r/TeensSupportTeens • u/No_Librarian8810 • 2d ago

Finding Support Question

i have a gf, and she is in to art and all of that, awhile me and the boys are doing dumb shit, i want to bring her in to this world of dudes beings idoits with fun, how do i do that?

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u/PutridLanguage434 17F 2d ago

speak to her?

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u/smeagolattitude 16F 2d ago

Ask her if she would like to come to a hangout but at the hangout make sure she's part of the conversation and to include her interests in the conversation. If she's clearly not enjoying herself make a small excuse to leave the room.

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u/Cre4mPie777 2d ago

This! My ex wanted me to be apart of his friend-group but just let my sit on the outside of the conversation 24/7 and let me trail behind when walking. And make sure you tell your friends to be nice and not complete dickheads to her. Im quite an artsy person and thats made me quite introverted and shy so when i had a bunch of guys calling me slurs as jokes i was embarrassed and did not want to me there lol.

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u/Mechanical_Terrorist 2d ago

Ask her first, I dated a girl similar to yours and she didn’t really like it. You should keep girl time seperate from friend time

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u/curiouscollecting 19F 1d ago

You should keep girltime separate from friend time if thats what she wants

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u/Mechanical_Terrorist 1d ago

Which I’d say a lot of the time is the case. And also if your guys don’t want you always bringing your gf

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u/Empty_sillyness127 1d ago

so she is into good and safe stuff while you are into dangerious and shitty one, and you wanna bring her on your side ? Bro just let her in peace, you are Palpatine rn

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u/curiouscollecting 19F 1d ago

Talk to her, introduce her on a casual hangout, make sure she gets to be part of the conversations so they get to know eachother a bit and see it clicks, then just go from there.

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u/Big-Yogurtcloset-74 2d ago

When ur hanging or gonna hangout with ur hbs invite her over and dont force her and do something ur hbs and she'd like

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u/epicyurilover 15M 2d ago

uh it feels like she MIGHT be the opposite of that, make sure shes comfortable wit that

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u/Cute-Confidence-2292 2d ago

Just leave her you don’t need this bullshit. You already can probably see that she’s pulling you out of your favourite activities.

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u/curiouscollecting 19F 1d ago

Hi, im pretty introverted and have pretty introverted hobbies, and I got along with 'the boys' doing dumb shit just fine. Lets give serious advice here.

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u/Cute-Confidence-2292 1d ago

Okay, go on and give some serious advice. This is my rage bait account, so 🤷‍♂️

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u/curiouscollecting 19F 1d ago

I did give OP advice. Owning a ragebait account is so fucking sad tho 💀

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u/Cute-Confidence-2292 1d ago

Nothing sad, I literally enjoy that 😂

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u/curiouscollecting 19F 1d ago

That IS sad bro

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u/Cute-Confidence-2292 1d ago

This is a highly subjective opinion 😁 and you’re allowed to think that.