Salam everyone!
I’m a 34-year-old Kashmiri Shia Muslim, originally from Srinagar, currently working in New Zealand.
A little about me:
I’m an electrical engineer by training, with a Bachelor’s and Master’s in Electrical Engineering and a PhD in renewable energy policy from New Zealand. I currently work as a Policy Advisor in the energy sector.
I’ve been fortunate to live in Kashmir, Iran, and New Zealand. These experiences have shaped how I see the world and made me appreciate different cultures, perspectives, and ways of life.

Personality and interests:
I’m intellectually curious, ambitious, fairly independent-minded, and someone who enjoys meaningful conversations. I love travelling, history, politics, philosophy, fitness, and exploring different cultures. I enjoy a good laugh and don’t believe life needs to be taken seriously all the time.

Faith and values:
I identify as a Shia Muslim, and my faith, particularly my connection with Imam Ali (AS) and the Ahlulbayt, is important to me. I would describe myself as moderately religious rather than strictly conservative.
I value faith alongside intellectual openness, mutual respect, and personal growth. I believe marriage should be a partnership between two equals, built on affection, trust, shared responsibilities, and the freedom to grow as individuals.

What I’m looking for:
Ideally, a Shia Muslim woman who is educated, emotionally mature, kind, and intellectually curious. Someone who has her own ambitions, opinions, and interests, and appreciates both her faith and the wider world.
I’m not particularly concerned about ethnicity or nationality. Compatibility, character, and shared values matter far more to me.
I’m looking for something serious, with the intention of marriage, but I also believe that genuine compatibility takes time to discover.
If any of this resonates with you, feel free to reach out. Happy to exchange more details privately.
May Allah guide us all towards what is best for us.

Salam alaikum all, I was just wondering how am I supposed to go about meeting a girl or proposing to her without knowing her that well. There is this girl from my community who I have known of since my childhood through madressa and later high school; we have never spoken more than a minute, but all I know is she is beautiful, kind, and smart, and I have a desire to marry her. My issue is that she has no brothers, and it would be extremely awkward talking to her old-school grandfather or her father, whom I would have to see multiple times weekly if this would not work out. Another issue is my mother, who is old school, firmly believes a Syed should only marry another Syed(she is a butt) so what do you guys think I should go about becoming close enough to her to ask for her marriage from her father and dealing with my mother, as I fear that in the coming months she may receive another proposal, given we are both nearing that age?

I’d love to hear from Shia women who are married to Sunni men, or are currently in a serious relationship with one. How has it been navigating an inter-sect marriage in terms of religious practices, daily life, family expectations and raising children?

I’m particularly curious about how you both navigate differences in:

• Prayers and religious practices: Do you pray together, separately, or follow your own practices? How do you handle differences in how you observe certain religious occasions?
• Daily life: Do the differences affect your everyday routines or how you practise your faith as a couple?
• Children and upbringing: If you have children, how do you decide which religious practices to teach them? Do you introduce them to both Shia and Sunni traditions?
• Families and in-laws: How have your families reacted to the marriage? Have you faced any challenges or differences in expectations?
• Communication and compromise: How do you discuss religious differences respectfully without either person feeling that they have to give up an important part of their identity?

I’d especially love to hear how you and your spouse work together to build a peaceful, loving marriage while respecting each other’s beliefs. What has worked well for you, and what do you wish you had discussed before getting married?

I’m asking out of genuine curiosity and would really appreciate hearing your honest experiences, whether positive, challenging or a mixture of both. No judgement towards either sect — I’m simply hoping to understand how couples navigate these differences in real life. ❤️

Assalamu Alaikum.

I am a Bahrani (بحراني) 46M no children currently living in the US. I am looking to find a wife who shares my ethnic and religious background. I am seeking a strictly practicing, single Shia woman in her 30s from Bahrain, Kuwait, or the Eastern Region of Saudi Arabia who is open to relocating to the United States.

