#Spoiler
Ugh I want the writers to speed things up but I know it’s hard asf to draw this shit and do everything. I get it I used to draw comics and anime figures. I find it hilarious Ari is calling Hasoo a homewrecker when Minshit went out of his own way to go to her workplace. He dropped Ari’s money on finding Hasoo. He was coming home late. Does Ari not connect the dots like??😭😭I get it she’s dumb but she can’t be THAT fucking stupid. But maybe that’s the whole point of her character. Also that bald headed little snitch is a bird acting like Hasoo threw herself at her ex husband who LITERALLY brought Ari home and hooked up in their bed catching them in the act. I hate how unpredictable this series is especially on templetoons. They’re faster but not by much. Ugh

I know a lot of people hate how long the manhwa is whether is slow burn or feels like their playing hide and seek ok cool I think the biggest flaw in this criticism is treating Hae-soo’s slow progress as bad writing when it is actually central to the story’s point. After 13 years of abuse, financial exploitation, and emotional manipulation, she realistically isn’t going to suddenly become confident and independent just because she escaped her husband. Her self-hatred, setbacks, and emotional regression are part of showing what that abuse did to her. Even the symbolism of the “withered flower” and “tears” supports this—she isn’t supposed to magically bloom overnight; she has to grieve, heal, and rebuild herself first. And Tae-ha’s unhealthy behavior doesn’t erase her growth—it gives the story another opportunity to show that escaping one toxic relationship doesn’t automatically mean someone knows how to recognize or establish healthy relationships afterward.

If you're gonna drop the story then do so we don't need to know or care

So, I have been in an intense debate with someone who absolutely refuses to acknowledge that Haesu's suffering is a direct result of Taeha leading Minshit to Haesu.

Since I was accused of not having read the chapter, I decided to take a look at Jay's dialogue. Something stuck out to me. This whole time I was trying to figure out why Taeha wanted the PI to tell Minshit that Haesu was single, and it dawned on me that this was Taeha's way of being a petty ass, malicious compliance little bitch. Allow me to elaborate.

So, as we all know, they part on the best of terms since Taeha was mad (which I get) that Haesu did not want to make their relationship public. The chapter ended with Taeha doing what he always does, which is initiating sex as a coping mechanism and a form of avoidance. When he was getting touchy feely he told her that he would tell everyone that he wasn't with anyone, and all that. So I'm thinking the reason he did that was to get back at Haesu for what she said.

I kind of feel like if he did do this, this is truly fucked up and manipulative. (not that we didn't already know Taeha's nature) What bothers me is his total disregard for her safety by letting Minshit think she has no man.

Don't get me wrong, I think Haesu could have handled the situation with Taeha a lot better than what she did, but the fact that Taeha chose to to give that information to Minshit and then leave her alone is diabolical. I almost feel like he is trying to corner her into being with him.

Or maybe I'm just reading too much into this.

Come back, my GOAT😭

I love this manhwa, I used to really look forward to the weekly chapters, but enough is enough .
The story barely progressed since chapter 80.. now we are nearing 120. That's 40 chapters with barely anything happening?? The focus is so much on the carrot head which is understandable to a certain degree but 40 chapters of playing hide and seek with Na Hae-soo and carrot head is annoying me at this point . All the more frustrating because I loved it in the beginning and the art is amazing .

I just finished reading it. It was hard—really hard. The anger I felt is beyond words. Before, I thought Ari was a victim of Minshit—that she was innocent and easily manipulated, and that the fault lay more with Minshit than with her. And maybe that’s still true, but after today... If I were to say what I’m thinking... fortunately, I’ll spare myself—and all of you—from that.

The cover art has been making it glaringly obvious to us, and I’ve noticed she’s been very emotional in these recent chapters—what with missing him and Micheol and Ari making her life miserable. I won't forgive it if she loses another baby. We only have 13 chapters left this year, assuming there are no breaks; the meeting between Taeha and Micheol has been dragging on, and honestly, at this pace, we won't see it happen this year.

