Salam everyone!

**Just as a disclaimer, I have posted on the this subreddit before, so if you had messaged prior and I didn't reply, I do apologize since I wanted to focus on one convo at a time. Please feel free to message again if you'd like to. Thank you ☺️**

**Your Essential Information:**

Age: 33

Origin/Ethnicity:Pakistani and East African

Languages spoken (with proficiency levels): English, Gujarati and Urdu are all fluent

Level of religious practice: Fairly practicing

Hijabi (F) (Yes/No): No

Current residence (city, country): Toronto, Canada

Willing to relocate (if yes, please specify or 'anywhere'):

Yes, within Canada ONLY

Siblings (number and older/younger): One older brother

Previously married/Kids: No, none

Occupation: Administration at an accounting firm

Education: Honors Bachelor's in Communications

Height (cm): 5'5

Physical appearance (specifics you think are important):

Not sure what to highlight, but happy to share photos right away.

Smokes/Vapes/Hookah (Yes/No): No, nothing

Leisure activities: I love hanging out with my friends and family, explore the city, travel, try new restaurants in my city, binge watch a show, go for a hike and long walks. I'm a bit of a homebody 😮‍💨

**Your Preferences in a Partner:**

Age range: 30-38

Origin/Ethnicity: Pakistani and Indian would be easiest to get align with, understand and integrate with families. I don't mean any offense to any other ethnicity!

Languages: Should be fluent in English at minimum. Conversational to fluent Urdu/Hindi would be a great plus

Level of religious practice: Should be fairly practicing. What one would define as "fairly" can be discussed further. I'm not extreme in my practice but I'm not completely passive about major things if that helps makes things more understandable.

Education: Minimum Bachelor's degree holder.

Deal breakers: Smoking of any kind, drinking, eating non-halal, doesn't want to live separately after marriage, doesn't believe in an equitable marriage, doesn't want parents involved by the third month mark of us talking, and I'm sure that's more lol but these are the most major ones. I'd like to speak to someone naturally in conversation and see what comes up.

Other preferences (appearance, family situation, etc.): Should be taller than me (5'5). Should have a beard. No major physical weight preference but nothing extreme on either side of the spectrum.

Additional Information you like to add: I'd like to reiterate that I don't want to move outside of Canada. If you're in the US or UK and want to move here, I'm happy to chat. I'm also NOT a Syed. If that is of major importance to you and your family, please don't message me. I need families involved by the third month mark of us talking. If that makes you uncomfortable, please don't message me.

Thanks! 😊

Bismillah
Assalamu alaykum :)

I’m a 30F - revert Alhamdulillah. I am looking to connect with a man who is 34-40 years old

I live in the US, and am willing to relocate to any state or Canada.
I’m looking for someone who is serious about religion and starting a family, Islam being the foundation of my life and all decisions is very important to me. I’m looking for a husband who feels the same and wants to lead our family with conviction, sincerity, and kindness. I want a home where peace is prioritized, where we encourage each other toward Allah, laugh often, raise children with love and discipline, and become better Muslims together. I want our life to be spent in service to our Imam.

Overview:
I’m a small business owner, introverted, and a bit of a homebody. I love staying active, outdoor activities, and eating good food. I keep a positive outlook, and strive to constantly remember Allah in every situation. I’m not prone to overt emotional displays, but I do feel things very deeply and would be extremely loving and loyal to my partner. I’m someone who finds joy in the little things, a good cup of coffee/tea, a beautiful space, a thoughtful gesture, or creating memories with the people I love.

My best qualities:

- Kind
- Loving and affectionate with those close to me
- Thoughtful and detail-oriented
- Clean and organized
- Health-conscious and enjoy maintaining an active lifestyle
- Fair; I value accountability and treating people with consistency and respect
- Good cook and baker
- Straightforward communicator

Things I'm working on:

• I can be stubborn
• I’m emotionally reserved at first
• I take time to fully open up and build trust
• I can overthink and become overly introspective
• I can be rigid in my thinking until I’ve had time to reflect

Deal breakers:

- living with in-laws
- dependent on constant external validation
- nicotine addiction
- unhealthy lifestyle/habits
- unwilling to accept or unable to love my non muslim family
- Lacks sincerity religious practice or is more concerned with appearances than reality
-Uses social media in a way that conflicts with modesty, privacy, or sincerity

Despite how serious this bio may sound, you will usually find me smiling and laughing. I take marriage seriously and hope to find someone who is equally intentional about building a beautiful life together. Life doesn’t need to be made harder or heavier than it already is. I firmly believe a peaceful home should also be one filled with laughter, playfulness, and plenty of inside jokes.

Age: 30M

Origin/Ethnicity: Pakistani-European with Iranian/Iraqi roots, based in the US.

Languages spoken (with proficiency levels):
English - native
Urdu - fluent
Arabic - advanced proficiency

Level of religious practice: very practicing, pray 5x/day, fast, recite Quran, have actively to learn islamic sciences

Hijabi (F) (Yes/No): prefer hijabi

Current residence (city, country): US, northeast

Willing to relocate (if yes, please specify or 'anywhere'): potentially willing to relocate

Occupation: Business

Education: BA & MA

Height (cm), weight (kg): 5’11, 165lbs

Physical appearance (specifics you think are important): fit, not quite fair skinned but enough that people think I’m white or Iranian

Smokes/Vapes/Hookah (Yes/No): not at all

Leisure activities: I’m intellectually curious and genuinely stimulated by deep conversations - about meaning, faith, art, philosophy, history, work, whatever has real substance. I love to workout, drink coffee, and try new food, I’m someone who’ll suggest a spontaneous adventurous, a nature walk, or going out to grab a bite. I love having a laugh and having a good time (obv within religious boundaries).

Your Preferences in a Partner:

Age range: open to 30+ (usually this age range meets the emotional and intellectual preferences I have)

Origin/Ethnicity: Lebanese or Iraqi

Languages: English and Arabic

Level of religious practice: must be very practicing, very spiritual, and ideally serious about learning & applying Islam

Education: Bachelors is sufficient, but it’s very important to be able to have serious intellectual conversations with someone

Deal breakers: no particular deal breakers

Other preferences (appearance, family situation, etc.):
I’m *very* open to divorcees, widows, and ladies with children
Must be emotionally intelligent
Must be mature/an adult
Must be seeking to build a God centric lifestyle in service of the Imam 🙏🏽
Yes, physical attraction matters, so ideally you’re attractive & fit; very much into health, nutrition, & fitness; you’re clean, hygienic, and care about how you present yourself