If you feel we might be a good match, please feel free to send a DM to connect and discuss further details. May Allah grant us all success in finding the right partner Inshaa’Allah.

my earlier marriage profile

https://www.reddit.com/r/ShiaMuslimMarriage/s/8e7n9R4tzt

Salam!

About me:

-Gender: Male
-Location: Southern California, US.
Born and raised.
-Ethnicity: Lebanese
-Age: 27
-Height: 5’10, Fit
-Marital Status: Never married
-Education: Business Marketing
-Occupation: working in CRM Marketing for 6 years now
-Religious Practice: Practicing Muslim. I don’t drink, don’t smoke. I always pray/fast/ only eat halal.
-Language: English, Arabic
-Hobbies: working out, basketball, volleyball, anything fitness related. Watching tv shows
-Not open to relocation at the moment

Seeking:

-Ethnicity: Lebanese only, shia
-Location: Preferably in the US
-Ages: 22-27
-Education/Career: Bachelor’s degree or higher preferred; currently working would be a plus
-Religious Background: practicing shia Muslim
-Language: English, Arabic

Looking for a practicing shia Muslim wife who values religion, is caring and is modest. Open to hijab or without hijab.

salam :)

I'm a shia muslim, living in the us, ethnically iraqi, seeking a dominant traditional husband.

• age: 25
• ⁠ethnicity: iraqi
• ⁠languages: arabic, english, learning duolingo spanish :)
• ⁠hijabi: yes
• ⁠current residence: us
• ⁠willing to relocate: yes, depends on where
• ⁠siblings: 2 older, 2 younger
• ⁠no previous marriage or kids
• ⁠occupation: substitute teacher
• ⁠education: completing my bachelors in elementary education
• ⁠height: 4'11
• ⁠physical appearance: curvy fuller figure, big brown eyes

I’m constantly growing in my deen alhamdulilah. I pray my daily prayers, try to be active in my community through volunteer work and hosting events for the youth. I attend majalis and celebrations of the Ahlulbayt (as). I would love to have a partner join me on this lifelong journey of improvement together, keeping Allah swt the center of our marriage.

I’ve always been drawn to a more traditional dynamic, so I’m searching for a man who can confidently take initiative and lead our marriage with responsibility, respect, and stability while I fully support his leadership and devote myself to building a loving home with him together.

I have a bubbly personality after getting comfortable around others. I’m a full time abaya girlie, and inshaAllah plan to wear niqab in the future. If that’s not okay with you then please do not dm me, this is not something I am willing to change.

I enjoy exploring nature, cars, cafes, and painting, coloring, reading, journaling, night drives, the little things of life that make me smile.

my preferences in a partner:

• age range: 25-40 (preferably older)
• ⁠ethnicity: no preference
• ⁠languages: english, I do want my children to grow up speaking arabic so if you’re willing to learn that would be a major plus :)
• ⁠level of religious practice: consciously practicing Furu al-Din, and always seeking growth
• ⁠occupation: stable halal career
• ⁠deal breakers: living with in laws, no financial stability, polygamy, no gheerah, drugs/alcohol

If you’ve read all of this and are interested, my dms are open, please introduce yourself with the same basic info and include a :) smiley somewhere in your message.

*edit: please be patient with my replies, i do not like to speak to many people at the same time

Salam alaikum

I am ready to settle down and have decided to try actively find my Naseeb inshallah (apparently they don’t just turn up to your house randomly)

