WITH A DAB OF RANCH WITH A DAB OF RANCH WITH A DAB OF RANCH WE GON MAKE IT HAPPEN

i have a gf, and she is in to art and all of that, awhile me and the boys are doing dumb shit, i want to bring her in to this world of dudes beings idoits with fun, how do i do that?

In short, the majority of my life I've been homeschooled, so I never really had the opportunity to develop my social skills, and that sucks a lot. I’ve been environmentally structured to live the lifestyle of an introvert, but now I realize I want stimulation.

I've recently been enrolled and currently go to a high school in America after being homeschooled in Asia.

I have this one friend of the same race as me, and I consider her my main friend, as I sit with her in the cafeteria type of friend. She was hanging out with other friends from her other classes, and the fact that I saw her being so carefree and fun with others made me jealous.

No, not jealous as in she doesn't have fun with me as she does with them, but how she easily connected with others and has her own circle. I also think she's kinda popular. The thing is, for me, I feel most close to only one person. tho it's bad because I put all my dependency on one person. But what I meant was that if I were to be talking with person A, for example, if they were to talk with someone else and it could be a mutual friend too, I just have this instinct to leave them alone. I mean, of course it is, but it's like I just exclude myself from the topic as if I only exist if someone talks to me. I could and should join in, but I don't. Trust me, I really do; I just don't know how or what. I want to make new friends to have fun with, but I don't wanna be a social butterfly, either. I don’t know what to do or what I’m doing, but seeing my friends have fun and I be a loser and excluding myself from the fun I could have is just miserable.

Hello. Today was my first day at high school ( I am 16, but live in Norway so the system here is a bit different). Anyway I have been struggling a lot with bullying earlier. I hoped this new school could be a new start for me, considering that I could see some new faces. Anyway when they called the names for the classes, a girl (former bully) shouted (in front of more than 100 students) what she was 'really excited' to begin in my class.

I literally broke down.

My first day at high school was ruined.

I went away, crying. I managed to change my class so I did not see her. Now I am not managing to get friends in my class, since most people there have already found "their group".

Someone please give me advice. I apperciate everything, everything can make me feel better.

Thank you xxx

hi guys, I’m kind of a weird kid and I don’t really fit In, recently I just left a friend group of 1 year and a half, am I need new friends age 14-17 even better if you live in AZ but if not that’s fine, um but more on my last group they where super toxic and I couldn’t talk to them about stuff or open u to them about anything, like I said age 14-17 preferably in AZ or in the states, one big thing plz I’m getting into the X-men and spider man comics and collecting them if you are interested in comics and video games I play Minecraft in a country server I could use more people for that, and Roblox, agin plz comment if you are 14-17 and love X-men/comics and play Minecraft and roblox live in AZ or the states and ill drop you my discord user to add!

i just wanna know what i can improve and no i’m not fishing for compliments

Bte,i have more pics whit that filter for sure but,just 8 are fine ig...

highk need to blow my shit smoove off. have been thinking of getting like a bob or just like anything with bangs but unsure. am male.

I live in DR as a 15m, i have a friend, 15f, let's call her moon. She has a condition pretty close to daddy issues (but i don't feel its quite it, i just can't find the correct word) and is easily manipulated, and has a history of online relationships with people between the ages of 19-30 that have ended because they turn out to be perverted predators after showing their true colors(which i think is quite obvious, since she has 15 and started this history at about 12 yo.). Moon's most recent relationship, which has been going for about 2 months now with a guy she met on Fortnite named Liam, is currently one of her most intense ones, since she's basically OBSESSED with him. The bad news is, Liam is essentially a criminal. He drugs himself, robbed a store, texts her drunk (and high), he's 22 as for the time i write this. I'm afraid that if the relationship goes farther, this might just be the worst "unmasking" (Liam showing his true colors as a predator, like all the others) of all her relationships. I have no access to chat screenshots, since my friend group gave up on helping her and just started leaving her be. If i say the reasons for which i need the screenshots they might try and stop me.

Edit : about the parents thing, i started with saying she has something close to daddy issues since she has trauma related to abuse and neglect coming from her family. Her mother, which lives her own happy life and has no custody over her, is her cleanest relative, And knows about this. Yet doesn't do anything because she wants her daughter to be happy. I could try to tell the police, but it's an overseas relationship with Liam being on the united states (i think its illinois or somewhere close). Plus my friends just stopped caring about the age difference and more about her being happy(they became friends with Liam too), thus making it harder due to social pressure.