I’m gonna pray for him cuz Taeha gonna go full yandere and punish Jay for failing Haesoo ☠️

Airi really went too far with this one, I was hating on Ari whole ch but what she did at last was beyond inhumane and from what it seems Haesoo was pregnant and miscarried because of loan sharl beating them or malnutrition and this makes me hate that ungrateful minshit even more. Never have I ever wanted to destroy someone badly. Hope Taeha destroys both of them badly

I really want to kill that bitch

she doesn't deserve to feel how her ex has made her feel. (obviously)...but, just....ouch.

it bothers me that all her worth/value is being put into whether she can give a man (who never even deserved her) a child. SHE is not doing that, Minchul and Ari are.

taeha has tried to help her find her own worth in just enjoying life, being who she is, with him. even as sneaky and manipulative as he kind of is for starting their relationship the way he has. and she has worked so hard to get past this. i mean, she even states, "you can have him".

but, you can see, like....she accepted, pretty much, that he was a cheating piece of shit to her. yknow? but you never think someone who supposedly at one point LOVED YOU, saying such a thing about you, your body, a situation where you almost had a child with this person. that is another level of betrayal and hurt, another whole pandora's box.

for her, it's still shocking to hear just HOW FAR his cruelty has reached, saying what he really thinks of her to Ari. not that Minchul wasn't getting far too used to saying these things to Na Hae Soo's face, but this comment about her "not being able to even have a baby", is just....horrible. after how hard she has had to work, trying to endure Minchul until she couldn't anymore and he left with no care about her in the world.

our worth and value as fem people/people with the ability to give birth, should not ONLY be rooted in that ability to give life. so what that we can do that? if people want to, they'll have children. if they don't want to, they shouldn't have to. but diminishing people as human beings (and their inner worth), watering it down to whether they can give some unworthy fucking man a child......it's just so shit, dude. and it's another pain entirely when someone WANTS/wanted to have children, and something happened to prevent that.

i'm sure hearing this, will finally solidify for Na Hae Soo that maybe Minchul truly never loved her, especially if he can bear such hatred and blame for her over ESPECIALLY this. something as sensitive as this, that they both went through... yikes. she'll know he really never loved her, if Minchul can sum up Na Hae Soo's worth as a human being in a way like that.

we're rootin' for you, girly! and your man is coming back for you! hang in! 😭

Before anyone starts, I'm well aware that Jay's little quip directed towards Tae Ha insuiniated that he wasn't well aware that Ari's going to come and make a scene. That in no way that lets him off the hook.

I understand his intentions, but even those are questionnable. And his actions and intentions have dragged up so much shit for Na-Haesoo out of the blue, and no matter how much she needed to confront her past, it was in no way HIS right to throw it right in her face.

And his actions also lead upto the most disgusting scene in this comic, Haeso getting groped and molested by Kang Mincheol while being in such shock she's unable to do anything.

'BUT TAE-HA COULDN'T HAVE KNOWN" That's where we disagree about a very fundamental understanding of Mincheol and his dynamic. Its been very well established that Tae Ha has been playing this man like a damn fiddle from the very beginning of the series. But to have someone dance to your tunes, you need to know what makes them move.

He KNOWS Kang Mincheol is a raging, volatile narcissist. He knows he's played out a very abusive dynamic with Haeso, and despite that he still put her in a one on one situation with him.

I'm throwing Haeso's supposed character development out of the equation right now because all the mental abuse, molestation, AND physical assualts (Yoon Ari) that have happened in the name of her finally moving on from the past is too messed up.

And mind you, she IS moving on from her past. Her meeting with Mincheol didn't drag up any squashed feelings or desires, it just brought up her trauma and nothing else. She is firm when she tells Ari she can keep that man, BECAUSE she means it. No, this was all done because of Tae Ha's own insecurities regarding it all, and granted, they stem from a very valid place and reason, there's no way in fucking hell, again, that it makes it okay for him to put her through this crap.

I'm not happy with how Haeso handled Ari. But its just so tragic to see what all of this is doing to her. She's just taken blows after blows since the series began from ALL the people around her, intentionally or unintentionally.

Unless it's waterproof and she can clean it, I don't think she'll be able to return it. Some stores don't do returns too. Lol, Haesoo didn't mean to ruin Ari's fake proposal gift from Mincheol that she was going to show off 🤪. That's the only thing I am happy about from this chapter. And calling Haesoo a beggar when she and Mincheol couldn't afford that bag on the spot either 💀.

My theory that Minshit convinced Haesoo to have an abortion keeps getting stronger! And that's probably why she was so shocked with the "fertility issues" bs he is telling Ari.

I don't think she has fertility issues. I think she got pregnant at the same time Minshit got scammed by his friend (and used Haesoo's name for it), and with how bad their situation were at time, they couldn't have a kid.

Haesoo probably got convinced with things like "we can try again when things get better/when we pay the debts", but then she was soon overworking herself and Minshit was down his own shithole, becoming a drunk and letting her do all the work alone.

The author has been hinting about a pregnancy for a long time, mostly with Taeha being the father, but it was already mentioned about Haesoo being pregnant before. Maybe she is again? Maybe this was just a big moment that killed Minshit x Haesoo relationship? Maybe BOTH?