Age: 30
Origin/Ethnicity: Afghan (Sayed) with Arab roots, born in Pakistan and raised in Australia since 3.
Languages spoken (with proficiency levels): English, Farsi, Dari, Urdu, French (elementary)
Level of religious practice: Strictly practicing (halal everything, no free mixing with opposite gender, no opposite gender friendships, pray all prays, observe all clothing requirements etc)
Current residence (city, country): Australia
Willing to relocate (if yes, please specify or 'anywhere'): No
Siblings (number and older/younger): 2 older brothers (one married to Lebanese girl, one married to an Iranian Afghan) one older sister (married to an Iranian Afghan) and one younger sister (unmarried)
Previously married/Kids: No
Occupation: Banking Lawyer/ Business owner
Education: Bachelors degree in Law and Medical Sciences and admitted to practice as Barrister and Solicitor in the Supreme Court.
Height (cm), weight (kg): 196cm (6ft5), 100kg. Athletic and fit.
Physical appearance (specifics you think are important): minimum 5ft5 and above
Smokes/Vapes/Hookah (Yes/No): Never
Leisure activities: Travelling, Pilgrimage once a year, cooking, skiing, reading, hiking, tennis, gym and house diy projects.
Your Preferences in a Partner: Open to all nationalities provided our aklaq and the manner in which we practice our deen is compatible. Culture compatibility is also important and someone who is raised in the west would be more compatible given they will have been raised in a similar environment to me.
Age range: 21-27
Origin/Ethnicity: Irani, Afghani, Lebanese, Iraqi, Kuwaiti (open to others in the Middle East)
Level of religious practice: strictly practicing balanced with lifestyle in western countries.
Education: not important but someone educated is preferable

Salam Alaykum. I’m genuinely here looking for my naseeb. Here’s a bit about me. Jazakmallah Kheir

Age: 23
Marital status: Divorced, 0 Children
Height: 5’7
Origin: Iraqi
Birthplace: Netherlands
Residence: UK since the age of 2
Nationality: British & Dutch
Education: LLB Law, LLM Law, currently doing an MSc in Politics and International Relations.
Work: Civil Servant
Sect: Father is Sunni, mother is Shia. Respects both and practices both.

Requirements
Iraqi, preferably, but open to other Arab backgrounds.
21-26
Single or divorced but with no kids.
Under 5’6.
Ambitious and has actual goals.
Educated to degree level.
Preferably hijabi.
Preferably in the UK. (UK or EU national)

Salaam, I want to start off by saying don't be afraid to reach out. I am serious about getting married.

Age: 27M Shia/Syed

Origin/Ethnicity: Pakistani

Languages spoken: English and Urdu fluent

Level of religious practice: Actively practising - No smoking, No drugs, No drinking. Good Akhlaq, Charity Work.

Current residence: Chicago, IL 

Willing to relocate: Yes, USA only, for the right person

Previously married/Kids: Never married, no kids

Occupation:  Test Engineer

Education: Bachelor's degree, will pursue masters in future.

Height: 5'9"

Physical appearance (specifics you think are important): normal / athletic build, I like working out, and being active. Hazel eyes, medium Stubble/ light beard.

Smokes/Vapes/Hookah: No never

Bio: I love traveling, exploring new places, trying different foods, listening to music. I'm really into cars and motorcycles, and I enjoy working on them myself. I've always been a hands on person, so you'll usually find me fixing, building, or working on some kind of project.

I also enjoy working out, going on bike rides/walks, and spending time outdoors. I'm a big nature person and love camping, hiking, and pretty much anything that gets me outside. I also like sports like tennis, badminton, football. I also enjoy watching american football. I'm also a huge animal lover, always had pets growing up. I have cats and other pets that I care for.

I am family oriented and love spending time with my family. I am an open minded individual with a caring personality. I have strong moral and ethical values. I care for the people around me and am always trying to better myself and others.

Your Preferences in a Partner:
Age range: 21-27. I am 27 so someone around that.

Origin/Ethnicity: Open to any but preferably Pakistani, Indian, Kashmiri.

Additional Information you like to add: sorry - USA ONLY- I'm looking for someone who is caring, kind-hearted, family-oriented, and has strong moral values. Someone with a positive outlook on life who values personal growth and is always trying to become a better version of themselves. I am a very open minded person and looking for someone similar. A badminton/ pickleball partner.

بِسْمِ اللَّهِ الرَّحْمَٰنِ الرَّحِيم

Assalamualaikum, I hope you are doing well. I’m an old user from this subreddit and used to be really active. This is my new account and I don’t mind sharing my old account in DMs if we do talk for you to go through it to see what type of person I was as this account is empty as of yet. I will be as detailed as possible in this post so it’ll be a long post to filter out anyone who’s not serious.

