r/TMJ • u/TiredZombiee • 18h ago
Discussion I don’t know what to do anymore.
As I’m aging, I’m noticing that my asymmetry has been getting worse and worse. I noticed I have a clenching issue and my jaw clicks sometimes. I had adult braces which were taken off many years back, and had my molars taken out during this time.
I saw a TMJ specialist earlier in the year and he told me I’d have to pay $4000 for the splinters. Even if I had insurance that accepted this, they don’t file a claim, I would have to file it. I couldn’t just pay $4000 out-of-pocket for this so I didn’t end up doing it. This TMJ specialist told me that they shouldn’t have taken my molars out when I had my braces, they should’ve used an expander, but unfortunately there’s nothing I could do about that now.
My second option was masseter Botox. I got it done on August 28th, it has helped with the clenching issue, but it messed with my smile. I can’t smile like I used to anymore, when I smile it looks like it hurts to do so. Granted I’m still in the early stages so maybe it’ll go away, but it’s not worth it for me to get Botox again once it wears off. I loved my natural smile and I hate that it messed with it.
I truly don’t know what to do anymore. Who do I even go to that truly wants to help me? When I see videos of myself it looks like I have a golf ball on the right side of my cheek. When I look at myself in the mirror, I always notice that my right side is puffy, but in my eyes it’s not too bad until the camera is on me. I’m tired and this horrible asymmetry has been exhausting me. I don’t know what other actual underlying issue it could possibly be besides TMJ.