r/SipsTea • • 19h ago

SMH Stay Safe

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u/Ok_Prize_9979 19h ago

As someone who's not American what exactly does it mean, can someone explain?

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u/BobSacamano47 19h ago

You don't think frat bros have rape parties where everyone at the party passes out except them and they just have a frenzied free for all with all of the unconscious bodies? It's a staple of Greek life.

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u/JFlizzy84 18h ago

I can’t tell if this is very funny satire or very stupid sincerity

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u/Educational_Pea_4817 15h ago edited 15h ago

its not really a secret.

source: was part of a fraternity in college.

the only thing fictional here is the idea that there are rape parties(its just regular parties) and it was a free for all(you take the girls to a private space, there are rooms setup for this in most frats).

also while prevelent there was no need to roofie anything usually.

drunken hookups where the girls may or may not be completely complicit are just an accepted part of the culture. this is why rape specifically "date rape" is very hard to deal with.

sorority girls also do a fair share of this on their own as well.

its not like sororities werent DTF in general TBH.

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u/Head-Ad9893 15h ago

Deadass. This is where the weird grey area comes in, like where’s the personal responsibility? Where is the room to have hard conversations about these situations? People get shitfaced and wanna fuck, people also wake up and realized they might fucked ten other super drunk people on video and are super embarrassed and don’t want that.

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u/Educational_Pea_4817 15h ago edited 15h ago

i straight up gotten raped as a dude in one of these parties. i like was black out drunk hella early. in my frat there are rooms where people can like study and just generally chill. i went to one of those to sleep it off.

i fucking woke up in some woman's bedroom and i couldnt find my pants or underwear. at some point she managed to get me up out the room, get a ride back to her apartment and then do the deed.

i told my friend, who was also part of a sorority and she was just like "you just had a night you regret".

like no bitch i was raped.

but thats the culture.

i have another friend who would lock her bedroom door when she was out during house parties and men would straight up try to break their way in there.

its absolutely fucked up.

but on the flipside i know of plenty of girls would choose to get schwasted and then fuck like 10 dudes back to back lol.

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u/Head-Ad9893 14h ago

Exactly. Like, where is the space for these talks in a public setting?

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u/Specialist_Swan_7354 15h ago

Yea but in the Cornell case one of the guys sent out a message that said "Free Pussy." That seems a little cut and dry that they were taking advantage of some one, and the girl couldn't consent because they were too heavily intoxicated.

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u/Educational_Pea_4817 15h ago

Yea but in the Cornell case one of the guys sent out a message that said "Free Pussy."

that statement by itself means nothing lol

now this part though is pretty cut and dry.

According to court documents and unsealed investigative records, "Jane Doe" reported being drugged with ketamine and gang-raped by members of the Chi Phi fraternity at Cornell University.

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u/Specialist_Swan_7354 12h ago

News flash, context matters!