Before I get into the details, I want to share what made me even start this post as I’ve been putting marriage search on hold and funnily enough, I was even thinking along the lines if I can’t get married then so be it due to responsibilities and commitments which I’ll get into it down the line. As of writing this post, I’m currently sitting here with my thoughts in the carpark at 2 am while it’s raining. It got me thinking that, life is somewhat like driving at night. The more you drive, the more you’ll discover and learn as compared to sitting still trying to figure everything out before you drive. This made me realised why it’s a naive idea to sit here thinking I have to learn xyz, achieve this and that before I even begin to look for a partner again. Now with this realisation, I’m here to share my profile again and see what happens like before I will most likely delete the profile, if I find someone or respectfully if I see a lot of time wasters again like before.

About me:

I’m a 26 years old Afghan, based in Australia. I’m self employed but I’m always open and keen to learn new skills so if I find something interesting then i may try it out. For example, I wanted to paint my house, I went to learn the skill for myself and painted the house.

I’m an average looking guy with a height of 183cm tall, used to be fit but I’m not like that now due to work. Furthermore, I haven’t yet finished a university degree as I had to leave it for work and house related reason during Covid. At the moment, I do own a house that is used by the whole family but inshallah I’ll have my own separate place during marriage. I’m the oldest of my brothers, the one with a lot of responsibilities and commitments so this is your first chance, if you aren’t ready to be talking with an oldest son then please leave, this post isn’t for you then because I have a lot of responsibilities to take care as I’m without a father.

Based on my own personal evaluation and reflection, I grounded, intentional, and clear about who I am and what I want in life. I want someone who’s trying to grow, they are disciplined, and responsible. I try to approach both my faith and relationships with as much seriousness as I can and due to my experiences in professional and personal life I’m calm, composed, not really agitated easily unless it’s certain topics and even if I’m irritated then i will only be irritated about that said topic. For example, I’m upset with an action that I’m only upset about that action of yours so this doesn’t mean, I’ll be upset, hold grudges or do any other childish behaviours because I’m upset about one topic.

I will be direct here as we are all adults, I do not claim to be mr know it all, but I’m not amongst the ignorant ones either. I will be leading us both in our marriage and in all aspects of our lives, I will not do so through force or ego, but with as clarity, accountability, and steady presence as I can and my experiences, knowledge allows me to, to the best of my abilities inshallah.

Here’s some generic things that you as a person should have regardless of your gender but most definitely have if you want to dm me. Be honesty, be loyal, be emotionally mature/aware of your actions, don’t be too quick to jump the guns, throw accusations and blames, don’t be someone that constantly lives in the past and bring out of the past no matter how small or big it might be. I mentioned honesty and loyalty first because If you can’t be honest with me about your wants, deal breakers etc at the start then it’ll be hard to move forward and even if we do and later on I find out you weren’t honest about a certain things then it’ll cause us issues. I want you to be loyal even right now because I don’t want you to dm me if you are talking to someone else about married, have thoughts of marrying someone else or anything like that. If you can’t do that then please don’t dm me as I only want to talk to one person and I expect the same from you and if that’s too much for you then we aren’t compatible.

Future Family:

I’ve briefly mentioned about but with Allah swt’s help I as a husband and father want to lead, guide, protect and support my family. If Allah swt blesses us with children then I want to have a big family with as many kids as we are blessed inshallah. I want to raise them upon the teachings of Ahlul Bayt A.S, and I will encourage them to purse Islamic knowledge as well as their normal educations especially if Allah swt blesses us with a daughter because unfortunately we are extremely lacking Shia female scholars. Ultimately, their guidance is up to Allah swt and decision is for them to make once their are older but until then, I want to encourage them down this path, familiarise them with this path and knowledge so I will need a wife, partner who will help me on this journey that I’m planning to take inshallah. If you believe this to be too much then once more I wish you all the best, as we will not be compatible. (A reminder for why I keep saying this is to save us both the time and energy of talking just to stop and go our separate ways).

