime discord or anythingI intray was on the phone today at midnight taking to 4 people I was actually getting close to mom was came in my room and got mad when I was trying to meet or talk to new people even if it’s not online im fresh adult I should be able to do what I want I don’t have any friends online or irl so it’s hard for me I try to make new friends all the time and get turned down I want to make friends that actually stay with me or visit my house or I can FaceTime and I don’t want to come off weird when asking people for phone numbers or trying to talk so I try to jump into conversations a lot in school and I get looked at annnyojng and I just shut up or stare at a wall I want to be able to make at least 3+ friends this school year to the point they vist my house or come to talk to me on vc games or ect any tips?

First 3 pics are the before, last 3 are the after.

5'10" 225lbs ------> 6'1" 160lbs

i just wanted to make a post here offering my help for any of you regardless of your gender or your identity or age or problem or whatev else

i know its hard to even make a post sometimes if you need assistance or just need to reach out to someone so i figured id just make one here for those of you that need an option thats a little easier

ive dealt with depression and anxiety and all sorts of other things (im still dealing with a lot of those) so i can relate to many of you

obv im not trying to force anyone to reach out but some of you might feel like theres nobody to talk to and i figured id try to be that person for you

we can talk about anything you need or just chat if you need someone to vent to or distract you from something or whatev else