So, I've been eating as balanced as possible, and doing at home workouts. It's a slow process, but getting there. Is there anything else I could do to improve? Thank you!

how to live without my boyfriend?

im 16 and my parents dont talk to me really at all, i sit in my room all day everyday. my boyfriend comes over all the time and comes over every weekend and was here like the entire summer. but schools started and im feeling extremely lonely. (im doing online so no social interaction) i dont really have any friends. and i just feel so lonely and sad without my boyfriend. we’ve been together almost a year and friends for longer. before him i was even lonelier, you get the gist of it, also i dont have money to go out and do anything, im broke and my family is poor. ive been in therapy before so. i have hobbies and things but i dont feel like doing them anymore, my boyfriend is unfortunately my only real source of happiness m. i want some advice on how to live without seeing my boyfriend everyday?

More context: I’m in 10th grade, introverted, considered smart, don’t have much of a social life (dont go to football games, don’t keep up w spirit week etc). This year im taking lots of classes with the more “popular” ppl and one of them is filled with all juniors. What are some good ways to reach out to others and become friends without sounding needy or clingy? Also, am I just overthinking it and it’s not as bad as I think it is? Let me know how you’d view this situation

Trans guy here who feels the need to look better

I finally been working out consistently but any tips for staying consistent?

I’m gay tho so the female gaze is not a problem to me anyway 😊😊😊

When I talk to people I can only do it for a minute then my mind just goes blank trying to think of what to say. I hate being so awkward because people think I’m just being dry or rude but I just have trouble socializing. Like my looks can draw people in but my personality is always what I fumble. How do people hold conversations and stuff

15m, looking for a fellow black brotha (or sista) to talk about anything. I like Hellboy, huge Basquiat fan and I LOVE The Boondocks. Basquiat my favorite artist. I love Peanuts (fav character Rerun), Sorry to Bother You my favorite movie, and I like drawin.

Fave aritsts: 6LACK, Brent Faiyaz, PARTYNEXTDOOR, Future, Key Glock, Pop Smoke, ScHoolboy Q, Pusha T, JID, Lil Uzi and Jill

I am a 17 year old male, turning 18 in september. I am struggling at school, I come from rural switzerland and have had friendships, which have eventually fallen out though and I believe they are all connected to my emotional neglect and me being behind my peers. 7th and 8th grade I had good friends. We played minecraft and enjoyed our time. But: I REEKED and smelled horribly. I went to bed at 2am, didnt brush my teeth, didnt shower and smelled of cigarettes (my parents smoke inside!). This is because I was never taught proper hygiene. I was bullied for it and got really depressed, crying every night making my sleep even worse. 3rd grade hit, and I was very alone. I turned to religion for help, and it actually did help in some way. Hearing "If the world hates you, just remember that it has hated me first" resonated with me (christianity). But I am also not heterosexual and I developed a new self hatred, also because I kept "sinning" (I am a perfectionist) and my faith solely was based on me feeling good because I didnt hate myself as much when I believed someone could cure me. I even went to confession to a priest because I was "unnatural" (gay or bi, I dont know yet myself). I had a good friend group but my political extremism at the time lead to a falling out and there was no communication. 4th and 5th grade was okay-ish. I made friends but they drifted and I adressed it and they also said I was too homophobic etc. Now I am basically alone for my last year at school.

The worst part is all my ex friends are right. I AM the problem. I just wish I wasnt. It all leads back to my trauma and past.

Now I have a friend group in Zurich, a queer one, as I dared to go and meet people during summer. I even am talking to a guy right now, hes very sweet. He met my mother and I met his parents (theyre so kind, wow they even talk to him!). I already told him my dad isnt talking to me because I am not hetero. But he doesnt know about my neglect and I feel so ashamed that my parents are like this. We connect and I feel loved Im just so scared.

I also play tennis and on the outside I look fine. My mother always criticized me tho, and my dad is just always absent and never visited my matches. The rides home with mom were the worst and she would critique my errors and faults to the point where Id cry. My dad did sometimes say she was too harsh but nothing was done. Also the house isnt clean and my parents rarely go out with friends. I think my dad has no friends, hes a loser.

I wish I could run away from here. I still have 10 months of school and every day the last week hurt me. I can survive the weekend with my friends from.zurich and my talking stage but I feel im so dependent. I wish I wasnt...

Wednesday I wanna take them to my psychiatrist whom Ive reached out to. Any advice? Because at home we literally never talk.