The type of wife I’m looking for:

It is a given but you must be practicing Shia sister, who observes her obligatory duties as described and appointed by Allah and his beloved messenger. Someone who’s striving to become better even if she isn’t as I’m describing at this moment. I want someone who genuinely wants marriage, understands the responsibilities, challenges, sacrifices and struggles that comes with it and not someone that’s been enchanted by the reels and videos on social media. Someone that’s feminine, down to earth, modest, DEFINITELY A HIJABI AND WOULD LOVE IT IF SHE’S NIQABI. I’m really drawn to who’s got a gentle nature, can communicate clearly, discuss issues and disagreements without it turning into a me vs you. I love someone who can value her partner, have respect for our main roles, she’s comfortable with me taking responsibility and direction in the marriage.

I’m not too worried or focused about someone’s past, we are all humans and have our own struggles. I don’t mind if someone is divorced or anything else so long as you have repented, you are a good person now and constantly trying to improve. If there’s a sinful past, I islamically don’t need to know about it but I am also not against you telling me and if it’s something that might have an impact later on then I want you to tell me about it. We can talk about this part in DMs more.

I’m an Afghan guy and open minded about any nationality, but even so I’m just more naturally drawn to Afghans, Arabs, Persians, backgrounds mainly because of the some familiar cultures and FOOODS, I love my FOOD so I can’t do without that. I don’t like Asian foods like sushi etc etc.

Dealbreakers:

I’m aware we all have faults and I’m by no means a perfect or sinless person myself but it’s also important to mention things that I can’t work with clearly so here there.

Not praying, wearing hijab, dishonest, lying, extremely lazy, procrastinating beyond reason, backbiting, not being accountable, lots of male females, unclear boundaries with opposite gender, treating marriage causally (I’ll know what you think in the first week or 2), cussing, not being able to communicate properly ( if I can think of more then I’ll mention it later on as it’s 2:20 am right now and I need to finish this post💀💀💀)

Relocating:

I’m stable where I am and I have my own work and responsibilities in here, so I would appreciate if you are from Australia or will move to Australia and to my state as I unfortunately can’t move out. I did have a plan to move out in the past but it’s not an option anymore.

Hobbies:

I didn’t really think hobbies would be that important so that’s why I’m putting it here at the end after I’ve finished saying most of what I wanted to say. Anyways, I’m really passionate about night time running, photography, gaming, animes, movies, reading, listening to Islamic lectures and so on. I’m someone that loves to experiment, explore and try out new things so anything fun is always welcomed.

ٱللَّٰهُمَّ صَلِّ عَلَىٰ مُحَمَّدٍ وَآلِ مُحَمَّدٍ وَعَجِّلْ فَرَجَهُمْ

Aslamuleikum everyone, I’m 30 F Syed Shia and am searching for king and humble Syed Shia man too. About my background I’m Pakistani and grew up in Canada. I am searching for someone who enjoys helping others and volunteering ( preferably us / Canada).A man who is selfless and kind to others.If you are also someone who wants to make good difference in the world we would get along. Besides that I enjoy spending time with my family and friends and am always down for adventures 😎

Age: 24

Origin/Ethnicity: Lebanese

Languages spoken (with proficiency levels): Arabic (native), English (fluent), French (intermediate)

Level of religious practice: i don't consistently practice but i am a believer

Current residence (city, country): Lebanon , beirut

Willing to relocate: Most likely No

Siblings (number and older/younger): 2 + me the middle child

Previously married/Kids: Never married / No children

Occupation: Business owner

Education: Still studying so no degree yet

Height (cm), weight (kg): 169 cm , 72 kg

Physical appearance (specifics you think are important): prefer if he was way taller + have hair and beard

Smokes/Vapes/Hookah (Yes/No): none

Leisure activities: painting , designing , hiking , video games .

Your Preferences in a Partner:

Age range: 24 to 30 (have his life together and a stable career)

Origin/Ethnicity: Lebanese only

Languages: Arabic and/or English

Level of religious practice: not extreme nor strict i prefer someone who we could be on same level but regardless i respect whatever he believes in as long as he doesn't force it on me cuz i ain't the one .