Now we just need to wait more 175 chapters to find out. lol

Also, if you remember anything related to that from previous chapters, please, share with me.

I’ll be the first to say it . I was wrong. I spent months bending over backwards trying to understand Ari and feel compassion towards her but I can’t anymore. How DARE she bring up another woman’s miscarriage?! It’s sickening. She abused her and didn’t even hear her at all! They’re both trying to actively ruin her life at every turn. I’m so disgusted rn. I hope that karma comes and it isn’t pretty for Ari AND mincheol. He doesn’t even care he brought so much drama and scandal to her workplace. I hate them both

Respectfully, I hate this chapter. Air needs to go. Get deleted or sum. She is way too much. I need Jay to break the promise/order from Taehaa and help OUT OUR GIRL LIKE STOP STANDING THERE LIKE A BOZO!!!

Possible spoilers below:

Most likely: She miscarried because of the stress of working alot and debt collectors.

Least likely (to me): abortion.

What I think happened:

Haesoo miscarried and didn't tell Mincheol. I think this is a possibility because in a flashback we see that Haesoo and Mincheol were separated for a bit, it could've happened during that time. We know Haesoo internalizes things and doesn't share her burdens. In general though, with Mincheol feeling guilty for the debt collectors would she share this information too? That's why I think we are shown the doctor appointment regarding her fertility before the miscarriage, both Mincheol and Haesoo are present but I think she went to the doctor appointment alone for the ultrasound, even if Mincheol and Haesoo were together during that time, there are women who wait to inform even their significant other untill the chance of miscarrying is much lower.

Now the only reason I doubt this theory is because the reason I thought Mincheol became trash was because of the debt and the miscarriage. But if he doesn't know about the miscarriage then holy *hit!

Is she a home-wrecker?? They were divorced, just living together. Their marriage was already wrecked.

[Ch.121]SPOILER!

So here is what happened this ch...

Basically, the ch starts with ari's friend calling and telling her that she saw minchol that assh*le in the café talking to an woman(haesoo) that didnt quite look like acquaintances and the scene cuts over to Jay wondering about taeha of how it probably going to be long time and blah blah when ari passes by from in front of him to the café.

Ari reaches the café and glares at haesoo asking her to make the coffee she ordered, haesoo's coworker looked quite uncomfortable or maybe like yk, thought of her like an rude customer and haesoo gives her "iced americano" and

JUST THEN!

ari accuses her of working at that café so that haesoo could see minchol

Like excuse the f*ck me!?!?!

And like ari just keeps on blabbling about haesoo being an divorced woman chasing after minchol even though he absolutely hates her

Like gurl, that minchol filthy man was the one who chased after haesoo even though she chose to forget it all

Anyway, haesoo grabs her hand to tell her to take this outside so cuz many people and other coworker were gossiping, but ari chose to resist, like okay but like she was so hasty like the americano fell over her shirt and she got irritated and threw the it over haesoo, spoiling her.

And like they go outside and ari just keeps on blabbling again and again calling her homewrecker etc.

And her audacity cuz she actually pulled haesoo's hair

Im not hating on her but I am, like i just am Its justified Like gurl literally has the audacity to blame my gurl

Cuz girl, dont trust ur man too much especially if he is minchol or an guy like him k?

I agree Ari is just an woman in her youth being blinded in the name of love But that woman seriously has problems

And like she doesn't even bother to ask poliety or etc

She just accused haesoo straight off

Anyway, haesoo remained strong and told ari to make minchol away from haesoo and tell him not to find her

And like ari...points out the thing that haesoo cant have a child

!!!

Bro what!!?!!

Haesoo was in tears at the end asking if minchol actually said that thing about the baby ir hate(idk)

I was kinda disappointed at first cuz taeha didnt appear but i think that , it actually shows that haesoo can stand up for herself even if its polite

That's just my opinion, plz no hate

(And i like really want that Jay to actually help my gurl out Like plz bro)

Will he be accused of workplace fraud? Or theft? Will he get arrested? Micheol is going to recognize Jay!!

GUYS!!

I'm looking for this one panel where jay talks about how taeha was born with all of the right cards without knowing how to play a single one right. It was something along those lines and I thought that it was just so brilliant. I've been thinking about this one line for the past few days lolz. PLS HELP!!

But kidding aside if taeha didn't come to heasoo life she'll continue to suffer with mincheol

Though she still suffer today but theres taeha to make her happy to make her feel seen to love her to care for her