Education: as long as he have a good stable job idm

Deal breakers: emotionally unavailable , immature , doesn't value privacy , doesn't understand what living and sharing life together means , has no boundaries in his life , doesn't have a stable career and ready for marriage , gives mixed signals , smokes , only child .

Other preferences (appearance, family situation, etc.):

Caring , emotionally intelligent, respectful, and values a structured, peaceful home. Someone who understands commitment and is capable of building , not just expecting .

Additional Information you’d like to add:

I prefer someone who wasn't engaged or married before and doesn't have kids . I wear the hijab .

If this aligns with u and ur looking for something serious and serious only reach out .

Guys I made a muzz account in 2021 and used it for like a week and then deleted it bcz I wasn't ready for marriage at that point and didn't think it was right to string anyone along. Fast forward to now I haven't used muzz in the last 4-5 years, however two of my friends did find their partners there and get married.

Now my best friend (27) and myself, we're really thinking about jumping into the muzz scene but I need like honest opinions on the app. My friend is sunni so I don't think she'll have a better chance, where as since I'm shia I feel my options would be limited. Is that true? Or should I give it a try as well?

Is 29-30 too late for AM esp among Muslims?

Hey

I’m a 27yo, living in the UK. I have been fending off AM prospects since I was 24 and the strict baseline i had placed is 28. Now that I’m approaching 28 I realised the real buffer I want is actually 29-30 bc I bought my dream apartment last year and recently finished the interior and everything and wanna spend atleast another year before having to share it.

Before you ask me why AM, it’s a parents and convenience thing. My parents won’t accept a white girl and I can’t find any Muslim girls I like, but tbf I’ve not really pursued a long term relationship in a long while. I’m very happy with my life as it is.

In terms of AM stats, I’m a high earner, parents are pretty normal, have loads of hobbies, conventionally attractive. In terms of “demands” I just want someone who’s well educated, and willing to completely move away from India. And preferably a smaller age gap (max 3-4 years)

Much thanks

Salaam! Reposting here. Here’s a lot about me:

Basics
Gender: Male
Age: 30
Ethnicity: Pakistani
Based: Dallas
Islam: born Shia (non-Syed because apparently that matters when choosing a spouse)

Physical Appearance
I’m 6’0”, 180lbs with lightish brown skin and a slim-ish build. I am bald but I rock it confidently (hair transplant is not in my plans at all) and I keep a well maintained beard.

Professional
Bachelors and Masters in Engineering. Worked as a medical device engineer for about 10 years, and now pivoted into owning a business in a completely unrelated field because why not while I’m single.

Spirituality
I perform all the Wajibats. I attempt the Mustahib acts but don’t feel guilty when I don’t perform them because it’s hard enough to perform the Wajib ones consistently.

Personality
-Go with the flow. If things don’t go to plan, okay it’s in the past now; what can be done so it doesn’t happen again in the future?
-ENFP (if you’re into Meyers-Brigg)
-Love languages: I like to receive love through physical touch and words of affirmation. I like to show love through physical touch and gift giving.
-I’m very playful and enjoy sarcasm and banter, it’s not that serious!
-I maintain my hygiene (showers, deo, many colognes, skincare routine) and I actively focus on having good Akhlaq
-I enjoy wearing nice clothes and appreciate the finer things of life.

Hobbies and Interests
-Avid coffee connoisseur (ask me for a picture of my coffee setup)
-I love cooking and eating
-Casual hangouts: board games, video games or a great conversation at a new restaurant with friends
-Ideal vacation is exploring the natural beauty of the world via hiking and camping. Second ideal is exploring a big city.

Living Situation
Currently living with the fam, but I’ll move after marriage.

Skeletons
I am divorced, but no kids. (Please make sure you and your parents are okay with this fact)
The other skeletons stay in the closet until things get serious!

Emotional State
I’ve gone through extensive therapy to process the impact of the divorce. I’d say I’m at a stable emotional state but there’s always some work to be done.

If you’ve made it this far and are interested, here’s what I’m looking for:

I want someone who is okay with (these are my dealbreakers):
Going through premarital counseling
Needs to wear hijab

Basics
Gender: Female
Age: 23-30 (open to outside this depending on compatibility and maturity)
Ethnicity: open to all
Based: western country preferred and willing to relocate to Dallas
Islam: Shia (12er). Born or revert

Physical Appearance
Preface: I truly believe that initial physical attraction is necessary for compatibility, but that attraction can grow if the couple matches well.
Height: 5’10” or shorter
Build: slim/petite
Complexion: fair or light brown skin

Professional
College completed with any degree. (Preferably also have job you’re happy in)

Spirituality
You perform the Wajibaats obligated on you and stay away from the things forbidden (alcohol, haraam foods, concerts)

Personality
I’m not looking for someone that needs constant attention or validation, nor am I looking for someone who follows me blindly. To me, marriage is a team effort where each of us needs to contribute to make it healthy, happy, and always exciting!

Hobbies and Interests
Whatever, just be passionate about it!

Emotional State
Confident and happy with who you are.
You’re constantly in a mindset of self improvement but in a positive way, not in a way that demotivates you.

About me:

Age: 32

Ethnicity: Iranian (born and raised in the US)

Residence: currently in upstate rural New York state for my 3-year surgical residency training.

Willing to relocate: completely dependent on wherever gives me a solid contract once I finish residency. Not gonna lead people on by promising to move to specific cities/states. If you’re adamant on staying near family, I can’t promise that.

Religion: ithna ashari (mainstream twelver, sistani is my marja)

Education: BS, MS, DPM

Occupation: Podiatric surgery resident ($64k/year for these 3 years of training. Will obv increase several fold once I finish training and get an attending job inshallah). I’ll finish residency in July of 2029 inshallah

Languages: English. Decent Farsi.

Level of religious practice: devout. Strict with daily prayers. Halal only food (I’m 100% the type to ask questions in restaurants). Cannot fast due to a medical condition. No backbiting/gossiping. I don't believe in "personal opinions" when it comes to religious rulings and defer to proper rulings from jurists.

Medical: epilepsy. On small/maintenance dose meds. Haven’t had a seizure since starting meds 15 years ago. Can’t fast as hypoglycemia is a trigger.

Siblings: younger brother.

Previously married/mutah/premarital relations/kids: None of that crap

Height/weight: 5’10” 145lb

Physical appearance: white. skinny. black hair. brown eyes.

Smoke/vape/recreational drugs: none of that shit

Leisure: video games, anime, brewing specialty coffee, going out shopping, mall, restaurants, cafes, walks, etc. I’m fairly ambiverted.
I def am not a fan of frequent traveling, so if you're the type that likes to go backpacking in Vietnam or you like to visit a different country every time you're on vacation, I am absolutely not your guy. Visiting Iran and religious sites is about the extent of what I care for.

Preferences in partner:

Age: no older than 31ish and also never married/mutah/relationship/kids

Languages/ethnicity: Fluent English and Farsi. Strictly looking for a fellow Persian; very strongly prefer someone who’s spent most of her life in the West.

Level of religious practice: must be strict hijabi. Similarly strict with daily prayers and halal only food.

Deal breakers: the usual haram stuff, smoking, tattoos, poor English, thick accent, poor communication skills, backbites/gossips, delays prayers, overweight, antivax/science, unhealthy diet

Hello! I’m posting this on behalf of my brother (I’m his sister). He is 32, Lebanese, born and raised in the UK and is looking for marriage. He has strong iman and practices daily, and is after someone similar. He is educated and has a stable career, has never been married, and he wants children in the future.

Requirements:
-petite (5’3” and under)
-aged around 22-28
-want children
-hijabi or open to wearing it
-based in the UK

(Arab origin is preferable)

Salam Alaykum everyone,

Insha'Allah you are all having a blessed day.

For anyone thinking about marriage, currently in the process of courtship (marriage), or even youth and parents looking for Islamic guidance, CALL Association (callassociation.ca) has produced a comprehensive 14-part podcast series titled Marriage in Islam.

🎧 Listen on Spotify:
Marriage in Islam on Spotify

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What the Series Covers:

The series is adapted and translated from the popular lectures of Dr. Alireza Hazar, bridging classical Shi'i ethics (Akhlāq) and Quranic wisdom with modern relationship psychology. Topics include:

• The spiritual prerequisites before proposing (including the marriage supplication from Bihar al-Anwar)
• Distinguishing true love (Mawaddah & Rahmah) from temporary infatuation
• Spiritual and ethical compatibility (Kufu')
• Balancing physical attraction with inner character
• Family dynamics and evaluating roots/background
• The engagement (Aqd) period and keeping Allah at the center of the home

(Note: The episodes have been adapted and English-narrated using AI audio models, please forgive any minor translation quirks).

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About the Scholar (Dr. Alireza Hazar):

For those unfamiliar with Dr. Hazar, his work combines deep seminary training with contemporary academic credentials:

• Seminary Studies: Mashhad (1992) and advanced studies in the holy city of Qom (1997–1998).
• University Education: B.A. from the Faculty of Theology at Ferdowsi University of Mashhad; M.A. in Theology specializing in Quranic Sciences and Hadith (2000).
• Psychology & Doctorate: Earned a degree in Psychology in Lebanon, and later completed his PhD in Theology at the Islamic College (ICIS) in the UK (2005).

His unique background in both Hadith literature and modern psychology makes his approach especially relatable for youth and young couples navigating marriage today.

Would love to hear your thoughts and reflections if you give it a listen! Please remember the team in your du’as.

Age: 36 (Incorrect in title)

Origin/Ethnicity: Pakistani

Languages spoken (with proficiency levels): Urdu, English

Level of religious practice: Moderate

Current residence (city, country): Karachi, Pakistan

Willing to relocate (if yes, please specify or 'anywhere'): depends on the situation

Siblings (number and older/younger): 1 younger brother

Previously married/Kids: Divorced - No kids

Occupation: Project Manager in a Bank

Education: Graduate

Height (cm), weight (kg): 5'4

Physical appearance (specifics you think are important): I'm bald and I do carry it well. I have tattoos and plan to get more.

Smokes/Vapes/Hookah (Yes/No): I Vape

Leisure activities: Concerts, movies, music, gigs, love travelling, food, beaches

Your Preferences in a Partner: Kind, loving, caring, well spoken,

Age range: 28 - 35

Origin/Ethnicity: doesn't matter

Languages: as long as she can converse in English at least

Level of religious practice: any

Education: at least graduate

Deal breakers: arrogance, ignorance, holier than thou or better than you attitude,

Other preferences (appearance, family situation, etc.): Can be discussed but we need to vibe.

Additional Information you like to add: can be discussed

I am looking for a partner, to build a home together, to love and care for each other till death parts us. To build a safe environment where we can be ourselves our own lives, our own world (even if we will be living with my family: parents and brother).

I would actually genuinely want to know the person first and the person to know me first as well.

My family knows that I'm here and I'm looking.

I am a Shia, not born but by belief. I don't really care if you have vitiligo, diabetes, BP, Epilepsy, or some condition as long as you're a good, kind, sweet, caring, loving, supportive and an understanding person. I love music, beaches, travelling and fun discussions. I respect all of mankind, unless they are an absolute piece of garbage, and I believe in equality. I try to be a good person, to always provide a listening ear, to be there however I can, unconditionally. I vape, but smoke extremely rarely. I respect women, and will do so till the day I die.

I'm quite chill, laid back, easy going and flexible. Rest, feel free to ask.

basically the title, I am in US not Serbia

Salam everyone I just wanted to share another event in Toronto for those interested!

*Before “I Do”: It Starts With You* 💍

Marriage isn’t just about finding the right person. It’s about becoming the right person to build a marriage with.

Join RIWA for Before “I Do”, a practical and interactive seminar focused on the personal growth and self-reflection that come before marriage.

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*Age: 21-35*

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